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Topic: Do you kiss on the first date?
singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 04/01/12 08:49 AM
If the first date is going well, is there a possibility of a kiss? Or is that always saved for later?

TammyA Joined Sat 03/10/12 Posts: 300	Sun 04/01/12 08:53 AM
If the date went well, and I'm interested in seeing this person again, yes, I will kiss on the first date. If the date didn't go well, no kiss. By the way, kissing compatabilities are important too.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45325	Sun 04/01/12 09:01 AM
Since I don't date anyone I am not crazy for, they had better put out the affection.

patsfan64 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 1258	Sun 04/01/12 09:11 AM
This is always an awkward situation. As a guy, we're never sure if it's okay to kiss on the first date. There's no reason why it can't wait for the second date. That takes all the guessing out of it.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Sun 04/01/12 09:24 AM
If we have made it to the actual date.... and there is a mutual sense of continuation... Then yes a kiss would be appropriate...... Afterall....... A Kiss says alot that words cannot!!!

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76353	Sun 04/01/12 09:26 AM
If the chemistry is there and I'm attracted to them and they go for the kiss Hellllllllllllllllll yeahhhhh!!! Nothing like a good kisser....

ShannonMarie21 Joined Thu 02/17/11 Posts: 1169	Sun 04/01/12 09:28 AM
I don't know because I don't really casually date. Usually by the time I kiss someone I've known them for awhile and we've come to the conclusion that we both want to kiss each other. I have to REALLY like someone to go on an actual date with them.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76353	Sun 04/01/12 09:31 AM
If the chemistry is there and I'm attracted to them and they go for the kiss Hellllllllllllllllll yeahhhhh!!! Nothing like a good kisser.... or the early unveiling of a bad one Hehehe would rather know right off the bat so I don't waste my time going farther....

42BlackBBW Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3243	Sun 04/01/12 09:44 AM
If it's someone I have made a connection with and want to see again, then yes especially if they are a good kisser

TammyA Joined Sat 03/10/12 Posts: 300	Sun 04/01/12 09:47 AM
After a first date, and we decided we wanted to see each other again, but I could tell he was a little reluctant to initiate the kiss, so I did. Then he made a comment to the fact that he wasn't sure whether to initiate the kiss or not.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sun 04/01/12 10:01 AM
If the first date is going well, is there a possibility of a kiss? Or is that always saved for later? I wouldn't make the first move unless we've talked for a while before or something. If we didn't really talk or know each other, I would let her make the first move.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Sun 04/01/12 11:03 AM
I have no problems on kissing on the first day, but I am too shy to make the first move.

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24649	Sun 04/01/12 11:05 AM
Heck! I $%&! on the first date if the connection is there!

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sun 04/01/12 11:06 AM
Well...IF he gives me that look

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 04/01/12 11:06 AM
I think kissing on the first date is a fine idea. I dont kiss at a meetup (since this is a dating site, thats a new wrinkle). Like soufie said, if Im on a date with them its only because I like them. Not kissing on the first date is usually disappointing, but not a deal breaker. If still no kiss on the second, I assume he's not interested in a relationship, and only lookin to hang out. I prolly wont go on a 3rd without a kiss. No gage for chemistry without it. These arent rules, just thinkin. I agree with this. If there's no kiss by the second date, I'd assume he's not interested.

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Sun 04/01/12 11:06 AM
What's wrong with it? It's just a kiss..if there is no chemistry after the kiss...time to move on.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 04/01/12 11:07 AM
This is always an awkward situation. As a guy, we're never sure if it's okay to kiss on the first date. There's no reason why it can't wait for the second date. That takes all the guessing out of it. If its awkward, that may be a sign it isn't going to work. If we're hitting it off well, there's no awkwardness.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 04/01/12 11:08 AM
If it's someone I have made a connection with and want to see again, then yes especially if they are a good kisser How does that work with platonic dating?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 04/01/12 11:08 AM
What's wrong with it? It's just a kiss..if there is no chemistry after the kiss...time to move on. Who said there's anything wrong with it?

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Sun 04/01/12 11:14 AM
What's wrong with it? It's just a kiss..if there is no chemistry after the kiss...time to move on. Who said there's anything wrong with it? No one did.. it was a hypothetical question in my own mind. I thought it and answered myself.