Am wondering what men really love in a woman?

Thanx. Are there any single christian men around?

Am wondering what men really love in a woman?

I love when a woman lets me be myself and doesn't try to change me.

In theory, anyway....

Their scent

The way they look with no clothes on

The way they walk

The way they look at you

The way they cuddle with you

The way they kiss you


More to come ...

Their scent

The way they look with no clothes on

The way they walk

The way they look at you

The way they cuddle with you

The way they kiss you


More to come ...

They love what they can't have, and don't realize what they have before them......

Ohh before you boys come in and say this is not so...... women are the same way...........

Am wondering what men really love in a woman?

rainbowtrout...

for even your selected "rainbow trout" screen name, since ALL things have critical meaning to create a LARGER THAN LIFE perception, show's your destiny is to embrace all the "color's" of the rainbow, or all the species of man, seeing all as equal unto self, which indeed, it cannot be missed, that past pain create's the notion to extract and protect oneself from possible DANGER, backing itself into it's own cave, as man of old dwelled and lived, and doing it now, creates the same "beat em over the head, with words of flattery, and carry em home for dinner, metophorically speaking of course, for the self satisfaction?

as if humans are a candy machine, to dispence the desired commodity, whaterver it may be that each seek?

indeed, why it seems we live in a more degenerated intelligence world each day as we proceed with this mentality as acceptable, and not questioned?

but, as to the cave dwelling, lol...

i like the way you put that, lol...

most it would seem, such is really more a root desire to be back in the safety of the womb itself?

where all was sernene, with no confrontation, and no altercation's, and no one around to have to learn to understand but self, lol...

there is no doubt, that the more emotional pain one experience, the more one fear pain, so the more fear that itself feel, in regards to contact with other human's, and so the more fear, the more it revert to singular self protection mode, which make many and soon all things a suspect?

and so define the other as a possible bandit, to steal all the good of self, lol...

so, the more the inclination to look for more possible "woe's" unto self, in the interaction's one has with all other's, so the more one defends itself, so the more one see other human's as possible negatives to self, thus reducing the insight to a mere portal out of which to view all passer's by, with it's gun in hand in it's cave, the gun of course the human perception, and then the mouth?

in due time, what else can be created, but the howard hughs syndrome, for his self protection mode, became so severe, that he destroyed himself?

give me kleenex, for i may die of germ infestation?

and so the cave dweeler mentality percieve thru the same mentality, some calling it a victim mentality?

for it is not so much the fear of death that envoke manic irrational thought process unto one's own self demise, but rather living believing no one should offend oneself?

the fear of emotional pain induced unto self, from another, that make life not truly ALIVE in due time?

not at all, but rather self always PROTECTING AGAINST THIS?

creating the cave dweller mentality?

the list of possible offenses becomes so large, that this in itself induces many to revert to sucking their thumb, in between sipping on their baby formula, crying over each one that assault self's wants or feelings, lol...

and so, in these days, this as the most valubale insight continue's, for it is so EASY, to find one of the many labels created by man for another, to believe in oneself they are the culprit, the creator of all self's pain...

and so, since all these labels are floating around in the brain of all whom have heard them, such as mean, offensive, hate speech, ugly, nasty, disgusting, vile, repulsive, then if one can find how another COULD fit into one of these "labels", then it is believed, that all words coming from that source are invalid, and of no merit, and consequently, then this mouth or human, seen as having no value, lol...

and then, this somehow induces the human inclination to excuse itself, of all or any possible infraction itself, the greatest root of human ambition, to prove itself "not guilty" of any offense itself?

lol...

and so the quaqmire continue's, that create the lonely and destitute of all true love...

and so, the brain, as itself created itself into how it think, learns nothing most but to store up it's self pain red checkmarks, as a squirrel store up it's nuts, which ultimately creates the urge to cave dwell, or go back to the womb, where all was peaceful, and secure, and there were no hurdle's to try to jump, lol...

but indeed, there is a true reversal of any human process that proves to not supply actual happiness, and if one actually recognize what and how and why it is doing what itself is doing, to create all it's own unhappiness, then perpetual happiness can indeed exist?

it seems nothing can actually reverse such process of human inclination, except for what oneself finds that it really loves, and it seems there be no greater tell to oneself, of what it actually love, except for what self would gladely endure any pain, to spare that other any pain itself?

not that any is supposed to feel as such for another human being, but, if one know that such is indeed, the true sign of love, then anything can know what itself really does love, that make it emerge from the cave with a new passion, not carring the albatross of defending against all possible self pain, lol...

knowing that love is to help, not just to recieve affection for itself, which is the inclination all are born into the world with?

for love is to care for, even if it cost self greatly, just because, and it matter's not what is recieved in return...

for what did the human think, that all were perfect, lol...

to know that love is the willingness to suffer, beside the so called mistakes of another, while each is learning in the school of life, OF WHAT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT TO ITSELF ABOVE ALL, WHICH TAKES TIME, forever changes the human perception, as to what real love be, or not cave dwelling any longer, for this in itself changes all the expectations of any human, and causes one to actually weigh who oneself declares it loves, seeing the magnitude of what real love is?

expect to recieve, and it aint yet love, and can create nothing except a victim mentality, or reverting to primitive cave dwelling mentality?

to me, the only way to think, to not cave dwell, as you so eloquently put it rainbow man...

indeed, there be one that exist for all, that first it feel such passion to care about, that exist in all, and for all, for such is the incredible human passion of caring endlessly, that create all grand good of humanity.

peace

Am wondering what men really love in a woman?

Am wondering what men really love in a woman?