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drakula4127 Joined Thu 01/19/12 Posts: 6	Thu 01/19/12 05:17 AM
hey i'v never been on a relationship.... want to fall in one.... any advices.... ...wat grls really want frm..guyzzzz...

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45342	Thu 01/19/12 05:22 AM
You make it sound like an elevator. Okay. So get on the next one. We all want a smooth ride.

drakula4127 Joined Thu 01/19/12 Posts: 6	Thu 01/19/12 05:43 AM
hey thnkz...

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 01/19/12 05:44 AM
Men have been trying to figure out what women want since the dawn of time. If you think we're finally gonna spill it now, you're crazy.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Thu 01/19/12 06:00 AM Edited by Goofball73 on Thu 01/19/12 06:14 AM
Women want one thing.....well, they "want" alot, but there is one thing that they absolutely do want from a guy....and that is attention. Oh they will leave you alone during the football/basketball/baseball game. Hell...they might even watch with ya. But during halftime, just a wee bit of attention to them goes a long way. I recommend during that 10-15 minute time span that you say something nice. Phrases like, "Baby, you know you have the sweetest cooking skills". Or, "Babe, would you be ever so kind to bring me a beer", and when she does just grab her and kiss her passionately (let's her know how much you appreciate her and it sets the tone for after the game...know what I'm saying?). Women want there space. But don't just ignore them. These are delicate creatures who need that special TLC from their man. I'd say that you give her (at the bare minimum) 30 minutes of just focusing on her, then she would probably faint. Lol. I know we all get into a rush in this fast paced world. But ya gotta take time for your girl man. Like I always say......you service your woman and her needs, and she will repay you back ten fold. Just FYI for ya.

Chloe23Irish Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 717	Thu 01/19/12 06:06 AM
Women want one thing.....well, they "want" alot, but there is one thing that they absolutely do want from a guy....and that is attention. Oh they will leave you alone during the football/basketball/baseball game. Hell...they might even watch with ya. But during halftime, just a wee bit of attention to them goes a long way. I recommend during that 10-15 minute time span that you say something nice. Phrases like, "Baby, you know you have the sweetest cooking skills". Or, "Babe, would you be ever so kind to bring me a beer", and when she does just grab her and kiss her passionately (let's her know how much you appreciate her and he sets the tone for after the game...know what I'm saying?). Women want there space. But don't just ignore them. These are delicate creatures who need that special TLC from their man. I'd say that you give her (at the bare minimum) 30 minutes of just focusing on her, then she would probably faint. Lol. I know we all get into a rush in this fast paced world. But ya gotta take time for your girl man. Like I always say......you service your woman and her needs, and she will repay you back ten fold. Just FYI for ya.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Thu 01/19/12 06:14 AM Edited by Goofball73 on Thu 01/19/12 06:14 AM


drakula4127 Joined Thu 01/19/12 Posts: 6	Thu 01/19/12 06:49 AM
Women want one thing.....well, they "want" alot, but there is one thing that they absolutely do want from a guy....and that is attention. Oh they will leave you alone during the football/basketball/baseball game. Hell...they might even watch with ya. But during halftime, just a wee bit of attention to them goes a long way. I recommend during that 10-15 minute time span that you say something nice. Phrases like, "Baby, you know you have the sweetest cooking skills". Or, "Babe, would you be ever so kind to bring me a beer", and when she does just grab her and kiss her passionately (let's her know how much you appreciate her and it sets the tone for after the game...know what I'm saying?). Women want there space. But don't just ignore them. These are delicate creatures who need that special TLC from their man. I'd say that you give her (at the bare minimum) 30 minutes of just focusing on her, then she would probably faint. Lol. I know we all get into a rush in this fast paced world. But ya gotta take time for your girl man. Like I always say......you service your woman and her needs, and she will repay you back ten fold. Just FYI for ya.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 01/19/12 06:56 AM
well what we definitely do not want to be is another thing on a man's list of things he has to do if he has to think about it that much???? no it has to be something he wants to do - irrespective of the "game" but yes relationships do take a lot of your time - so choose someone you want to share your time with and behave with honor

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 01/19/12 06:56 AM
Women want one thing.....well, they "want" alot, but there is one thing that they absolutely do want from a guy....and that is attention. Oh they will leave you alone during the football/basketball/baseball game. Hell...they might even watch with ya. But during halftime, just a wee bit of attention to them goes a long way. I recommend during that 10-15 minute time span that you say something nice. Phrases like, "Baby, you know you have the sweetest cooking skills". Or, "Babe, would you be ever so kind to bring me a beer", and when she does just grab her and kiss her passionately (let's her know how much you appreciate her and it sets the tone for after the game...know what I'm saying?). Women want there space. But don't just ignore them. These are delicate creatures who need that special TLC from their man. I'd say that you give her (at the bare minimum) 30 minutes of just focusing on her, then she would probably faint. Lol. I know we all get into a rush in this fast paced world. But ya gotta take time for your girl man. Like I always say......you service your woman and her needs, and she will repay you back ten fold. Just FYI for ya. Damn. He figured it out!

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Thu 01/19/12 07:07 AM
Women want one thing.....well, they "want" alot, but there is one thing that they absolutely do want from a guy....and that is attention. Oh they will leave you alone during the football/basketball/baseball game. Hell...they might even watch with ya. But during halftime, just a wee bit of attention to them goes a long way. I recommend during that 10-15 minute time span that you say something nice. Phrases like, "Baby, you know you have the sweetest cooking skills". Or, "Babe, would you be ever so kind to bring me a beer", and when she does just grab her and kiss her passionately (let's her know how much you appreciate her and it sets the tone for after the game...know what I'm saying?). Women want there space. But don't just ignore them. These are delicate creatures who need that special TLC from their man. I'd say that you give her (at the bare minimum) 30 minutes of just focusing on her, then she would probably faint. Lol. I know we all get into a rush in this fast paced world. But ya gotta take time for your girl man. Like I always say......you service your woman and her needs, and she will repay you back ten fold. Just FYI for ya. Damn. He figured it out! Don't worry Ruthie....I won't tell about how us assassins do it.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 01/19/12 08:02 AM
Women want one thing.....well, they "want" alot, but there is one thing that they absolutely do want from a guy....and that is attention. Oh they will leave you alone during the football/basketball/baseball game. Hell...they might even watch with ya. But during halftime, just a wee bit of attention to them goes a long way. I recommend during that 10-15 minute time span that you say something nice. Phrases like, "Baby, you know you have the sweetest cooking skills". Or, "Babe, would you be ever so kind to bring me a beer", and when she does just grab her and kiss her passionately (let's her know how much you appreciate her and it sets the tone for after the game...know what I'm saying?). Women want there space. But don't just ignore them. These are delicate creatures who need that special TLC from their man. I'd say that you give her (at the bare minimum) 30 minutes of just focusing on her, then she would probably faint. Lol. I know we all get into a rush in this fast paced world. But ya gotta take time for your girl man. Like I always say......you service your woman and her needs, and she will repay you back ten fold. Just FYI for ya. Damn. He figured it out! Don't worry Ruthie....I won't tell about how us assassins do it. You better not.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76387	Thu 01/19/12 08:34 AM
Women want one thing.....well, they "want" alot, but there is one thing that they absolutely do want from a guy....and that is attention. Oh they will leave you alone during the football/basketball/baseball game. Hell...they might even watch with ya. But during halftime, just a wee bit of attention to them goes a long way. I recommend during that 10-15 minute time span that you say something nice. Phrases like, "Baby, you know you have the sweetest cooking skills". Or, "Babe, would you be ever so kind to bring me a beer", and when she does just grab her and kiss her passionately (let's her know how much you appreciate her and it sets the tone for after the game...know what I'm saying?). Women want there space. But don't just ignore them. These are delicate creatures who need that special TLC from their man. I'd say that you give her (at the bare minimum) 30 minutes of just focusing on her, then she would probably faint. Lol. I know we all get into a rush in this fast paced world. But ya gotta take time for your girl man. Like I always say......you service your woman and her needs, and she will repay you back ten fold. Just FYI for ya. Damn. He figured it out! Hahaha did you notice he threw it in there ""Babe, would you be ever so kind to bring me a beer". Lmao that was good and very well done hell even I would have brought them a beer...lol

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 01/19/12 09:25 AM
well what we definitely do not want to be is another thing on a man's list of things he has to do if he has to think about it that much???? no it has to be something he wants to do - irrespective of the "game" but yes relationships do take a lot of your time - so choose someone you want to share your time with and behave with honor This. Goof has good intentions but I'da been outty right fast in his scenario. Again, no cookies I guess I figured if my man was doing those things because he sincerely wanted to make me happy I wouldn't see it as manipulative. I guess I have to quote soufie and say the only thing I truly fear in a relationship is insincerity.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 01/19/12 09:46 AM Edited by Ruth34611 on Thu 01/19/12 09:48 AM
well what we definitely do not want to be is another thing on a man's list of things he has to do if he has to think about it that much???? no it has to be something he wants to do - irrespective of the "game" but yes relationships do take a lot of your time - so choose someone you want to share your time with and behave with honor This. Goof has good intentions but I'da been outty right fast in his scenario. Again, no cookies I guess I figured if my man was doing those things because he sincerely wanted to make me happy I wouldn't see it as manipulative. I guess I have to quote soufie and say the only thing I truly fear in a relationship is insincerity. I hate football on tv. Just reminding the op, that there is no 'trick' to please all women. They are all different. Im also uncomfortable with 'focusing all on me' (30 min or otherwise).... again, we're all different. 30 minutes is way too long, I agree. But, it's the gesture that would make me feel good. Actually a few really good hugs during day would make me very happy. A little "more" in the am or pm and I'd be one satisfied girl. But your point is well taken. We are all individuals and there is no "one way" to be.

boonedoggy61 Joined Fri 09/09/11 Posts: 10425	Thu 01/19/12 09:49 AM
Lots of luck !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Thu 01/19/12 09:59 AM
hey i'v never been on a relationship.... want to fall in one.... any advices.... ...wat grls really want frm..guyzzzz... In my experience, the one thing they really want is someone who will listen to them, take them seriously, and treat them as people who are truly and genuinely valued. Not as objects, not as stereotypes, but as human beings with thoughts and feelings and ideas and hopes and dreams and fears and likes and dislikes and histories all their own. I have been amazed by the number of women who have told me "You're the first guy who ever took the time to listen to me." It's not too much to ask -- a little attention and courtesy and a sympathetic ear....isn't that something most of us would wish for every now and then? I think a whole lot of this man-vs-woman-communication-fiasco scenario could just go away if we'd actually listen to each other.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 01/19/12 10:06 AM
hey i'v never been on a relationship.... want to fall in one.... any advices.... ...wat grls really want frm..guyzzzz... In my experience, the one thing they really want is someone who will listen to them, take them seriously, and treat them as people who are truly and genuinely valued. Not as objects, not as stereotypes, but as human beings with thoughts and feelings and ideas and hopes and dreams and fears and likes and dislikes and histories all their own. I have been amazed by the number of women who have told me "You're the first guy who ever took the time to listen to me." It's not too much to ask -- a little attention and courtesy and a sympathetic ear....isn't that something most of us would wish for every now and then? I think a whole lot of this man-vs-woman-communication-fiasco scenario could just go away if we'd actually listen to each other. Wow, Lex. That was really nice. And true. But, that's not what I find amazing. I'm amazed because I expected to read "what women want is to change whoever she is with."

funches Joined Sat 12/01/07 Posts: 12948	Thu 01/19/12 10:13 AM
Men have been trying to figure out what women want since the dawn of time. If you think we're finally gonna spill it now, you're crazy. shoes

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Thu 01/19/12 10:16 AM
hey i'v never been on a relationship.... want to fall in one.... any advices.... ...wat grls really want frm..guyzzzz... In my experience, the one thing they really want is someone who will listen to them, take them seriously, and treat them as people who are truly and genuinely valued. Not as objects, not as stereotypes, but as human beings with thoughts and feelings and ideas and hopes and dreams and fears and likes and dislikes and histories all their own. I have been amazed by the number of women who have told me "You're the first guy who ever took the time to listen to me." It's not too much to ask -- a little attention and courtesy and a sympathetic ear....isn't that something most of us would wish for every now and then? I think a whole lot of this man-vs-woman-communication-fiasco scenario could just go away if we'd actually listen to each other. Wow, Lex. That was really nice. And true. But, that's not what I find amazing. I'm amazed because I expected to read "what women want is to change whoever she is with." But maybe if the communication was better, that wouldn't have to happen....? Just a theory....