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Topic: How to start a conversation!!!!
neocortex Joined Thu 11/24/11 Posts: 1	Sat 12/24/11 01:02 AM
I am basically a good guy who wants to make new friends. But when ever i start a conversation,girls disconnect just after i say how r u? Is that wrong? How to start a conversation and take it forwards? Any ideas guys?

ujGearhead Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 6612	Sat 12/24/11 01:20 AM
Instead of saying "Hi" or anything like that, just say that you'll bet them $20 that they can't put up with you for 10 minutes. At the worst, they'll owe ya 20 smackers.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Sat 12/24/11 01:27 AM
Start a real conversation. Not "How are you?" or "Hi." Bend over and pretend to pick up a ten dollar bill and ask her "Did you drop this?"

nObOdys_wiFe_JM Joined Fri 04/16/10 Posts: 126	Tue 12/27/11 01:03 PM
hahaha me too I'm bad in starting a conversation though..

ybcat1 Joined Sat 12/29/07 Posts: 530	Tue 12/27/11 01:47 PM
I am basically a good guy who wants to make new friends. But when ever i start a conversation,girls disconnect just after i say how r u? Is that wrong? How to start a conversation and take it forwards? Any ideas guys? Maybe after viewing your profile they feel the two of you are not a match.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Tue 12/27/11 04:26 PM
Start off with a compliment. Chicks dig it. But, not some fake or lame compliment....For it to work, ya gotta actually mean it. P.S.....NOT "You are hot! I really wanna f*** you" .....for some reason, chicks act insulted.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Tue 12/27/11 04:30 PM
Krupa once told me that I looked like the singer from the Go-Go's and now I love him. So, it does work.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Tue 12/27/11 04:33 PM
No...I told you that you look like the hottest chick from the Go Go's (whom I still crush on). :)

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Tue 12/27/11 04:36 PM
See, OP? The exact words don't even matter. I didn't remember them correctly. And, yet, I fell in love at that moment. Mainly cause I'm shallow like that. But, at least you know his technique works.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Tue 12/27/11 04:40 PM
I got a black belt in Pimp Fu. hehehehehehe

newg78 Joined Thu 03/01/07 Posts: 3672	Tue 12/27/11 06:12 PM
I am basically a good guy who wants to make new friends. But when ever i start a conversation,girls disconnect just after i say how r u? Is that wrong? How to start a conversation and take it forwards? Any ideas guys? Be like, I love you, will you marry me? - this way you will know if you are successful in freaking a girl out depends on her response, otherwise continue playing. Well, serious convo starters will have a hard time getting into a real one, so why not add humor to it? Girls really love to laugh in the first place. Goodluck.

esebulldog Joined Wed 08/05/09 Posts: 22342	Tue 12/27/11 06:29 PM
Be like, I love you, will you marry me? - this way you will know if you are successful in freaking a girl out depends on her response, otherwise continue playing. Well, serious convo starters will have a hard time getting into a real one, so why not add humor to it? Girls really love to laugh in the first place. Goodluck. oh newg! l live you, will you carry me?

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Tue 12/27/11 06:41 PM
Use your surroundings,... Like wow i never saw that bottle of liquor can i buy you a shot

newg78 Joined Thu 03/01/07 Posts: 3672	Tue 12/27/11 06:48 PM
Be like, I love you, will you marry me? - this way you will know if you are successful in freaking a girl out depends on her response, otherwise continue playing. Well, serious convo starters will have a hard time getting into a real one, so why not add humor to it? Girls really love to laugh in the first place. Goodluck. oh newg! l live you, will you carry me? LOL, well I got a guy that emailed me saying that on his first line. What did I do? - blocked him!

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 12/27/11 07:06 PM
IRL - slap her with a wet sponge online - ask her for her phone & email in the forst msg.... not

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 12/27/11 09:02 PM
well....looks like the wet sponge idea was NOT tonight's big winner...

ujGearhead Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 6612	Tue 12/27/11 11:04 PM
well....looks like the wet sponge idea was NOT tonight's big winner... Wet noodles get more attention. Besides, have you ever heard of a bad story that starts with the involvement of a noodle?

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Tue 12/27/11 11:08 PM
It is very irritating to anyone when you do not pay attention to detail or even the obvious...like what the profile actually says. A conversation will not go far with "hi" or "how are you"... Be real. I have this weirdo who nudges me constantly but won't say a word. Like that would interest me. However, someone who messages me with information or curiosity about something I enjoy.. I am all over that.

ujGearhead Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 6612	Tue 12/27/11 11:14 PM
It is very irritating to anyone when you do not pay attention to detail or even the obvious...like what the profile actually says. A conversation will not go far with "hi" or "how are you"... Be real. I have this weirdo who nudges me constantly but won't say a word. Like that would interest me. However, someone who messages me with information or curiosity about something I enjoy.. I am all over that. I always have people nudging me without saying anything. It's like, dude, at least give me a cookie before you try feeling me up.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 12/27/11 11:15 PM
I am basically a good guy who wants to make new friends. But when ever i start a conversation,girls disconnect just after i say how r u? Is that wrong? How to start a conversation and take it forwards? Any ideas guys? Read profiles. Find out a little about them and go from there. If a guy cannot figure out how to start a conversation with me after reading my profile, we're not going to get along well.