do we have to be married

Well I'm sure it's looked on a lot more favorably than having sex with yourself.

Well, if you were serious about having sex with my girlfriend... uh... I guess that one caught me off guard.

Is it a sin I watch you two?

My question for you is does it feel like a sin to you? If it does then it is. That is my opinion though. I am sure others will argue.

It is only not a sin to have sex with your "ex"girlfriend, it is sinful to have sex with just your "girlfriend". Sex is sacred in marriage. Last verse provided here says it best.


Hebrews 13:4

4 Give honor to marriage, and remain faithful to one another in marriage. God will surely judge people who are immoral and those who commit adultery.

Matthew chapter

27 "You have heard that the law of Moses says, 'Do not commit adultery.' 28 But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust in his eye has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

1 Corinthians 7:2


2Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.

1 Thessalonians 4:3

3For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication

Definition of fornication = consensual sexual intercourse between two persons not married to each other

so you only could commit adultery if your married

Definition of adultery = voluntary sexual intercourse between a married man and someone other than his wife or between a married woman and someone other than her husband; also : an act of adultery

I'm not sure it's a sin, but have sex with my gf and you'll quickly find out.....

Outside of religious dogma, there is no such thing a sin.

guilt will negatively affect your performance....
just sayin

Here's to guilt free performance.

right on

is having sex with your gf a sin?

depends how well you ummm "work together"

If "sin" is defined as the experience of mind-blowing divine ecstasy that includes the natural uninhibited praising of the gods as in screaming, "Oh my God! Oh my God! Oh my God!", then yes, having sex with my girlfriend is indeed a "sin".

It's without a doubt a 'divine sin' that should be reserved only for the gods. Therefore one can only conclude that at that moment we are indeed experiencing the realm of the gods. This certainly makes sense in terms of Christianity since Jesus taught us that we are gods. Perhaps this was the moment he was speaking of?

The Buddhist have also recognized the divinity of this sensual intimacy and they honor it via tantra rituals where the couple learns to embrace and maintain this state of orgasmic ecstasy for extended periods of time for spiritual enlightenment.

The Greeks recognized this through the Goddess of Aphrodite, and the Wiccans have also acknowledge the divinity of this orgasmic state of affairs and often practice it during The Great Rite festival.

I believe in a kind of 'sin', which I hold is outside of religious dogma.


If I take the largest view that I can of my own happiness (not pleasure), I find that I am happiest when I related well to myself, to others, to my own existence, to reality itself. Sin is anything that interferes with my ability to do so. (Its interesting to me how many religious recommendations seem to be well suited to maximizing my personal happiness.) Feeding addictions, or even the habit of mindlessly pursuing pleasure, can therefore sometimes be a sin, and this is a reason I often (not always) exercise self restraint when it comes to choices surrounding sex. Obsessive self criticism or guilt based on 'rules' is also a sin; so if I do have sex like that, I'm not going to feel guilty. I'm just going to re-examine questions like "what do i really want in life? what really makes me happy? what approaches to life give me to the most satisfaction?"

well,I don't think its a sin when you and your girl-friend enjoyed sex each other with both of consent and in good mood,and / or to avoid the same type problem if any out of both is suffering such problems is suffering with his or her life partner-----under such circumstance and situations I think they should not feel guilty by such an act.

Do you think that you have to be an adult to have adultery?

Would you forgive him his sin?

I think that God wanted us to be married before having sex to protectt us from diseases, low self worth, fatherless children and abortion.

there is no such thing a sin.