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Topic: Leagues.
chelsea466 Joined Tue 05/11/10 Posts: 5078	Wed 11/10/10 07:14 PM
Do you think that as we all become adults that: The "league" mindframe is still in place? Or Do we see everyone as equals?

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 11/10/10 07:24 PM
In the corporate world, "leagues" or "cliques" still do exist. You see it all the time. Big whigs eat with other big whigs. Brainiacs eat brainiacs. And so on and so forth.

chelsea466 Joined Tue 05/11/10 Posts: 5078	Wed 11/10/10 07:29 PM
ughh.... So I guess if I'm not existant now that is not going to change any time soon.

Rhearabies Joined Sun 10/18/09 Posts: 798	Wed 11/10/10 07:30 PM
Yes, I agree, in the workplace there are definitely clicks...but outside of work, I see all kinds of people relating...maybe cause they can let down their guard more.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Wed 11/10/10 07:36 PM
we pick who we do and don't socialize with or give up who we used to socialize with and move on,is everyone equal well thats up in the air

chelsea466 Joined Tue 05/11/10 Posts: 5078	Wed 11/10/10 07:37 PM
Maybe it's all about insecurities. Some people want to maintain a reputation?

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Wed 11/10/10 07:39 PM
Maybe it's all about insecurities. Some people want to maintain a reputation? could be, this is why we choose

chelsea466 Joined Tue 05/11/10 Posts: 5078	Wed 11/10/10 07:40 PM
very true.

CyPoet Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 12494	Wed 11/10/10 07:42 PM
The sad reality is that there will always be leagues as you mentioned just as there will be social classification of 1)Rich 2)Middle 3)Low.Will this ever change? Highly improbable.

chelsea466 Joined Tue 05/11/10 Posts: 5078	Wed 11/10/10 07:50 PM
It would just be so nice if everyone was treated and seen as equals though.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 11/10/10 07:53 PM
It would just be so nice if everyone was treated and seen as equals though. Phuck that. Goof and Rkisit have no equals. You all suck!

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Wed 11/10/10 07:54 PM
It would just be so nice if everyone was treated and seen as equals though. Phuck that. Goof and Rkisit have no equals. You all suck! right on

HannahHatesBananas Joined Tue 11/17/09 Posts: 6829	Wed 11/10/10 07:57 PM
I suppose they exsist...though I Don't fit into one really. I've always just kind of been friends with everyone. :)

zinger007 Joined Tue 10/26/10 Posts: 134	Wed 11/10/10 07:59 PM
I think the "league" frame of mind as far as dating goes tends to disappear a bit more as we get older. I think once people realize what they once thought was the "perfect" partner, isn't so perfect. The jocks aren't quite so perfect anymore as they're no longer the captain of the football team etc. lol And guys learn that even the most physically perfect women have their flaws and aren't always ideal. I think "league" is more a mindset then anything. If you think someone's out of your league then you'll lack the confidence. What's the worst someone can say to you? No. A lot more women are into guys who're more brain then brawn these days because they want someone who can be responsible and be a good family man and take care of them financially too. I never look at a woman as out of my league. Its all about the confidence. lol

HannahHatesBananas Joined Tue 11/17/09 Posts: 6829	Wed 11/10/10 08:03 PM
I think the "league" frame of mind as far as dating goes tends to disappear a bit more as we get older. I think once people realize what they once thought was the "perfect" partner, isn't so perfect. The jocks aren't quite so perfect anymore as they're no longer the captain of the football team etc. lol And guys learn that even the most physically perfect women have their flaws and aren't always ideal. I think "league" is more a mindset then anything. If you think someone's out of your league then you'll lack the confidence. What's the worst someone can say to you? No. A lot more women are into guys who're more brain then brawn these days because they want someone who can be responsible and be a good family man and take care of them financially too. I never look at a woman as out of my league. Its all about the confidence. lol As far as those kinds of leagues go, I think it's all BS.

Johnyjuan Joined Sat 10/16/10 Posts: 352	Wed 11/10/10 08:04 PM
I think the "league" frame of mind as far as dating goes tends to disappear a bit more as we get older. I think once people realize what they once thought was the "perfect" partner, isn't so perfect. The jocks aren't quite so perfect anymore as they're no longer the captain of the football team etc. lol And guys learn that even the most physically perfect women have their flaws and aren't always ideal. I think "league" is more a mindset then anything. If you think someone's out of your league then you'll lack the confidence. What's the worst someone can say to you? No. A lot more women are into guys who're more brain then brawn these days because they want someone who can be responsible and be a good family man and take care of them financially too. I never look at a woman as out of my league. Its all about the confidence. lol this guy reminds me allot of tony hawk

zinger007 Joined Tue 10/26/10 Posts: 134	Wed 11/10/10 08:08 PM
I think the "league" frame of mind as far as dating goes tends to disappear a bit more as we get older. I think once people realize what they once thought was the "perfect" partner, isn't so perfect. The jocks aren't quite so perfect anymore as they're no longer the captain of the football team etc. lol And guys learn that even the most physically perfect women have their flaws and aren't always ideal. I think "league" is more a mindset then anything. If you think someone's out of your league then you'll lack the confidence. What's the worst someone can say to you? No. A lot more women are into guys who're more brain then brawn these days because they want someone who can be responsible and be a good family man and take care of them financially too. I never look at a woman as out of my league. Its all about the confidence. lol this guy reminds me allot of tony hawk Tell my kids that and they'd laugh and go yeah right, he'd fall on his head if he stepped on a skateboard. lol

Johnyjuan Joined Sat 10/16/10 Posts: 352	Wed 11/10/10 08:10 PM
I think the "league" frame of mind as far as dating goes tends to disappear a bit more as we get older. I think once people realize what they once thought was the "perfect" partner, isn't so perfect. The jocks aren't quite so perfect anymore as they're no longer the captain of the football team etc. lol And guys learn that even the most physically perfect women have their flaws and aren't always ideal. I think "league" is more a mindset then anything. If you think someone's out of your league then you'll lack the confidence. What's the worst someone can say to you? No. A lot more women are into guys who're more brain then brawn these days because they want someone who can be responsible and be a good family man and take care of them financially too. I never look at a woman as out of my league. Its all about the confidence. lol this guy reminds me allot of tony hawk Tell my kids that and they'd laugh and go yeah right, he'd fall on his head if he stepped on a skateboard. lol maybe you dont have the skills but you looks like that bird man =)

zinger007 Joined Tue 10/26/10 Posts: 134	Wed 11/10/10 08:15 PM
I think the "league" frame of mind as far as dating goes tends to disappear a bit more as we get older. I think once people realize what they once thought was the "perfect" partner, isn't so perfect. The jocks aren't quite so perfect anymore as they're no longer the captain of the football team etc. lol And guys learn that even the most physically perfect women have their flaws and aren't always ideal. I think "league" is more a mindset then anything. If you think someone's out of your league then you'll lack the confidence. What's the worst someone can say to you? No. A lot more women are into guys who're more brain then brawn these days because they want someone who can be responsible and be a good family man and take care of them financially too. I never look at a woman as out of my league. Its all about the confidence. lol this guy reminds me allot of tony hawk Tell my kids that and they'd laugh and go yeah right, he'd fall on his head if he stepped on a skateboard. lol maybe you dont have the skills but you looks like that bird man =) Now if only I had his bank account. LOL

Johnyjuan Joined Sat 10/16/10 Posts: 352	Wed 11/10/10 08:19 PM
I think the "league" frame of mind as far as dating goes tends to disappear a bit more as we get older. I think once people realize what they once thought was the "perfect" partner, isn't so perfect. The jocks aren't quite so perfect anymore as they're no longer the captain of the football team etc. lol And guys learn that even the most physically perfect women have their flaws and aren't always ideal. I think "league" is more a mindset then anything. If you think someone's out of your league then you'll lack the confidence. What's the worst someone can say to you? No. A lot more women are into guys who're more brain then brawn these days because they want someone who can be responsible and be a good family man and take care of them financially too. I never look at a woman as out of my league. Its all about the confidence. lol this guy reminds me allot of tony hawk Tell my kids that and they'd laugh and go yeah right, he'd fall on his head if he stepped on a skateboard. lol maybe you dont have the skills but you looks like that bird man =) Now if only I had his bank account. LOL are you thinking what im thinking?? Identy theft?? it's not to late haha =)