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Topic: Being Alone Is Painful
Dale031124 Joined Fri 02/03/12 Posts: 71	Mon 03/05/12 06:41 AM
I am very much a private person but sometimes you just have to let it out. What do you do when you experience this pain?

lilott Joined Thu 10/12/06 Posts: 2295	Mon 03/05/12 06:50 AM
I don't. I love being alone.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 03/05/12 07:20 AM
I don't. I love being alone. lol,, me too well, I loved it when I was,,, Im now a single parent and I can barely remember what things like alone privacy space ....are anymore,,,,lol

MorningSong Joined Mon 02/11/08 Posts: 4505	Mon 03/05/12 07:21 AM
reach out to another lonely person... get involved in outreach.....helping in your neighborhood for instance... or giving hugs to the elderly person on the corner.... and of course.... mingling here in the forums

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45325	Mon 03/05/12 08:26 AM
You learn to treasure your alone time. Use it, to get chit done. Work on yourself, if anything needs doing. Be ready, when 'she' comes along. The lonely times make you appreciate the together times. View it as a good thing maybe?

Dale031124 Joined Fri 02/03/12 Posts: 71	Mon 03/05/12 08:31 AM
Thanks for the comments. I mean don't get me wrong, I get out. A friend and myself did bourbon st. in New Orleans this weekend and we had a blast. Some times I like being alone and sometimes I like to get a little intimate with a certain girl but I think I need something serious.

Dale031124 Joined Fri 02/03/12 Posts: 71	Mon 03/05/12 08:34 AM
You learn to treasure your alone time. Use it, to get chit done. Work on yourself, if anything needs doing. Be ready, when 'she' comes along. The lonely times make you appreciate the together times. View it as a good thing maybe? I do Soufie but I guess I'm not being truthful to myself.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Mon 03/05/12 10:09 AM
I am very much a private person but sometimes you just have to let it out. What do you do when you experience this pain? I'm sort of on the fence here. While I'd be the first to admit that being alone can be painful, my experience has been that being with someone always turns out to be much worse.

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Mon 03/05/12 10:40 AM
I dont often feel too lonely, but when I do, I reach for God. Hes always there.

groundzer007 Joined Fri 12/17/10 Posts: 13	Mon 03/05/12 10:50 AM
I'm just weird. I don't like being alone, but also not comfortable around ppl, more ppl around, the more i need to get away to be alone, go figure :)

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 03/05/12 10:56 AM
I am very much a private person but sometimes you just have to let it out. What do you do when you experience this pain? Sounds like it's time to make friends and get out and enjoy life.

bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Mon 03/05/12 11:04 AM
i don't think being alone is painful. being lonely can be though. you can either; suck it up and not say a damn thing or change it.

ShannonMarie21 Joined Thu 02/17/11 Posts: 1169	Mon 03/05/12 11:06 AM
Being alone can be painful sometimes...but being with someone who's a pain in the @ss is ALWAYS painful. :)

733john Joined Mon 07/18/11 Posts: 123	Mon 03/05/12 05:39 PM
You learn to treasure your alone time. Use it, to get chit done. Work on yourself, if anything needs doing. Be ready, when 'she' comes along. The lonely times make you appreciate the together times. View it as a good thing maybe? Yes oddly enough i like my alone time ...but i will most definately appreciate my time together with the one ...also im going to say keep a 50 gallon drum of water this can make for passion that might catch the bed on fire and burst out the windows and then well there just isn't no more privacy when the neighborhood hears us going at REAL good "oh john put that ***** im me ****" "oh yes yes yes **" It can be a real mad house preparation is gooooooooooooood soufiehere

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Mon 03/05/12 05:51 PM Edited by Jeanniebean on Mon 03/05/12 05:52 PM
I guess I don't know what its like to be alone since I have always had my family, my sisters, my mother etc. I have a few friends, and my pets. I don't really feel alone. ..and of course I seem to have multiple personalities. I can always talk to myself.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Mon 03/05/12 05:55 PM
I am very much a private person but sometimes you just have to let it out. What do you do when you experience this pain? I can feel alone in a crowd of people. I don't take feelings such as sadness and loneliness serious, unless there happens to be a good reason to feel such. I have severe depression, so it's a little different with me than it may be for others.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Mon 03/05/12 05:56 PM
I am very much a private person but sometimes you just have to let it out. What do you do when you experience this pain? I can feel alone in a crowd of people. I don't take feelings such as sadness and loneliness serious, unless there happens to be a good reason to feel such. I have severe depression, so it's a little different with me than it may be for others. Why do people have depression?

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Mon 03/05/12 05:58 PM
Being alone can be painful sometimes...but being with someone who's a pain in the @ss is ALWAYS painful. :)

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21331	Mon 03/05/12 06:00 PM
After living with a six-headed harpy for five years, I truly love being alone.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Mon 03/05/12 06:07 PM
I am very much a private person but sometimes you just have to let it out. What do you do when you experience this pain? I can feel alone in a crowd of people. I don't take feelings such as sadness and loneliness serious, unless there happens to be a good reason to feel such. I have severe depression, so it's a little different with me than it may be for others. Why do people have depression? Resistance to butterflies and rainbows? :P