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Topic: What's worse on a first date?
ujGearhead Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 6612	Thu 03/29/12 06:09 PM
Yeah, well...... but, there was still SOMETHING to talk about. Even if it turned into a debate about whether or not it sucks. Not really. He talked, I listened, then tried to steer it in another direction which did not work. So no, even with some effort, I couldn't get him to talk about anything else. Ok, probably a lost cause with him then.

funches Joined Sat 12/01/07 Posts: 12948	Fri 03/30/12 07:57 AM
What do you think is worse on a first date? No physical attraction, or absolutely nothing to talk about? Why? just go to the movies on the first date ...you won't have to worry about conversation and if you're not physically attracted to them you can watch the movie

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Fri 03/30/12 07:58 AM
What do you think is worse on a first date? No physical attraction, or absolutely nothing to talk about? Why? just go to the movies on the first date ...you won't have to worry about conversation and if you're not physically attracted to them you can watch the movie That doesn't answer the question.

funches Joined Sat 12/01/07 Posts: 12948	Fri 03/30/12 08:04 AM
What do you think is worse on a first date? No physical attraction, or absolutely nothing to talk about? Why? just go to the movies on the first date ...you won't have to worry about conversation and if you're not physically attracted to them you can watch the movie That doesn't answer the question. if you wasn't physically attracted to them or had nothing to talk about to them...wouldn't you know this beforehand?... then what are you doing going out on a date with them anyway

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Fri 03/30/12 08:08 AM
What do you think is worse on a first date? No physical attraction, or absolutely nothing to talk about? Why? just go to the movies on the first date ...you won't have to worry about conversation and if you're not physically attracted to them you can watch the movie That doesn't answer the question. if you wasn't physically attracted to them or had nothing to talk about to them...wouldn't you know this beforehand?... then what are you doing going out on a date with them anyway Not necessarily. It will depend on how you met them. If you met in person, then yes, you'd know if you're able to have a conversation and whether you're attracted to them. If you met them online, it doesn't always translate the same way in person.

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Fri 03/30/12 08:10 AM
Bad breath

funches Joined Sat 12/01/07 Posts: 12948	Fri 03/30/12 08:16 AM
What do you think is worse on a first date? No physical attraction, or absolutely nothing to talk about? Why? just go to the movies on the first date ...you won't have to worry about conversation and if you're not physically attracted to them you can watch the movie That doesn't answer the question. if you wasn't physically attracted to them or had nothing to talk about to them...wouldn't you know this beforehand?... then what are you doing going out on a date with them anyway Not necessarily. It will depend on how you met them. If you met in person, then yes, you'd know if you're able to have a conversation and whether you're attracted to them. If you met them online, it doesn't always translate the same way in person. the same rules should apply whether you met them online or offline ...get to know them before you go out with them

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Fri 03/30/12 08:17 AM
Have you ever gotten to know someone online and then found them to be completely different in person, whether it's appearance or personality?

funches Joined Sat 12/01/07 Posts: 12948	Fri 03/30/12 08:18 AM
Have you ever gotten to know someone online and then found them to be completely different in person, whether it's appearance or personality? nope

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Fri 03/30/12 08:18 AM
Then I guess you have nothing to worry about.

InvictusV Joined Sun 11/23/08 Posts: 5282	Fri 03/30/12 09:16 AM
What do you think is worse on a first date? No physical attraction, or absolutely nothing to talk about? Why? You can apply this to your "can men and women be friends" thread..

patsfan64 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 1258	Fri 03/30/12 09:18 AM
let's see what douche says physical attraction. A physically unattractive mute...

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Fri 03/30/12 09:42 AM
What do you think is worse on a first date? No physical attraction, or absolutely nothing to talk about? Why? You can apply this to your "can men and women be friends" thread.. True, however I think you can still find people attractive yet just be friends.

JERMANICUS Joined Sat 01/28/12 Posts: 597	Fri 03/30/12 09:49 AM
let's see what douche says physical attraction. For you

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Fri 03/30/12 09:57 AM
Nothing to talk about. If they can't stimulate my mind, then they certainly ain't getting in my pants. That's a given. I wanna know what's happening upstairs, not downstairs, so to speak.

TammyA Joined Sat 03/10/12 Posts: 300	Fri 03/30/12 10:09 AM
I agree.....nothing to talk about. Physical attraction is sometimes sparked by intellegent conversation and or witty repartee' Totally agree

Mirage4279 Joined Sat 09/04/10 Posts: 2466	Fri 03/30/12 10:17 AM
Nothing to talk about. If they can't stimulate my mind, then they certainly ain't getting in my pants. That's a given. I wanna know what's happening upstairs, not downstairs, so to speak. Yeah I agree ... it is best to have a girl with good chemistry with.

kiran8792 Joined Sun 03/25/12 Posts: 1	Mon 04/02/12 08:06 AM
ok finally what ru saying aunty....

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Mon 04/02/12 08:31 AM
Talking is a important aspect of a date to me.

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Mon 04/02/12 03:41 PM
What do you think is worse on a first date? No physical attraction, or absolutely nothing to talk about? Why? No physical attraction I could deal with, as i might make a great friend. But nothing to talk about, that would suck, I tend to talk to much, especially if I am nervous, so having someone with nothing to say would be a nightmare.