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Topic: mutual match
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Sat 10/02/10 03:35 AM
how do i find out who wants to meet me my profile says someone wants to meet me but when i click on who said yes it goes to profile upgrade page. n also says i hav no mutal matches but that somone wants 2 meet me

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Sat 10/02/10 04:56 AM
Simply a way to get you to look at mutual match...good luckwaving

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Sat 10/02/10 11:30 AM
Just go to your home screen and scroll down to my mutual matches. Don't use that who clicked yes on me...

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Sat 10/02/10 11:52 AM
two old ladies from the mid-west popped up on my mutual match...
noway

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Sat 10/02/10 12:46 PM

two old ladies from the mid-west popped up on my mutual match...
noway

Who you callin an old lady?
drool

charles's photo
Sat 10/02/10 02:50 PM
Welcome, incidius. For knowing who is interested in you, you'll have to go through the Mutual Match process. If you click Yes or Maybe to a person who did the same to your account, a match will be made.

As for knowing who clicked on you, we needed some pull for MinglePlus, so we made this feature for such paid accounts. If you choose to stick with the free version, that's a perfectly good option.

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Tue 10/26/10 01:47 PM
I agree, it appears to be a scam just to get $$ out of you.
I had the same thing; 3 people said they want to meet you. I clicked on the Who said yes link,upgraded to a pay account believing I would see who said yes. All that did was make the "Who said yes" link disappear. It is very misleading and smells like a scam and fraud to me because there's no getting a refund once you discover you're not getting what your led to believe you are paying for.

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Tue 10/26/10 02:29 PM
Hello, WoddyTJ. I just checked your account and the link is still there. Here's the direct URL:
http://mingle2.com/mutual_match/who_is_interested_in_me

I suspect you're simply overlooking the link, which is now toward the bottom of the page below. You can get this page to disappear by clicking the 'Find New Matches Now' button.
http://mingle2.com/mutual_match

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Tue 10/26/10 03:40 PM
Okay Charles, smack me up the side of the head. I've been trying for two days looking for the link. After your reply I hunted again and discovered it depends on how you navigate to MM. I kept using the Mutual Matches area where it states "3 people want to meet you" and didn't realize I have to use the Your Mutual Matches link under the Mail link.

Thank you for your reply.

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Mon 11/15/10 05:11 PM
If I click [ No ] to, "Are you interested in" someone "?" why does someone pop up again?

I use a Mozilla based browser like Firefox. I have a cookie blocker, but allow cookies from mingle2.com. I use a tracker blocker, but I see nothing significant being blocked.

(I'm not against ads or that paranoid, but I have limited bandwidth and CPU. Better computers than I have are thrown away or recycled.)

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Mon 11/15/10 05:17 PM
Hi thomassisson,

Here is how Mutual Match works:


Q. What is Mutual Match?
A. Mutual Match is a simple and fun way to meet people that are interested in meeting you! Here's how it works:

We'll show you profiles, one at a time, of people who match your search preferences.
For each profile, you select "Yes", "No", or "Maybe" when asked if you're interested in meeting him or her.
If you select "Yes" or "Maybe", we'll secretly show them your profile the next time they sign in.
If they indicate that they want to meet you too, you have a Mutual Match! We will email both of you alerting you to your new match
You can then email your new Mutual Match already knowing that you're both interested in meeting each other.
With Mutual Match, you can review profiles quickly and easily, and only send messages to people you have a mutual connection with. How simple is that?

Q. What happens to the profiles to whom I say "Yes" or "Maybe"? Will they know I'm interested in them?
A. If you say "Yes" or "Maybe" to a profile, we'll secretly show them your profile the next time they sign in. They won't know you're interested in them - your profile will be blended in with other random profiles that match their search criteria, and no indication will be given as to which is which.

Q. What happens to profiles to whom I say "No"? Will they find out I rejected them?
A. No. Once you've said "No" to a profile, you won't see that profile again, unless you want to. And we'll never tell them you rejected them. If you regret saying "No" to someone, you can change your search preferences to include all of the profiles you've said "No" to again and choose a new answer if you wish.


http://mingle2.com/mutual_match/faq

Hope this helps,

Kim

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Sat 12/18/10 02:51 PM
Edited by jakec12us on Sat 12/18/10 02:52 PM
I mutual matched with someone and we talked and it just didnt work out....does anyone know how I can get this persons profile off my mutual match section??? Obviously we are no longer mutually interested in one another, how do I erase this person???

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Sat 12/18/10 02:55 PM
Hi jakec12us,

Right now there is a glitch in MM where you can delete members. The techs are aware and are working on it.

When it is working, you can go to MM and click on the next to the picture and they will delete from your list.

Good luck to you,

Kim

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Sat 12/18/10 03:09 PM
jakec12us, keep in mind that the bug being referenced only applies to your Mingle2 home page. As shown on the following page, your matches will be accurate, so only pay attention to it (for now).
http://mingle2.com/mutual_match/your_matches

Welcome to the forums.

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Sat 12/18/10 05:34 PM
awesome...thanx guys,it worked!!!

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Thu 08/06/20 07:53 PM
HELLO. How do you work this to have a private conversation with another?

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Thu 08/06/20 08:25 PM

HELLO. How do you work this to have a private conversation with another?


Puzzled by your question...one to one messages with another member are private...

Ned84's photo
Fri 08/07/20 09:56 PM
How do I initiate a private message here on Mutual Match?

Ned84's photo
Fri 08/07/20 09:57 PM


HELLO. How do you work this to have a private conversation with another?


Puzzled by your question...one to one messages with another member are private...


Is this message private between you and me?

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Fri 08/07/20 09:59 PM

How do I initiate a private message here on Mutual Match?


The same way you would message anyone.

Go to their profile. Scroll down to the message box, type your message and click Send Message.

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