a lot of my friends on here know me and mark was dating, we been together for two years and been living together for close to 3 months, i open my life to this man and this last week or two it has been hard really, he been getting strange text messages at night and i find out he had a one night stand with one of his friends from college and a few days ago he told me i could fool around with my friends the only rule was i most tell him who i am with and what we are doing, the problem is he never told me he did that at all and at first when i found out i was mad at him for it, but now he tells me she is bisexual and she thought i was hot and wanted to go out,

the main truth is i never wanted a open relationship i was happy dating him and having sex with him no other people so what you think of all of this

dump him...unless you like dating liers and cheaters

If you never agreed to an open relationship, he's cheating.

since he got this great job in miami he ask me if i would take custody over elena his daughter that is fine by me, but he keep calling and wanting to fix what had happen and to talk with elena, i don't care if he talks to her but for me i think he is just trying to get back with me trying to show me he is a good guy just did one naughty thing or because i am pregnant with his 3rd child to

Wow I think there is way more to this story then I'm aware of.

you noticed that too, huh...

With all those kids, he better have one danged good job.

one is all most 7 and the second is 3 and the one i been having be the 3rd

GOOD LUCK!

I hope you are young... you need to stop taking the stupid pills he is giving you. How does the girl he slept with being bi change anything? Cuz she thought you were cute? seriously? Sit down and think... if you can make sense of of this, you two are a perfect match.

What was I doing when I was 19...drinking, smoking, and other illicit substances.

Why the hell does everyone get pregnant so young?

Anyway, how long are you going to let him tug your leash before you realize he is just tugging your leash?

something doesn't add up here...where is Steven Hawking when you need him?

weren't you out of the country just a short time ago?

is this the same guy you were seeing there? the same one that you asked if it was a good idea to move in with him if came back here with you? (and most everyone said no!)

if it is, how could you have been with him for 2 years now? if it's not, i would say you were cheating on him while you were there. so now both of you have been unfaithful. (not exactly a firm foundation)

you're 19, why are you thinking of taking custody of any-one's child? and what kind of father does that anyway? i don't care if he is working out of town, that is no reason to give your kid away! not to mention he is about to have his third kid with three different women! what is it about that, that says this guy is good relationship material and even worth debating over?

ok mark is the guy that everyone was telling me not to move in with, but mark has only been with 3 women, his ex wife who is the mother of elena and she is not in this in any way, and he help one of his friends to get pregnant that is the second child then me i am having his 3rd,

mark is going to be traveling a lot and he thought she would do better with me then moving all over and changing schools all the time, she can stay with me and her family here in florida and stay in the same school

tell ya what you need to do is get your life together and face whats coming to ya...first you get knocked up then stuck on stupid,hell nevermind you have more problems than a math book...goodluck

hey that's a great idea. that way he can call or text her to tell her how much he loves her. if he turned down the job and took something else that kept him close to his daughter, that would be bad. and since he already left the first two women in his life, you don't have anything to worry about, because the third time is the charm. (hope everyone notices the sarcasm)

This is a sad, sad case. Shows you what society has come too and how some guys are very good (in a bad way) at manipulating young girls. I really hope that something good can come out of this but it does look very grim.

Hummmmm see now I'm lost thought you just said a few days ago you were pregnant?????????????


And in fact your b/f and you were not even together...........

you know, this was extreemly funny to me, even after the 13th time i read it. but i really have to agree with josh511 on this one. and something good WILL come out of this. dicho, hecho.(said, done)

ok so he is not the guy from your vacation...which means you were cheating on him and yet you care enough about him to have his baby....glad we have that straight.

btw...what happened to girl you were having the long distance relationship with a few months back? you know, the one who found out you had that threesome with out her...oh wait, you have been with this guy for 2 years....right?

i'm sooooo confused.....(webs huh?)