Kids are cool but if you dont like kids or dont want the problems that go along with ex's and such find a woman with no kids and you be much happier.

Never tell a woman you hate her kids just leave the relationship. Quick

LOL, but I likes bear wrastling!

Ok, *cough* This does need to be said. Granted you should never tell a woman you hate her kids, but that doesn't mean that you are going to like 'em. Let's face it, they are little people, and people, no matter how innocent or adorable, are unique and have quirks that may or may not annoy you.

I say this having ran a day-care for my sister, and I say this being a man that loves kids. Like anyone else, they just require patience...but some behavior from a child is unacceptable (disrespect, intentional/malicious rudeness, etc.). And before you start, yes kids are going to be kids, I'm still a kid, but I didn't talk back to adults or my mother in front of others, I didn't say something hurtful or insulting when I knew it too be wrong, and when I started to get out of control - I listened to my mother or father and quickly behaved myself. At least in public .

But that is the key isn't it, it's the parents. So what do you do, not if you hate a woman's kids, but you hate the way she is raising them? Parents don't have to be perfect, but considering the responsibility that is their bailiwick, they should at least try their best. Would anybody disagree that consistency is the single most important component of raising children...alongside love of course? If so, what do you do when a mother is INconsistent?

In my opinion it may not be the kids you it may be the relationship they came from, either way you should never hate kidsthey are small an innocent and should be treated as such

Obviously, all these women who want honesty only want honesty they like. You might as well tell her that she can work and support you and you will take care of the housework. Yea, that would go over big too. Generally, women demand things from men that they would never even consider if the situation were reversed. It's a woman's world right now. She can beat you up, insult you, take your car, trash your house and you better not say boo. Get used to it.

Female Chauvinistic pigs!

if you hate her kids then I'd say don't tell her that, but do break it off. Telling her you hate her kids could cause you to loose a few neccesary appendages.

heh, get the hell out?

i was in a serious relationship...that went very sour when his son was introduced into the mix. that little evil bastard...yeah, i know, a kid can't be evil. or can he?

this kid punched out several of my windows, broke my PS2, broke my glasses...smashed my trophies, smashed my baby's head in with one of said trophies...killed a squirrel and laid it across the threshold, killed my cat...

hit me in the head with a vacuum, sprayed RAID in my kids' food...tore up my books, cut up my clothes. he told me he had a surprise for me, and had me close my eyes...and then cut a foot and a half off of my hair...

best thing i ever did was get as far as i could from THAT kid.

Really....Might I suggest body armour if you do choose to tell her!!!!!!!!!

OMG!!!!!!!!!!! lulu.... I see you have met Damien from the Omen!!!!!!!!!!

Well lori brandon isnt sounding so bad right now.that kid had mental issues and it's sad he was not getting the help he needed.

LULU you should have kicked his ass and then his fathers ass too.

the minute he broke my stuff the little bastard and his father would have been gone let alone hit a baby.Stephen king couldn't have invented a more evil sounding child.

that is an extreme case and obviously the kid was very disturbed.

geez sounds like he needs to have an eye on him. lulu

yep, just not MY eye.

his father had only been marginally involved...weekends and such, before his mother decided she couldn't handle him. then "POOF", we get the kid full-time.

i tried for a year and a half before deciding the safety of my children was FAR more important than fixing a child that had already been through his formative years. he was twelve...

i had him evaluated for learning difficulties, placed in special education, with regular counseling. mom (a child psychologist that worked with the department of education) evaluated him, as well...and said that, while sad, i had little chance of making him safe to be around. she also said that he'd do better with one-on-one with his father...instead of being with all MY kids, too.

what made it worse...the kid was VERY devious. never could tell the truth...and was truly sadistic. enjoyed hurting things...animals and people. i knew the end was there when i walked in from work, and my baby had her head split open...his dad swore that my kids caused it...but they swore that HE did, and my children weren't the lying type. when his dad went into the other room, the kid looked me in the eyes and said, "yes, i did it...and next time, i'll bash her head ALL the way in...if you don't get my daddy to move."

done deal. buh-bye.

Lulu does have points. Some kids are just ----- ick. Feel free to go the honest route and yup, do be prepared for the mother bear to swipe, rip, and tear. To put it bluntly, you're going to know whether or not from just watching how she interacts with her kids if this is a "Calgon, take me away" type thing or if its a work out able situation. If this does not make sense - learn to read people better before you even plan on any type of relationship or find a woman who delights in spoon feeding the obvious to you.

Lulu does have points. Some kids are just ----- ick. Feel free to go the honest route and yup, do be prepared for the mother bear to swipe, rip, and tear. To put it bluntly, you're going to know whether or not from just watching how she interacts with her kids if this is a "Calgon, take me away" type thing or if its a work out able situation. If this does not make sense - learn to read people better before you even plan on any type of relationship or find a woman who delights in spoon feeding the obvious to you.

id hate his kids too if they were anything like him saying he "hated" mine.