Topic: What are your top 3 things you look for in a mate?
Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 10/27/10 05:13 AM
truth

truth

the whole truth and nothing but the truth






so help you God!:heart:

JimR1's photo
Wed 10/27/10 05:16 AM
The three top things I look for in a relationship are
One... honesty Two.... friendlyness and three.. I am attracted to the woman being the taller one.. I love a tall woman.. Jim

Loy822's photo
Wed 10/27/10 05:17 AM
Humor
Communication
Sensuality

fireflysgirl's photo
Wed 10/27/10 08:01 AM
Sense of humor
Love for animals
Intelligence

the first 3 that came to mind, but there's much more I'd have to have before choosing them as a mate!
I also have name biases and particular zodiac signs that I don't care to date so it gets kinda complicated with me!

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Wed 10/27/10 10:32 AM
compassion
honest/truth
Loving heart

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Wed 10/27/10 06:41 PM

compassion
honest/truth
Loving heart


and here I thought it would be a suitable nest site, glossy feathers, and good fishing waters

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Wed 10/27/10 06:58 PM


compassion
honest/truth
Loving heart


and here I thought it would be a suitable nest site, glossy feathers, and good fishing waters


Indeed it would dear lady. I like that.

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Wed 10/27/10 07:56 PM

I was just talking to a friend of mine that is single as well and we were discussing what we were looking for, and it occured to me I have no idea what I want. I mean number one would be being able to understand my kids come first, and honesty, but what else do you look for? It has been a LONG time since I was on the dating scene...


MUTUAL attraction to ME only, attentiveness, kindness

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Wed 10/27/10 07:57 PM
i look for honesty friendship an someone that can put up with my insane of a family lol

MynDLash's photo
Wed 10/27/10 08:50 PM
honesty, reliableness, and maturity.

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Wed 10/27/10 11:13 PM
well..in my opinion..the three things which i would certainly expect from my partner would be :

1) ample amount of love..she should fill my world with so much love that i never even feel any insecurity or being deprived off..

2) should be extremely understanding..should understand my viewpoints..

3) should stand by me at the worst possible situations..should lay a supporting hand on my shoulder n say "i am there with u,don't worry..whatever comes..we'll face it together n win over it" .. :smile:

david_allen900's photo
Thu 10/28/10 02:03 AM
the things that are most important to me?

Loyalty,
Honesty,
and romantic.

gotta hate people who only think of sex, and i know its wierd for a straight guy to say that, but still...

MrIndependent's photo
Thu 10/28/10 06:02 AM
Only three things I look for? Mmm not in order but:

Mutually stimulating conversation
Respect for another (honesty, understanding is included with this one)
The appearance of the bootysmokin

Abbeylooking4love's photo
Thu 10/28/10 09:45 AM
Well I think u should share the same intress as your partner so you will always have something to talk about. Both of you should have respect of each other. There should be honesty as well

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Thu 10/28/10 07:02 PM
1..is a funny drunk, not a nasty drunk
2..alcohol doesnt impeed an erection
3..has his own money (Ill buy the first round but thats about it)
drinks

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Thu 10/28/10 07:05 PM

1..is a funny drunk, not a nasty drunk
2..alcohol doesnt impeed an erection
3..has his own money (Ill buy the first round but thats about it)
drinks


two outta three ain't bad

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Thu 10/28/10 07:12 PM
surprised

lookingforrealluv76's photo
Thu 10/28/10 07:26 PM
honesty,be loyal,comunication:smile:

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Thu 10/28/10 07:29 PM
truth, sense of humor, and a big package (Wait noway no- I mean security ) YEAh thats it

Tatilove's photo
Thu 10/28/10 07:53 PM
ok... the 3 most important things.

1.Intellectual...
A rational Thinker
(if a person is rational, whenver we're having any problems in the relationship, he will know how to approach it, and we'll be able to take the best decision, like real adults should laugh )

2. Values...
A Respectful person
(simply that because if a person respects you and himself, he will never cheat, lie etc... so you don't have to say he has to be honest, faithful etc... they all fall under this category winking )

3. Physical...
A tall strong man
(Why??? Because I never see myself with someone shorter than I am, and he has to be able to carry me... come onnnnn :tongue: )

Well I gave THE ONE most important in each category. lol
Some people are not realist... or they're just afraid that they'll be seen as jerks to they don't say anything about physical features.

Well there you have it, I like a tall respectful rational man.
ARE YOU OUT THERE??????? lol J/K