you should be straight out honest about everything.

some good interesting response, I love kids If i didnt like them I would mold and shape them until they were just like me then problem would be solved.lol p.s. this was just a hypothical qustionbut good answers

well lori i'm sure he will be in the news killing prostitutes

humm, who ever even looks at my kids the wrong way is in serious sh1t with me so !! NO is not a good idea!!

Why the heck would you want to change someone's kids?
Or even your own kids?
That's a selfish idea.

not if you're trying to change them for the better...

well, we actually call it "teaching".

Why should you change someone's personality?
Thats kind of like your own issue if you don't like it.

awful awful word
u don't hate people, worst if they are kids

it's...socialization.

if our children are headed in the wrong direction, then we NEED to change them. life is ABOUT change...it's HOW you do it that matters.

my question is... how can anyone HATE another persons children. our children are apart of us. So, if you choose to hate a persons children aren't you really hating a part of them?

I agree with all of you.

I diffently agree with if you hate someones kids you have to hate there parents also which occurse would be the man or women your dating. they are diffently apart of that person.

Well speaking to you as an older person.....geeze, try to just wait and find a lady without kids, or kids that are at least 18...do not even enter to younger ones lives and mess them up....women are indeed mother lions..if and when ANYONE says anything negative...the hair on her neck goes up and you might as well kiss it all goodbye....

This is a hard rule to follow, but I think if you have kids, you should not bring in your dates...kids can't take all the "in and out" of partners...

Ok..there's my free advice..so go and have a great Thursday night and good luck searchibg for the right person....I am a newby and I like the site a lot...mostly young ohes tho....

I think the question is why do you hate her kids? Hate is kinda strong so give us a reason y u really have a distaste for her kids

My thought is this...If He loved the woman, he would love everyhthing about her....Even her kids....

This is a no brainer answer dude. If you DONT like her kids then WHY are you still around her?? I would wave buh bye and slam the front door in your face if it was me, but its not so there ya go!!

if for some reason i couldn't deal with the kids i'd say it but i wouldn't use the word hate. gotta remember though that no matter how nice you say it most women will take offense to it.....i should say most women i know.

If someone told me they didnt like my kid, they would be in fact saying they dont like me because he is just like me but taller, and funnier!!!

If you don't like the idea of dating someone with kids than don't further the relationship....

Kisha, I see thats your first post - welcome to the JSH forums!