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All this "call him and tell him how you feel" stuff is just lame. Seriously. If you do that. Call him, and tell him that "I really like you, I feel something is there, and I like you", then you set yourself up for a HUGE failure. So, don't do it.
Instead. If you felt something there between you and him, then chances are he probably did too. You need to feel him out right now. Don't rush in. And don't seem needy. You have to be able to show that you aren't needy, or clingy, or (GASP) desperate (Not saying you are. Just saying you do not wanna give off the impression here. There is a difference). Plus, you also need to realize that it took him a month...one month...to find a girlfriend. You stated that you felt he gave the impression he would wait for you. Well, some guys can do this, but most only say it. Fact is, when we are single, we dudes will look and if someone catches our eye, we will go for it. Make sure you catch his eye. Make him pursue you. It's the only way you will know if he truly does want to date you. |
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All this "call him and tell him how you feel" stuff is just lame. Seriously. If you do that. Call him, and tell him that "I really like you, I feel something is there, and I like you", then you set yourself up for a HUGE failure. So, don't do it. Instead. If you felt something there between you and him, then chances are he probably did too. You need to feel him out right now. Don't rush in. And don't seem needy. You have to be able to show that you aren't needy, or clingy, or (GASP) desperate (Not saying you are. Just saying you do not wanna give off the impression here. There is a difference). Plus, you also need to realize that it took him a month...one month...to find a girlfriend. You stated that you felt he gave the impression he would wait for you. Well, some guys can do this, but most only say it. Fact is, when we are single, we dudes will look and if someone catches our eye, we will go for it. Make sure you catch his eye. Make him pursue you. It's the only way you will know if he truly does want to date you.  Nothing like a little truth to poke you in the a**.
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All this "call him and tell him how you feel" stuff is just lame. Seriously. If you do that. Call him, and tell him that "I really like you, I feel something is there, and I like you", then you set yourself up for a HUGE failure. So, don't do it. Instead. If you felt something there between you and him, then chances are he probably did too. You need to feel him out right now. Don't rush in. And don't seem needy. You have to be able to show that you aren't needy, or clingy, or (GASP) desperate (Not saying you are. Just saying you do not wanna give off the impression here. There is a difference). Plus, you also need to realize that it took him a month...one month...to find a girlfriend. You stated that you felt he gave the impression he would wait for you. Well, some guys can do this, but most only say it. Fact is, when we are single, we dudes will look and if someone catches our eye, we will go for it. Make sure you catch his eye. Make him pursue you. It's the only way you will know if he truly does want to date you. goofball...I think you have given the best advice here yet...thank you! |
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That's cause I phucking rule!
 
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lol u must..but i think i'm gonna try it your way and see how it goes
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What???? I am a little busy Goof so if you could just slap the schitt out of yourself..I will apprecieate it. Thanks Bro. :) |
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Krupa....in the time it took you to write that post you could have slapped me. Use your time wisely good sir. :)
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lol u must..but i think i'm gonna try it your way and see how it goes don't forget tho - Goof is a manho - just for a little perspective... |
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If you want something- You must go for it!!!!
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lol u must..but i think i'm gonna try it your way and see how it goes don't forget tho - Goof is a manho - just for a little perspective... Quiet you! I am learning this young one on the ways to get her man. Back to your corner! |
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lol u must..but i think i'm gonna try it your way and see how it goes don't forget tho - Goof is a manho - just for a little perspective... Quiet you! I am learning this young one on the ways to get her man. Back to your corner! 
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Listen to Goof he is right on this one.
 And yes you do phucking rule Goof. 
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???? What???? I am a little busy Goof so if you could just slap the schitt out of yourself..I will apprecieate it. Thanks Bro. :) haha sir while your advice defiantly would catch his attention, I don't think it is quite right to just go up and give a bj in this situation...I want a relationship, not a phuck buddy |
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Let me say something else here. When it comes to relationships, it's hard to know what the right play is (Ok. Sometimes it is easy, but most of the time it isn't). I'm not suggesting a "play hard to get" act on your part. I am saying to feel the guy out. Be confident, and sexy when you see him. Laugh at the silly things he says. Enjoy your time with him, even if you start to get a bad vibe. If you feel him out, and come away feeling that there is something there between you and him, then you go to step two.....making sure he asks you out. Trust me. If he is into you, then he will.....especially if when after he sees you he can't stop thinking about you, he will call you and ask you out. If he doesn't.....he has no spine! Lol!
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the only thing is that i haven't seen him since i told him i wasn't ready for a relationship and i don't see him because he is a friend of a friend
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Ok. Then you need to figure out how to see him...but in a group/casual setting. Maybe in a group of friends and you all go to see a flick. Make sure you make eye contact with him, talk to him, but don't over due it. Just act friendly and nice. Read his eyes, and get a vibe from him. Trust me. If he is into you, you will know.
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Yeah, men are not hard to read. Take Goofball's and bulldog's advice.
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facebook must be messin up cause i can't find the convo of his relationship status anymore i wish facebook was reliable like mingle  Chances are that he deleted it. Perhaps he wants to move on. I delete old relationship convos from facebook if I am single. I don't want any new people that I meet to read my relationship history like a book. There is no time like the present. Get in there and talk to him right now. |
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lol u must..but i think i'm gonna try it your way and see how it goes don't forget tho - Goof is a manho - just for a little perspective... Quiet you! I am learning this young one on the ways to get her man. Back to your corner! he loves to discipline me
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the only thing is that i haven't seen him since i told him i wasn't ready for a relationship and i don't see him because he is a friend of a friend that's why I said what I said - (read back to what I said earlier) - combine that with what Goof just said just above here |
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