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Topic: blah, blah, blah...True Love
Shayna1978 Joined Fri 02/04/11 Posts: 546	Fri 07/01/11 11:29 AM
Why is everyone so desperate for the love connection? Why can't someone for once say, "Hey, looking for good friends who like..."? It would just be nice if someone would actually be looking for common ground first, instead of "please love me because I need to f*** bad and/or get a green card". ESPECIALLY, the ones who have only been here five seconds. Okay....my disdain has been drained, time for some optimistic thoughts. I love you all, now that you all have love, go find someone you like and get along with. :)

Lunali Joined Mon 02/14/11 Posts: 361	Fri 07/01/11 01:16 PM
Why is everyone so desperate for the love connection? Why can't someone for once say, "Hey, looking for good friends who like..."? It would just be nice if someone would actually be looking for common ground first, instead of "please love me because I need to f*** bad and/or get a green card". ESPECIALLY, the ones who have only been here five seconds. Okay....my disdain has been drained, time for some optimistic thoughts. I love you all, now that you all have love, go find someone you like and get along with. :) Haha, you aren't the only one who thinks about that. I'm actually looking for strictly platonic relationships, and a lot of people are looking for love, when I'm not. And of course, people do message me because they want to try out a love connection with me, and I'm simply uninterested. But friends are good, to me, they are far more then a relationship which is uncertain because I've only known the person a day longer then we've gone out. But that's just my honest opinion.

Troublebug Joined Sat 09/11/10 Posts: 10912	Fri 07/01/11 01:22 PM
Stick around a few months on these forums , you will make good friends. I LOVE the people I now call my friends from here.............all over the world. So no love connection. it will happen when it happens. Some people come on here then wonder why they haven;t been contacted by 1,000 people the first week. I mean come on really. If they are beating down your door in real life, whats makes you think online will be any faster. Hang out and make some good friends

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Fri 07/01/11 01:26 PM
Why is everyone so desperate for the love connection? Why can't someone for once say, "Hey, looking for good friends who like..."? It would just be nice if someone would actually be looking for common ground first, instead of "please love me because I need to f*** bad and/or get a green card". ESPECIALLY, the ones who have only been here five seconds. Okay....my disdain has been drained, time for some optimistic thoughts. I love you all, now that you all have love, go find someone you like and get along with. :) What about romantic friendships?

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Fri 07/01/11 03:44 PM
hmmmm.....I was not looking for anything....I'm still not. I was in love before I joined here...(in love with life)...I'm still in love...(with life)...and also the partner who has presented.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Fri 07/01/11 04:03 PM
Why is everyone so desperate for the love connection? Why can't someone for once say, "Hey, looking for good friends who like..."? It would just be nice if someone would actually be looking for common ground first, instead of "please love me because I need to f*** bad and/or get a green card". ESPECIALLY, the ones who have only been here five seconds. Okay....my disdain has been drained, time for some optimistic thoughts. I love you all, now that you all have love, go find someone you like and get along with. :) Not all of us are looking for a love connection; I am here on Mingles as a place to chat and have a few laughs.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Fri 07/01/11 04:55 PM
what in the hell do i need friends for i have enough of them,i'm single and want a woman to love and her love me back.yeah start off as "friends" but if she starts this friend zone chit...cya.

eileena9 Joined Fri 04/13/07 Posts: 28211	Fri 07/01/11 05:01 PM
what in the hell do i need friends for i have enough of them,i'm single and want a woman to love and her love me back.yeah start off as "friends" but if she starts this friend zone chit...cya. So I guess that is why you don't talk to me anymore.... .... I put you in the "Friend-zone". Thanks OVBM Lori

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Fri 07/01/11 05:03 PM
Haha, you aren't the only one who thinks about that. I'm actually looking for strictly platonic relationships Me three.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Fri 07/01/11 05:08 PM Edited by RKISIT on Fri 07/01/11 05:09 PM
what in the hell do i need friends for i have enough of them,i'm single and want a woman to love and her love me back.yeah start off as "friends" but if she starts this friend zone chit...cya. So I guess that is why you don't talk to me anymore.... .... I put you in the "Friend-zone". Thanks OVBM Lori i don't talk to ya cause i hardly ever see you on. btw i had to move out of the house cause of a sinkhole,so the verticle blind thats missing is now just in a photo in my profile,so cherish it,love it and throw it in your friend zone....lol

ybcat1 Joined Sat 12/29/07 Posts: 530	Fri 07/01/11 05:57 PM
Isn't that mostly what these site or for? No offense but I like making friends, but I don't come on a dating site to find them. It's best to not be impatience, be very careful and love will come your way.

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Fri 07/01/11 06:01 PM
Why is everyone so desperate for the love connection? Why can't someone for once say, "Hey, looking for good friends who like..."? It would just be nice if someone would actually be looking for common ground first, instead of "please love me because I need to f*** bad and/or get a green card". ESPECIALLY, the ones who have only been here five seconds. Okay....my disdain has been drained, time for some optimistic thoughts. I love you all, now that you all have love, go find someone you like and get along with. :) Love leads to Lust Lust leads to Sex Sex leads to Oral Oral leads to Roberts and Roberts is the Chief Justice of the Supreme Court!!

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Fri 07/01/11 06:19 PM
Love leads to Lust WRONG! Lust and love are two different things. Lust is selfish, love is selfless.

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Fri 07/01/11 06:22 PM
Speak for yourself! My Lust knows no bounds!! It is truly selfless lust.

Alterette Joined Mon 06/06/11 Posts: 1600	Fri 07/01/11 07:03 PM
I joined to make friends to hang out with in a state I've never lived in before. I already feel a real connection to some of the people (male and female) I've met in the community boards; I love it here. However, I've actually "met" someone I really like and if it ends up in a romantic relationship, I'm totally open to it. Won't stop me from posting on the boards though; because this is where I'm finding friends from all over. Y'all are my kind of crazy!

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Fri 07/01/11 07:49 PM
hmmmm.....I was not looking for anything....I'm still not. I was in love before I joined here...(in love with life)...I'm still in love...(with life)...and also the partner who has presented. Same here...Well, other than the in love with life ****.

Shayna1978 Joined Fri 02/04/11 Posts: 546	Fri 07/01/11 08:31 PM
Isn't that mostly what these site or for? No offense but I like making friends, but I don't come on a dating site to find them. It's best to not be impatience, be very careful and love will come your way. I was mostly just ranting at the people who were on here for all of five seconds and post about 'looking for love' like some kind of ad agency. As far as friends are concerned. I'm a little limited by my location. I live in a small town, stuck in a state that requires a love of pepper hot mud bugs, swamp pop, and crappy diction. So I value the connections I've had online that don't require 'sex' talk or 'love crap'. For instance: Anyone play chess?

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Fri 07/01/11 08:37 PM
Speak for yourself! My Lust knows no bounds!! It is truly selfless lust.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Fri 07/01/11 08:41 PM
Isn't that mostly what these site or for? No offense but I like making friends, but I don't come on a dating site to find them. It's best to not be impatience, be very careful and love will come your way. I was mostly just ranting at the people who were on here for all of five seconds and post about 'looking for love' like some kind of ad agency. As far as friends are concerned. I'm a little limited by my location. I live in a small town, stuck in a state that requires a love of pepper hot mud bugs, swamp pop, and crappy diction. So I value the connections I've had online that don't require 'sex' talk or 'love crap'. For instance: Anyone play chess? I love chess! It's one of the few things I'm terrible at, but actually enjoy.

paul1217 Joined Fri 01/29/10 Posts: 904	Fri 07/01/11 08:44 PM
I would love to find someone I can get along with first. The problem I always run into is I become close friends and then they are afraid to ruin the friendship. Then I have to watch them have ... with guys who treat them like crap. Guess what, eventually the friendship changes either wa y!