Topic: Why is all the nice guys always taken
Niceladyrealy's photo
Tue 08/09/11 06:44 AM

I came from a site called connecting singles so when I came here naturally I thought there would be a lot of singles. I wonder if connecting mingles might be a good name for a site. Did you come from another site before you got here and if you did what was it like?
yes, iwas on another single dating site,but it was a south african site,hence i prefer mingle,to get in contact with people from other countries. I like the mingle site,the other shites didnt had forums, its a nice place to geto know people better.

joy4gud's photo
Tue 08/09/11 07:16 AM


Why is all the nice guys always taken


It's because there are more nice gals in search for nice guys who are becoming less in numbers laugh

Peace... mingle guys noway we all know that's not true smokin

sure word migler, sure word!
:banana: :banana: :banana:

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Tue 08/09/11 08:02 AM
what? Are nice guys really taken? P.S im single drinker

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Tue 08/09/11 08:02 AM

We are taken because we are so effing awesome and we only come into season once in a blue moon.


laugh laugh laugh Lionsbrew you are SO right.

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Tue 08/09/11 08:14 AM
Ok Here's my

niceladyreally. When you start to speak to someone new, make sure you read their profile. Then you might want to ask them casually what they are on mingle for- friends, dating, acquaintances. And I know your ready to get married and all, but for your own sake you need to take it easy and not rush. Trust me when I say that even relationships that have taken years to get into sometimes fall apart. Be careful and dont; get hurt.
And for the record there are tons of nice guys on here, Alot do not come onto the forums. My guy has never been on the forums. Good Lcuk on your search, another obstacle you have is the distance of where you live. I know your profile says your willing to move, that may scare away some men. Or worse attract the wrong kind.
Be careful and be safe.

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Tue 08/09/11 08:44 AM




I just wanted to point out that there is probably a direct correlation between how she portrays herself on this site, and the fact that she can't find a "nice" guy.

you obviosly dont read al my post.cause im always nice and suportive towards others, i have started many threads to suport felow minglrs and provide good advise to many. And there has been some nice guys chatting me up. I was just disapointd and surprisd finding outhat some1 iwas interestd wasnt singl.and i am very picky when it gets to the guys im interestd in,he must be really nice,sigh and this one was matching my loong list of criteria,alas hes taken,anyways doesnt matr,now i realize all people on mingl are not singl. I am single though.anyways not giving up on my search somewhere theres a nice single guy thats perfect for me. And surely you wil find what your looking4too. And please tel those thatare rude2me to stop being rude,what good wil itdo you to be rude,to a nicelady,really.
Im sorry, I was only kidding!flowerforyou

(great, now I feel like chit)sad


Can I feel you cuz you don't look like chit??bigsmile
I should cause I acted like chit!sad

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Tue 08/09/11 08:52 AM
AWWWW Luv

I still love ya, your my Biotch!!

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Tue 08/09/11 08:59 AM

AWWWW Luv

I still love ya, your my Biotch!!
I am learning at this late stage in life, to think before I open my BIG mouth. That "Foot in Mouth" thing was right on the money!

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Tue 08/09/11 09:00 AM


I just wanted to point out that there is probably a direct correlation between how she portrays herself on this site, and the fact that she can't find a "nice" guy.

you obviosly dont read al my post.cause im always nice and suportive towards others, i have started many threads to suport felow minglrs and provide good advise to many. And there has been some nice guys chatting me up. I was just disapointd and surprisd finding outhat some1 iwas interestd wasnt singl.and i am very picky when it gets to the guys im interestd in,he must be really nice,sigh and this one was matching my loong list of criteria,alas hes taken,anyways doesnt matr,now i realize all people on mingl are not singl. I am single though.anyways not giving up on my search somewhere theres a nice single guy thats perfect for me. And surely you wil find what your looking4too. And please tel those thatare rude2me to stop being rude,what good wil itdo you to be rude,to a nicelady,really.

How long is your criteria LIST?
I mean we all want the the "perfect" mate , but trust me ...that doesn't exist.
Everybody has flaws , some are easier to deal with than others.
Maybe and I am just saying maybe you are looking for way to much and your expectations are set too high.
Is this possible?

Niceladyrealy's photo
Tue 08/09/11 12:05 PM




I just wanted to point out that there is probably a direct correlation between how she portrays herself on this site, and the fact that she can't find a "nice" guy.

you obviosly dont read al my post.cause im always nice and suportive towards others, i have started many threads to suport felow minglrs and provide good advise to many. And there has been some nice guys chatting me up. I was just disapointd and surprisd finding outhat some1 iwas interestd wasnt singl.and i am very picky when it gets to the guys im interestd in,he must be really nice,sigh and this one was matching my loong list of criteria,alas hes taken,anyways doesnt matr,now i realize all people on mingl are not singl. I am single though.anyways not giving up on my search somewhere theres a nice single guy thats perfect for me. And surely you wil find what your looking4too. And please tel those thatare rude2me to stop being rude,what good wil itdo you to be rude,to a nicelady,really.


I couldn't handle reading all your posts!!!

Are half of the letters on your keyboard missing?? I get internet slang, but COME ON!!!
Be nice, we hurt her feelings!flowerforyou Just sayin.
i have no problem with positive criticsm.so long nobody defame. Thank you for bringing my typing to my attention. I did not know it was a problem. When i have time i will write out all the letters from all the long words. Istill think they should have made those wordshorter.

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Tue 08/09/11 12:11 PM

what? Are nice guys really taken? P.S im single drinker


Yeah, I'm single too, although I really wouldn't qualify as a "nice guy"....


Tommo's photo
Tue 08/09/11 12:25 PM
What is the modern day definition of nice guy?

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Tue 08/09/11 12:30 PM
Nice guys are still out there. Were just not as pushy as the average piece of **** single men.

frn12345's photo
Tue 08/09/11 12:32 PM
>What is the modern day definition of nice guy?

You walk up to him, and he steps back.

You step closer; he backs up further.

You continue, his back is against the wall.

You look him in the eye, he looks down.





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Tue 08/09/11 02:06 PM
Well not all nice guys are taken,everyone tells me I'm a nice guy but that don't help me any,most of the women (like men)are looking for a certain kind of partner,good looking,has money,and almost perfect and I'm just as bad,I'd like to have a good looking woman that would like to have a not the great a looking guy that does not have alot of money,or a nice car and not that smart,but would not cheat on her and try to treat her right,most of the women I've talked to on here that became my friend lives too far away,so I don't guess I'll meet someone on here.I'm not good at writing or putting my words like they need to be so please don't remark with comments they make me sound dummer then I am.Good luck everyone!I won't be on here much longer,I'm giving up.sad2

seamac's photo
Tue 08/09/11 02:56 PM
We can all meet nice guys (or women) and losers here or in our 'real' lives. I met a man many weeks ago at work, a customer, I was involved so paid his attentions no mind. Today I finally agreed to meet him in a public place for a walk. All was ok until he said "we have to keep this between us because you work with my wife". Seriously he is going to trust me, a stranger with this secret. Dumbness on a grand scale. More importantly I told him that I had no idea he is married, that cheating is stupid and mean and said a fast bye bye.

So this is a fun site with lots of good people who do care about their friends here. Have fun with it, if your nice guy is here hopefully you will find each other and live happily ever after.

I have been away for the most part for some time now but am trying to find my friends here again. I vow never to try a LDR again, didn't want it in the first place but it happened anyway. Never again! And Yes sometimes you can say 'never'.

There are nice guys, we have to believe that in the face of so much evidence to the contrary!!! LOL

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Tue 08/09/11 03:46 PM

Well not all nice guys are taken,everyone tells
me I'm a nice guy but that don't help me any,
most of the women (like men)are looking for a
certain kind of partner,good looking,has money,
and almost perfect and I'm just as bad,I'd like
to have a good looking woman that would like to
have a not the great a looking guy that does
not have alot of money,or a nice car and not
that smart,but would not cheat on her and try
to treat her right,most of the women I've talked
to on here that became my friend lives too far
away,so I don't guess I'll meet someone on here.
I'm not good at writing or putting my words like
they need to be so please don't remark with
comments they make me sound dummer then I am.
Good luck everyone!I won't be on here much
longer,I'm giving up.sad2

I thought you were quite eloquent.
The words never matter as much as the
communication of thoughts.

You came aboard about when I did.
But you have very few posts.
The key to Mingle2 is..to mingle.
In the forums.
Giving away a wee piece of yourself.
For people to chew on, and learn to
appreciate.

Instead of leaving, why not kick back
and enjoy what is here, look for
nothing, take in..friends.

Luck happens mostly when you are prepared.

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Tue 08/09/11 04:10 PM

Nice guys are still out there. Were just not as pushy as the average piece of **** single men.


Calling them the "average piece of **** single men" shows that you're not so nice.

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Tue 08/09/11 04:38 PM
Actually your kind of right. I didnt know those words weren't allowed here but, one day in the soon future there wont be cuss words & my post will be considered nice. For now i guess my niceness is in question?

Pounder26's photo
Tue 08/09/11 04:51 PM




I just wanted to point out that there is probably a direct correlation between how she portrays herself on this site, and the fact that she can't find a "nice" guy.

you obviosly dont read al my post.cause im always nice and suportive towards others, i have started many threads to suport felow minglrs and provide good advise to many. And there has been some nice guys chatting me up. I was just disapointd and surprisd finding outhat some1 iwas interestd wasnt singl.and i am very picky when it gets to the guys im interestd in,he must be really nice,sigh and this one was matching my loong list of criteria,alas hes taken,anyways doesnt matr,now i realize all people on mingl are not singl. I am single though.anyways not giving up on my search somewhere theres a nice single guy thats perfect for me. And surely you wil find what your looking4too. And please tel those thatare rude2me to stop being rude,what good wil itdo you to be rude,to a nicelady,really.


I couldn't handle reading all your posts!!!

Are half of the letters on your keyboard missing?? I get internet slang, but COME ON!!!
intlgnt people can undrstnd my abrvtions. I use my celphone to type, and its quicker to shortn the words.i think most people understnd wht i type.is it agnsthe rules to shrtn words? Im a creative practical person.i like making my own words!why did they choose to make such long words anyways.


So, you are admitting that you don't like how long the words in the English language are? Why don't you like them? Too difficult?