Topic: Roles Reversed Women Persue Men...
ronsupercharge's photo
Wed 11/24/10 11:12 AM
You stand corrected. Your mistaken. I did'nt have the
technology until just recently. I took "basic computer training"
at the "Hispanic Chamber of Commerce". This is a new computer.

Seakolony's photo
Wed 11/24/10 11:25 AM



my old one wont let me on anymore so i started a new one


You aren't using a new account.


i put those two pixs on this new one ok please

What she is saying is the yhe date you joined the site it November 10th 2009.....you are not new to this site and are showing 49 posts in the last year....which basically is your fault for not posting more but you are not using a new account.........its kind of like your date of birth your joined date stays with you.....

Seakolony's photo
Wed 11/24/10 11:27 AM

You stand corrected. Your mistaken. I did'nt have the
technology until just recently. I took "basic computer training"
at the "Hispanic Chamber of Commerce". This is a new computer.

Nice good for you.....but she want talking about you we can see you joined the site on 11/23/2010......and can tell you are a new member to the site......

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 11/24/10 12:38 PM
If I get hit on I would automatically assume they were an alien and I would kill them...which is different than when I invite them over for dinner, I don't assume they are aliens, I just stuff them in my sto...erhm...

newarkjw's photo
Wed 11/24/10 12:42 PM

Women initiating contact with men??? surprised Wow, I hope I live to see that. That would be totally awesome. :thumbsup:

Of course, I'd still totally blow it, but it would be nice to have that kind of change.biggrin


Funny....laugh

actionlynx's photo
Wed 11/24/10 01:28 PM
Honestly, I've had a number of women hit on me. One I dated for about a year. Turned down at least two right away. Another one, well....it didn't work out, but I still know her, and we're on friendly terms. And then most recently here on Mingle...

Jono70's photo
Wed 11/24/10 01:34 PM
Actually I think it's kinda hot when a woman goes for it first, tells me right away they are interested, I'm normally not the type of guy to continue bugging a girl if she doesn't seem interested, it is a nice change.

A few of ex's made the first move but then I start thinking... they are ex's for a reason... wonder if that's related...

msharmony's photo
Wed 11/24/10 02:35 PM
its all personal preference, many women like myself prefer a guy who is a leader and the first indication of that is that they have the courage to approach

nothing better or worse about either situation, its just all personal preference

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 11/24/10 02:36 PM
Hummm I have in the past initiated contact with a few but needless nothing happen.... But I still prefer the old fashion way..... shshsh the way it is now the guys want the women to initiate the meet decide were to go pay their part and get pissed if they don't get laid...... noway noway noway noway :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: So what is left for the guys to do if they want the women to do it all.....

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 11/24/10 03:39 PM

Hummm I have in the past initiated contact with a few but needless nothing happen.... But I still prefer the old fashion way..... shshsh the way it is now the guys want the women to initiate the meet decide were to go pay their part and get pissed if they don't get laid...... noway noway noway noway :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: So what is left for the guys to do if they want the women to do it all.....


Watch TV. ohwell


Goofball73's photo
Wed 11/24/10 04:32 PM
I adore being chased! :thumbsup:

krupa's photo
Wed 11/24/10 05:20 PM

Hummm I have in the past initiated contact with a few but needless nothing happen.... But I still prefer the old fashion way..... shshsh the way it is now the guys want the women to initiate the meet decide were to go pay their part and get pissed if they don't get laid...... noway noway noway noway :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: So what is left for the guys to do if they want the women to do it all.....


Like that is soooooooo much to ask!


as opposed to the ladies wanting me to approach them, I gotta pick a place, I gotta pay, then drinks and dancing and then they expect me to put out too.... it is a double standard I say!!!!!!

"laughing: :laughing: So what is left for the guys to do if they want the women to do it all....."....believe me...if guys could suck thier own **** we wouldnt even be having this conversation.

Ladylid2012's photo
Wed 11/24/10 05:23 PM
If I'm interested their gonna know it...life is too short for guessing games.

no photo
Wed 11/24/10 06:42 PM
The whole waiting game is silly for men and women. Why wait around and hope they ask you out?

doctorsmith20000's photo
Thu 11/25/10 06:50 AM
You would have more dates if you asked the man out.

actionlynx's photo
Thu 11/25/10 08:16 AM


You would have more dates if you asked the man out.

certainly. it increases supply.


And the demand of the man in question.

Does that mean there will be a rise in cat-fights? what spock

mightymoe's photo
Thu 11/25/10 09:43 AM

Personally, I wasn't raised to chase men.....so no I would never chase or ask a man out.......


you ask me out anytime, i won't say no...

motowndowntown's photo
Thu 11/25/10 09:48 AM
He!! I just take a walk downtown and I have women on every corner asking me if I'm needing a "date" for the evening.

actionlynx's photo
Thu 11/25/10 06:40 PM
Cool. I wanna be the bookie when they start breaking out.pitchfork

no photo
Fri 11/26/10 10:39 PM
They actually have at least one dating webiste dedicated to this, h e r way.com The guys can;t see the womens profile suntil the women message them or "wink at then.
I may be old fashioned, But I might send a messgae to someone saying "Hi" SO they might get the clue I;m interested.