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Topic: Pls give an advise on this relationship issue
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Mon 09/05/11 03:40 PM
What would you do if your step son is interested in your daughter? And is it a right thing to do? Pls advise. Thank you.

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Mon 09/05/11 03:58 PM
How old are they?

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Mon 09/05/11 04:02 PM
It's pretty common in some circles for family members to marry.

That's how the world got the way it is.

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Mon 09/05/11 04:04 PM
It's perfectly normal here in Kentucky. Hell I married my cousin.........smokin

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Mon 09/05/11 04:10 PM

Hummm honestly they are not blood related....Even though I would try to get his attention else where... Guess it would all depend on if she is interested in him as well...whoa

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Mon 09/05/11 04:15 PM
That's good advise. I'm just glad we never had children. She was already cross eyed as a goose. Lord knows what those children would have looked like.......smokin

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Mon 09/05/11 04:16 PM
Why go down the street when you can go down the hall?

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Mon 09/05/11 04:56 PM

Why go down the street when you can go down the hall?


noway

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Mon 09/05/11 04:59 PM


Hummm honestly they are not blood related....Even though I would try to get his attention else where... Guess it would all depend on if she is interested in him as well...whoa


Well said. I also agree about what she said ^_^

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Mon 09/05/11 05:46 PM



Hummm honestly they are not blood related....Even though I would try to get his attention else where... Guess it would all depend on if she is interested in him as well...whoa


Well said. I also agree about what she said ^_^


That was my first thought, they are not blood related and if they are legal ages I see no problem.

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Mon 09/05/11 06:17 PM
There are a few things to consider:

1. There's no blood relation, so genetic abnormalities in resultant offspring isn't a concern.

2. Some states are more strict about what constitutes incest than others are, so there may be a legal issue depending on where you reside. It's probably worth consulting with someone knowledgeable of the law.

3. Some religions — e.g., Catholicism — consider romantic relationships between stepchildren to be illegitimate. If there are strong religious convictions among members of the immediate family, it may be worth learning what the specific religious objections may be.

4. Like it or not, there is a stigma against such relationships, so they should be aware of the ostracism that is likely to come from friends and family.

5. Before genetics were well understood, there was a pragmatic reason for disallowing incest in any form: It was a distraction within the house, detracted from chores, and could be a source of conflict. Although this isn't a true instance of incest, it is important to be aware that a relationship of this sort may cause conflict and end with people "taking sides" if the relationship ends poorly.

6. All of this assumes that the step-siblings are of legal age to have sex, of course. If that's not the case, the parents are risking serious legal action if anyone learns of the sexual activity taking place in their household.

If the children are grown and don't live under their parents' roof, I see no serious problems. There are social conventions that will likely be obstacles, but if they can deal with it then it's their own business.

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Mon 09/05/11 06:19 PM
Why go down the street when you can go down the hall?

Oh, we're doing jokes? Sweet! Ahem… if you can't keep it in your pants, keep it in the family.

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Mon 09/05/11 06:27 PM
If I raised children as brother and sister, regardless of biology,,

Id be kind of disgusted, personally

but legally, if they are age of consent, nothing I Can do about it,,,although I would not support the decision for the romance or humor that in my home,,

but I would always love them and treat them as my children,,

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Mon 09/05/11 06:46 PM
Well, being from Arkansas its like only natural to marry your sister. After all we are known as being both the natural state and the land of opportunity. But being born in Germany I thought it might be a challenge to marry outside of the family. After all I am an Aquarius and we like to be creative. And some of our more modern Aquari have figured out that we don't have to be controlled by Uranus.

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Mon 09/05/11 06:47 PM
i dont think you want my advice

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Mon 09/05/11 06:48 PM
we always love to hear what you have to say, soldier :tongue:

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Mon 09/05/11 06:58 PM

If I raised children as brother and sister, regardless of biology,,

Id be kind of disgusted, personally

but legally, if they are age of consent, nothing I Can do about it,,,although I would not support the decision for the romance or humor that in my home,,

but I would always love them and treat them as my children,,

It's maybe true that they have no blood ties but how would one take it seeing the children one raised as siblings involving in a romantic relationship. I remembered a man on cheaters who was sleeping with his step-son's girl friend under his wife's roof,yet this was a child he watched grow for almost 20 yrs. Smh...what a world

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Mon 09/05/11 06:58 PM
well ok but i would need more information to give educated advice

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Mon 09/05/11 07:05 PM
SoldierofAmerica please i want to hear your advise

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Mon 09/05/11 07:11 PM

well ok but i would need more information to give educated advice

Well many have cleared the waves that it's not bad based on location, believes and no blood ties. But they were raised and grew up together, just like blood relations

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