(1) Ladies don't want to have lasting relationship, I am an oldschool type who believes strongly in lasting relationship and marriage. Are there stil people like me?

(2) My friend want to know; Why do fair skin ladies don't like dark men or chocolate skin men?

Yes.

Uh...wait, what?

of course, people believe in all types of relationships,,,although the marital commitment types are probably becoming a minority

fair skin ladies are just as interested in chocolate men
as chocolate men are interested in chocolate women


words of advice, dont settle if marriage is what you want,, better to be happy alone than lower ur values

and

dont sweat small stuff like skin tone,, media has done alot to promote the image of fair skin, long hair, skinny figures as the end all be all and yet there are plenty of healthy women and men who are in loving relationships, plenty of bald folks too,,,so IM sure plenty of CHOCOLATE folks have and do find love as often as anyone else,,,

There are plenty of us who still believe in and long for a fulfilling marriage, but the media and society in general has become so negative about the prospect of lasting committments that it's no longer cool to admit to wanting it. Divorce is too easy with no social stigma left to make people stop to contemplate the full implications of the vows they take when they do marry. Most people seem to say the words without feeling the need to fulfill them. Marriage has become a "for as long as it lasts" proposition rather than "til death do us part." Sad really, but what do you expect when God has been taken out of so many aspects of peoples' lives?

i said those words and meant everyone of them "Till death do us part" was for me

I just want the ladies who want to have one nighters. They come over for a few hours, cook, clean, have sex, get paid, and then leave so I can sleep.

are we talking black and white?
or is it black and lighter black?

You can't generalize all women. That would be a vast number of us.
Not everyone wants the same result in a relationship. There are many types of relationships ya know. i.e. ltr, fwb, fb, etc.....




They aren't attracted to men of darker complexion? Preference...we all have 'em.

Don't take things personally.

People come in different flavors? A chocolate man could come in handy around PMS time.

***shrugs***


maybe.....

and


maybe.....




hope that makes everything clearer for you.

I don't know that it's skin color per sae. Might be an issue with grammar perhaps?

u aren't a lady, I dont think u get a vote, fear


but to the OP - first, I see quite a few racially mixed couples here so not sure what u mean about interracial dating

and yes, a lot of us want a lasting relationship, but times have changed and women do not want a "boss" in their man, but a partner. I think it's been hard for "old school" men to realize that they cannot control their ladies any more - the old model of the man being the "boss" because he brings home the check is for the most part gone. I could be completely off base, but maybe that will help in some way

O no you don't. sex and sleeping only . No cleaning

When "chocolate" ladies are generally willing to date/marry "vanilla" men, then I'll believe that women accept all types of relationships.
[ . . . and I'll believe that Dr. King's dream is closer to coming true.]

Yep. For me and my late wife it was "'til death do us part".
So, that concept is still alive in some of us men.

Oh my Gwad...thats BRILLIANT..!!!
Ill take a dozen as soon as they hit the market....

Can I quote you on that?

I demand the total package. Cleaning is essential. I just like to look at them in the French maids outfit while they pretend to clean.

Each person is different and has different likes and needs. So some marry some don't some like cream some don't.

My x husband of ten years is chocolate. Don't misunderstand preferences. Some chocolates are hot and some are not, Just like vanillas, Some are hot some are not!