I've been single off and on over the years. When I think that I finally found the right one, they always ended up cheating on me.

So the question that I'm wondering is.... How come its so hard for me to find a good woman?

Am I not attactive enough?

Do yall not like a guy that wants to make you happy?

What about me is not appealing?

that is 4 questions, but who is counting-right?


1)being attractive (enough) has NOTHING to do with someone cheating on you!

2)wanting to make someone happy and actually doing it are two different things

3)whining



(no need to thank me, i'm happy to help)

Being attractive enough has to do with someone cheating on you if your attractiveness is all you have to offer. If you attract women who want instant gratification, you must cope with the fact that it's, well, instant. Today it's you, tomorrow it's some other, as the wheel of life turns.

I'll just say welcome from Louisville......

I agree with KC and will add that you haven't given enough information for anyone to really state an opinion... That being said remember it's only opinions which are extremely subjective from one person to another...

Are you looking for women who get validation and self worth from outside themselves? If so ... you are never going to be enough...and it has nothing to do with you.

Cheaters are cheaters for the most part. There are exceptions but not many.

A cheater is going to cheat no matter what their partner does or doesn't do.

You gotta look for the warning signs man, they're always there.

your attitude that all women are going to cheat on you

Well if I were 20 years younger and lived in the States; I would certainly go out with you. Who knows why people do the things they do? I get lots of men interested in me that want a relationship; then in a blink of an eye they changed their mind. Unfortunately that is life. Sure hope you find a gal that is deserving of you. Cheers.

Because, maybe, 'nice guys finish last', this post.

attraction isn't what makes the relationship, that can help start one but won't keep one going

sometimes ones views on making another person happy varies person to person, do you over load a female? text and or call all the time? that can be a little much for some females

plus, I know this is hard, you can't start out thinking, "this person will cheat on me" then its ruined before it even begins. I know that for a face because I have been cheated on enough times and find it hard to trust from the get go.

If finding a good one was easy we wouldn't all be on here looking, would we?

Attractive? That's not what a relationship is about. Chemistry? Lust? Love? Friendship? Understanding? All what we build on. You have to love yourself first; be comfortable in your own life before you will be good for anyone else. Women are attracted to attractive will NOT keep a woman if he isn't confident; loving; and secure with himself. I would agree on one comment; and, I won't validate your looks; but, rather what we look for in relationships.

i think the key problem here is that they ALWAYS END UP CHEATING...
if thats true, then I have to wonder about your choices..

you know, insanity is the fine act of doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.....

I'm not a lady, nor do I know the answers to any of your questions.

But - I would like to add that I think it is hilarious that your profession is listed as "wildlife conservation," and then there are three photos of you with dead animals and a gun!

Oh the irony!

Look at the bright side... at least you don't bring your work home with you, right?

As a woman with personal preferences against hunting, then this is a turnoff. No matter how sweet, attractive, etc. ad nauseaum.

Have to agree on the irony there.

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what type of women do you usually date? how casual do the majority of your relationships start off? are the women of the mind that you are dating exclusively? and are the women youre dating have common (but not completely the same) interests as you? do they care more about you or rather about how you make them feel or what you can do for them?
just curious.

How many times have you been cheated ON?!! If it is habitual, then I would suggest you take a personal inventory of yourself and fix your "picker"!

Your looks have NOTHING to do with being played, and NO we women DO NOT like men that are going to make us HAPPY! We want to be such as miserable as the next woman........cuz misery loves company yanno!

Seriously, work on yourself and the rest will be revealed!