Topic: What are your top 3 things you look for in a mate?
tessa68's photo
Fri 10/15/10 08:06 PM
-communication
-contrast
-commitment

BellaV's photo
Tue 10/19/10 12:48 PM
Alpha Male

Humor

Responsible

venusenvy's photo
Tue 10/19/10 12:52 PM
A sparkle in his eye...

A lump in his pants...

A naughty imagination rofl

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 10/19/10 01:18 PM
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WHAT TAMMY LOOKS FOR
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A really heavy dose of sexuality and sensuality

some one to talk to over coffee

some one who nurtures:heart:

RKISIT's photo
Tue 10/19/10 01:31 PM
this is kind of funny,so physical attraction is hardly mention,maybe thats just a given then?

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 10/19/10 01:36 PM
hmmmmmmm ok then

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Tammy's Kind of Look
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stocky----heavyset

hairy

always went for dark eyes...but lately leaning towards blue to offset my green


Not under 5'6

RKISIT's photo
Tue 10/19/10 01:41 PM
Edited by RKISIT on Tue 10/19/10 01:41 PM

hmmmmmmm ok then

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Tammy's Kind of Look
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stocky----heavyset

hairy

always went for dark eyes...but lately leaning towards blue to offset my green


Not under 5'6
well not really what i meant but i would think "am I physically attracted to them?" would be one thing you look for...remember "look" is the key wordflowerforyou

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 10/19/10 01:47 PM
well alot of men are attracted to my looks.....

but that does not mean i am attracted back in any way

and most of them are hot!!!!


so for some one like me.....and i think some others.....

the whole "look " really does not mean that much...yea maybe that spark when first looking at him.....but then ....for me anyway.....I do a whole lot of "feelin":heart:

no photo
Tue 10/19/10 01:50 PM
1. Can't have any of my deal breakers.noway Alcoholic, Drug Addict, Abuser, or Cheater.
2. Honesty no matter what!
3. They have to have a sense of humour.
4. Attractive.

Gullfoss's photo
Tue 10/19/10 01:54 PM
It can't be much fun if you know exactly what you are looking for.. Remember that it's not all about the destination, but it's the journey.

But I know for sure that a man makes me happy through my stomach :)

Good luck all.

no photo
Tue 10/19/10 02:20 PM
How do you summarize that into just 3 things?!

1. romantic/sensual/passionate
2. honest & open
3. caring

And sexy eyes and a hair chest really help!

Rhearabies's photo
Tue 10/19/10 02:37 PM
Dominant male (who is not afraid to submit) :tongue:
Creative
Intelligent

MeChrissy2's photo
Tue 10/19/10 03:53 PM
1. Big Package
2. Small debt
3. Can cook with one hand tied behind his back

motowndowntown's photo
Tue 10/19/10 04:03 PM
1. Can make a really good sandwich.

2. Doesn't fart much in bed.

3. Knows that rebuilding a carburetor in the kitchen sink isn't going to ruin the sink.

ronniejr's photo
Wed 10/20/10 08:34 PM

Kindness, Intelligence, humor, (can I throw in kinky too???) huh huh can I can I please please???? rofl
bring it on.

Sleepless_nights_78's photo
Thu 10/21/10 11:24 PM
1. Someone who treats me the same way that they want to be treated.( so if previous relationships come up, I'll listen to yours, if you listen to mine too.. thats only fare, I think)
2. Someone who understands that it takes two to make it and two to brake it. (50/50 also means a two way street and equal responsability)
3. Someone who has the same interests and who is not afraid to try something new( I know that's two things but they are very important when it comes to relationships that work)
There probably are more that I could come up with but to me these are the most important, once again I've seen friendships fall apart because of these simple things.


rhods's photo
Tue 10/26/10 11:41 PM
communication
sincere
responsible

msharmony's photo
Tue 10/26/10 11:42 PM
sanity
integrity
stability

no photo
Wed 10/27/10 01:45 AM

1. A heart full of compassion.
2. Acceptance of me just as I am.
3. Acceptance of my children.


Good answer
1. acceptance of my son, and he is my blood.
2. Seeing the humor in life
3. Being adventurous enough to face each day.

ujGearhead's photo
Wed 10/27/10 05:09 AM

1. Can make a really good sandwich.

2. Doesn't fart much in bed.

3. Knows that rebuilding a carburetor in the kitchen sink isn't going to ruin the sink.

:thumbsup: