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Topic: Are there times when you don't object ...
Marley Joined Mon 10/02/06 Posts: 3922	Fri 04/30/10 06:40 PM
..to being used?

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Fri 04/30/10 06:41 PM
yes

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Fri 04/30/10 06:43 PM
ditto

TheresaInLove05 Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 121	Fri 04/30/10 06:57 PM
the depends on what I'm being used for

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Fri 04/30/10 06:59 PM
yep, don't like being used..just ask, be honest and lets go at it..whatever it is.

TheresMyFriend Joined Sat 05/19/07 Posts: 2565	Fri 04/30/10 07:15 PM
yep, don't like being used..just ask, be honest and lets go at it..whatever it is. What she said, 10X...

Elainalina Joined Tue 04/27/10 Posts: 9	Fri 04/30/10 07:19 PM
People generally like to give rather than have something taken from them. So, being used generally doesn't feel very nice. If I can get myself to look at the situation as if I decided to give, rather than be used, it's lots easier to handle. I try to do this even after I've been 'used'. But, as TheresalnLove05 wisely says: 'that depends on what I'm being used for.'

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Fri 04/30/10 07:24 PM
People generally like to give rather than have something taken from them. So, being used generally doesn't feel very nice. If I can get myself to look at the situation as if I decided to give, rather than be used, it's lots easier to handle. I try to do this even after I've been 'used'. But, as TheresalnLove05 wisely says: 'that depends on what I'm being used for.' Very well said

Shasta1 Joined Wed 09/09/09 Posts: 3308	Fri 04/30/10 07:27 PM
Have always said...I will give anyone the shirt off my back then some, just don't take advantage (expect me too) of it.

TheresaInLove05 Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 121	Fri 04/30/10 07:33 PM
exactly my point (in not so many words there )

TheresaInLove05 Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 121	Fri 04/30/10 07:33 PM
People generally like to give rather than have something taken from them. So, being used generally doesn't feel very nice. If I can get myself to look at the situation as if I decided to give, rather than be used, it's lots easier to handle. I try to do this even after I've been 'used'. But, as TheresalnLove05 wisely says: 'that depends on what I'm being used for.' exactly my point (in not so many words there tongue2) biggrin

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Fri 04/30/10 07:44 PM
Well they would have to move the thread. To answer that.

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Fri 04/30/10 07:53 PM
....hmmmm....I'm a parent....with 25 years and 4 kids in my PHD resume.... being used?....it's a part of the whole.

skydancingA Joined Mon 11/30/09 Posts: 1605	Fri 04/30/10 08:06 PM
"...Are there times when you don't object .." ..to being used? Yes. 2pm and 11pm.

nikita5 Joined Tue 03/24/09 Posts: 2410	Fri 04/30/10 08:30 PM
I can't think of a time I wouldn't mind being used. My quota for BS was reached along time ago.

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Fri 04/30/10 09:40 PM
Relationships, whether with friends or lovers, is all about giving permission, with parameters, to be used.

AndyBgood Joined Thu 12/25/08 Posts: 12437	Fri 04/30/10 10:31 PM
I'm done feeling like a door mat. Better than feeling like a spent condom.

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