Topic: What Are Women Really Looking For?.
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Thu 08/12/10 06:19 AM

I thought they were all looking for their wedding ring that got lost in the male stripper's thongdrawers at that 'bachelorette' party ...
found that, thanks

now I am trying to figure out whether to see a pawn shop or a gold dealer....

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Thu 08/12/10 06:36 AM




Only a fool thinks they control love. When in fact we are all controlled by love. flowerforyou
Speak for yourself.

The only way "love" control us is when we think with our hearts.

Been there, done that and learned my lesson.




So you can just stop thinking with your heart when you want? Interesting.
That's right.

But only if you have a strong mind.

Try it.


Sounds more like you're putting up a wall so other people can't get in and really get to know you. Sure, you can keep yourself at a distance, but is not letting others in when it comes to relationships really the best thing?

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Thu 08/12/10 06:47 AM
They all want to plead their queried case for pages ... Just born for it ...

*rolls eyes and yawns*


Comfort ... Want pure comfort and pleasure ... Emphatically so!



... Hedonists unite!

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Thu 08/12/10 06:48 AM



(PLEASE NOTE: I am not generalizing. All women are not the same)

I don't get it, at times, even when you treat (some)women like gold, they take you for granted.

It doesn't matter how much you bent backwards to please them (some), it's never enough.

If you treat them like Queens and give them everything under the sun, they find faults in you.

But if a good-for-nothing lazy bum without a job, who also threat them like crap, happen to be their mate, those they love forever and threat them like Kings.

So what is it that women want, a decent man who will treat them great or a lazy bad boy who treats them like a door mat?.





If you are toooooo much a pushover, a woman loses respect. She wants to look up to you, not thank you for serving her. Sorry but true.



So true. If a women loses respect for a man, he will never be more than a friend.

Also I believe that every woman wants to be treated uniquely. A step away from the groups and labels herself or others put on her.


I like this comment, Monier because it finally asks us to step away from generalities! Not only is this topic already overdone mutiple times, but each situation is unique. "Women" do not all want the same things as each other because we are all individuals. And, we want about the same thing that a man wants-that is to be loved and treated with consdieration and respect, to be dealt with honestly, and to have our feelings, thoughts and ideas considered seriously rather than dismissed. Inside those parameters there is room for considerable variation

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Thu 08/12/10 10:22 AM

Whip it out, and whack her on the forehead with your penis. She will stay with you forevah!!
I'm ready for a good weenie whackin'!

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Thu 08/12/10 10:35 AM
For me the most honest answer is security. I want to feel safe in your arms. I want to feel secure in the fact that you won't ever want another woman or cheat on me. I want to know that your priorities are straight and the bills will get paid. I want to feel secure in the knowlege that we share the same morals. I want to know that if I'm going through a rough patch in my life that I will always have your love and support. That's the bottom line, make me feel secure.

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Thu 08/12/10 10:36 AM


I thought they were all looking for their wedding ring that got lost in the male stripper's thongdrawers at that 'bachelorette' party ...
found that, thanks

now I am trying to figure out whether to see a pawn shop or a gold dealer....


'Rodrigo' ... she said his name was 'Rodrigo' ...

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Thu 08/12/10 10:50 AM
to quote something I read on Mingle one time (i cannot remember who originated it, but it was not me)....

"women want all things from one man, men want one thing from all women"....

$.02 drinker

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Thu 08/12/10 01:51 PM



I thought they were all looking for their wedding ring that got lost in the male stripper's thongdrawers at that 'bachelorette' party ...
found that, thanks

now I am trying to figure out whether to see a pawn shop or a gold dealer....


'Rodrigo' ... she said his name was 'Rodrigo' ...
yes, I think it was, but I swear there was a folded up sock in there...whoa

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Thu 08/12/10 02:25 PM
laugh

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Thu 08/12/10 05:11 PM
Edited by MikeAngel on Thu 08/12/10 05:27 PM






This is my motto:

There's only one person I love more than I love myself: My mother.

That said, I will NEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEVER love a woman more than I love myself.

Perhaps the reason why I can move on so quickly.

But I will always threat them great.


Ooo, I just noticed this.

I think it should be in your profile. You may save everyone involved a good deal of time and energy.


Loving yourself more than someone you are dating saves yourself pain, headache and heartaches.

What, are you going to tell me that you love those you date more than yourself?.



You can love someone and still make appropriate choices for yourself. Trying to save yourself pain is understandable, but when it prevents you from giving yourself to someone, or letting go, you will never really find love. Allowing yourself to love is a big risk.
I am learning a great deal from you sir. I value your comments.


Then make the check payable to "My Idol". Thank you, thank you very much. LOL.


Its too bad you are so dismissive. You so clearly would benefit from input on your difficult experiences. Page ONE of this thread had some wonderfully insightful comments. When I could see that you didnt even notice them, I tried to point that out. That wall another spoke of is a killer. Being involved with you must be terribly painful... And I guarantee you your mother is concerned for you too.
Take a chill pill, kid, and stop sounding like the world is coming to an end.

You "gurantee"?, HAHAHAHA, my 2 year old nephew favorite "sentence".

Don't be cornerned if my mother is concerned for me, concern yourself if yours is concerned for you.

Geeeezzzz, I guess it's true what people say, that every site has one.


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Thu 08/12/10 05:20 PM





Only a fool thinks they control love. When in fact we are all controlled by love. flowerforyou
Speak for yourself.

The only way "love" control us is when we think with our hearts.

Been there, done that and learned my lesson.




So you can just stop thinking with your heart when you want? Interesting.
That's right.

But only if you have a strong mind.

Try it.


Sounds more like you're putting up a wall so other people can't get in and really get to know you. Sure, you can keep yourself at a distance, but is not letting others in when it comes to relationships really the best thing?
No walls. I do let people in. You are analizing my posts waaaaaaaaaaaaay too much.


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Thu 08/12/10 05:23 PM

For me the most honest answer is security. I want to feel safe in your arms. I want to feel secure in the fact that you won't ever want another woman or cheat on me. I want to know that your priorities are straight and the bills will get paid. I want to feel secure in the knowlege that we share the same morals. I want to know that if I'm going through a rough patch in my life that I will always have your love and support. That's the bottom line, make me feel secure.
MY KIND OF WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!.

I knew there was one out there.


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Thu 08/12/10 05:38 PM
Im looking for something I can wear that will make my boobs look bigger and my a$$ look smaller....any suggestions?

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Thu 08/12/10 06:38 PM
big slong mindless personality and loaded with money

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Thu 08/12/10 06:58 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Thu 08/12/10 07:01 PM

For me the most honest answer is security. I want to feel safe in your arms. I want to feel secure in the fact that you won't ever want another woman or cheat on me. I want to know that your priorities are straight and the bills will get paid. I want to feel secure in the knowlege that we share the same morals. I want to know that if I'm going through a rough patch in my life that I will always have your love and support. That's the bottom line, make me feel secure.


I do all of that for myself. I would never, ever depend on anyone to make me feel secure. That is up to me.

I don't need a man but I want to have a partner in crime. I never want to rely on him nor do I want him to rely on me. Independence is paramount for me. I also hope he is a free, common sense thinker with a spine. I want a partner - not a bully or a child; a person who is my equal.

Knowing I can call him up and fly to Mexico or Vegas on a whim, go rock climbing or to the farmer's market would make me happy. Oh, and really good sex. If I the sex isn’t good than he might as well be a girlfriend. laugh

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Thu 08/12/10 07:42 PM
pitchfork

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Thu 08/12/10 08:07 PM
Edited by MikeAngel on Thu 08/12/10 08:12 PM


Take a chill pill, kid, and stop sounding like the world is coming to an end.

You "gurantee"?, HAHAHAHA, my 2 year old nephew favorite "sentence".

Don't be cornerned if my mother is concerned for me, concern yourself if yours is concerned for you.

Geeeezzzz, I guess it's true what people say, that every site has one.



Gosh, I have high hopes for the world, not sure I get the joke about the nephew, and you brought up your mom, man. If you dont want people to respond to your complaints, I dont understand why you would post them....ooooohhhhhh....never mind.:wink:
I wonder which complains you are talking about.

Happy people don't see them as "complains".

Senor, you are not making sense.

Just sit back and relax a little.

I am not a teacher so if you didn't get what I meant about my nephew, find someone else to explain it to you.


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Thu 08/12/10 08:09 PM

Im looking for something I can wear that will make my boobs look bigger and my a$$ look smaller....any suggestions?
Plastic Surgeon, anyone?.laugh laugh laugh

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Thu 08/12/10 09:02 PM

Im looking for something I can wear that will make my boobs look bigger and my a$$ look smaller....any suggestions?
get knocked up n have an booty lift n reduction