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Topic: Liars
StillLooking29's photo
Tue 10/25/11 11:58 AM
How do you deal with being lied to by someone that you love?

Normally I would just talk to the person about how I feel but thats not possible right now. He was in a very bad accident and is heavily drugged for pain

I feel trapped with dealing with the situation by myself. Not a good feeling. And it will probably be weeks before I get the chance to address it.

I wish I could walk away but something always tell me to stay.

The heart doesnt let you pick who it wants to love

teadipper's photo
Tue 10/25/11 12:10 PM

How do you deal with being lied to by someone that you love?

Normally I would just talk to the person about how I feel but thats not possible right now. He was in a very bad accident and is heavily drugged for pain

I feel trapped with dealing with the situation by myself. Not a good feeling. And it will probably be weeks before I get the chance to address it.

I wish I could walk away but something always tell me to stay.

The heart doesnt let you pick who it wants to love


Remember that thread we had going on when professional therapy was good? Ya...well, it's like now would be a good time...

mightymoe's photo
Tue 10/25/11 12:12 PM

How do you deal with being lied to by someone that you love?

Normally I would just talk to the person about how I feel but thats not possible right now. He was in a very bad accident and is heavily drugged for pain

I feel trapped with dealing with the situation by myself. Not a good feeling. And it will probably be weeks before I get the chance to address it.

I wish I could walk away but something always tell me to stay.

The heart doesnt let you pick who it wants to love



depends on the lie... if he's lying about cheating on you, thats no good, but if he's lying to make you feel better, then thats a little different... you have to be the judge on what kind and how many lies your going to take. When anyone lies to me, i immediately call them on it, so they either quit lying or quit talking to me... either way is fine.

StillLooking29's photo
Tue 10/25/11 12:14 PM
Thank you for your advice Tea

Ash36's photo
Tue 10/25/11 12:16 PM
If my gf ever lied to me, it would be the last time she will be lying to someone cuz I'll grab her throat n stab her heart with a sword. I... I cant take that pain! Seriously i'll do that! Then bake her heart n eat it for dinner!

navygirl's photo
Tue 10/25/11 12:18 PM
My ex lied to me; that is why he is my ex.

StillLooking29's photo
Tue 10/25/11 12:21 PM




depends on the lie... if he's lying about cheating on you, thats no good, but if he's lying to make you feel better, then thats a little different... you have to be the judge on what kind and how many lies your going to take. When anyone lies to me, i immediately call them on it, so they either quit lying or quit talking to me... either way is fine.


The lies are unforgiveable. I dont think anything was meant to hurt me. it is just gonna SUCK until I can work out my feelings by speaking to him

StillLooking29's photo
Tue 10/25/11 12:22 PM

If my gf ever lied to me, it would be the last time she will be lying to someone cuz I'll grab her throat n stab her heart with a sword. I... I cant take that pain! Seriously i'll do that! Then bake her heart n eat it for dinner!


I can relate to the feeling. Although I just cried instead

StillLooking29's photo
Tue 10/25/11 12:23 PM

My ex lied to me; that is why he is my ex.


This really isnt a BF. Its a friend who I have fallen for and has lied to keep me around and close

no photo
Tue 10/25/11 12:42 PM

If my gf ever lied to me, it would be the last time she will be lying to someone cuz I'll grab her throat n stab her heart with a sword. I... I cant take that pain! Seriously i'll do that! Then bake her heart n eat it for dinner!


Psycho.:tongue:

no photo
Tue 10/25/11 12:43 PM
I don't care if people lie to me. I can usually tell when people are lying. They only hurt their own integrity and no wonder no body trusts them.


navygirl's photo
Tue 10/25/11 01:52 PM


My ex lied to me; that is why he is my ex.


This really isnt a BF. Its a friend who I have fallen for and has lied to keep me around and close


I would still get them out of my life but that is just me. Whatever you choose; I wish you the best.

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 10/25/11 01:55 PM
Tell me lies, tell me sweet little lies....:tongue:

Optomistic69's photo
Tue 10/25/11 02:08 PM

Tell me lies, tell me sweet little lies....:tongue:


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GjviMVTRqRc

teadipper's photo
Tue 10/25/11 02:49 PM

Thank you for your advice Tea


I know where you are at. I dealt with the most unforgivable of unforgivable lies recently. And he was out of it on pain killers due to worker's comp. at the time. I not only exiled him from my life but I did get professional help because it's not one of those things you can talk through with friends. It doesn't take many sessions and a professional can make you feel sane again and reassure you that it isn't your fault for not knowing about the liar. That's all I needed but I needed it from a credible source who was professional. And it wasn't somebody I was actually currently involved with.

no photo
Tue 10/25/11 03:14 PM
If I were in your situation, I would need to vent and get out the anger and hurt that I would be feeling. The way that I would do this would be to write down how I felt and what I wanted to say to him.

By the time I would have written it all down, I would have revised it about 10 times (probably more), changed the font and the font size. Changed lower case to caps and overdosed on the Bold, italics and colours :smile:.

I wouldn’t be writing to compete with Shakespeare, I’d be writing to get it out of my head so that I would stop driving myself crazy thinking about things I wouldn’t be able to do anything about.

Writing for me is very therapeutic. It may not be the ‘therapy’ you need but it may help you in the short term or at least until you can speak to him directly.

Goofball73's photo
Tue 10/25/11 04:46 PM
Liar, liar....pants on fire.....

no photo
Tue 10/25/11 04:54 PM

Tell me lies, tell me sweet little lies....:tongue:
I have been for months :wink:

krupa's photo
Tue 10/25/11 05:01 PM
I LOVE a good lie!

"OH KRUPA!!! YOUR THE BEST!!!"...I love that one.
"I HAVE NEVER SEEN A D**K THAT BIG!!!!"...I love that one too.

Lies make me confident and happy.

Honesty's a b!tch.

StillLooking29's photo
Wed 10/26/11 07:07 AM

I don't care if people lie to me. I can usually tell when people are lying. They only hurt their own integrity and no wonder no body trusts them.




This person has a lot of people fooled. He is very well liked.

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