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Topic: CHEAT IN RELATIONSHIPS
Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Thu 06/21/12 07:24 AM
You know, this question is asked over and over, I'm more curious as to why people stay when they've been cheated on? I'd say there are many answers to that question. And I'd say that most people who are cheated on think about the circumstances of their life (at the time). Couples with kids tend to stay together cause they don't want their kids to go through a divorce. Another reason could be that the couple has been with each other for a while and the one cheated on may feel that he/she couldn't do any better. They fear being alone, single, having to fend for themselves when for the longest time it was always them and their husband/wife. Could also be that the one cheated on is dependent on their lover (monetarily). Some people stay just cause they believe they are in love and that they can fix the others adultery (I watched a friend of mine try to do this). I guess it boils down to the fact that people come up with excuses not to leave them. Now that I think about it, seems fear is the key word here. Fear of change. Fear of living single.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Thu 06/21/12 10:59 AM
I believe it's mainly because they're selfish and/or too chicken-hit to risk loosig what they have. Some use the excuse they don't want to break-up the family. But here are some other reasons: their partners don't put out as much as they'd like or aren't good enough in bed, lost lost attraction, ego booster, the thrill, partner cheated 1st, or no longer in love. I say, suck it up and get a divorce rather than hurt the ones who love you! Lot of people are selfish. The main reason why they don't do it is one lame excuse after another. Ultimately there are a lot of cowards out there. And the whores they cheat with deserve a special place in hell. I live close to Hell does that count Well I love me some bad boys. Send them to Mariah asap.*

shuta Joined Fri 06/22/12 Posts: 2	Fri 06/22/12 02:25 AM Edited by shuta on Fri 06/22/12 02:27 AM
OMG ! SOMEONE cheat me in realitionship TARA CUTTING FCUKED ME ,BUT YOU KNO WWHAT ? I STILL LOVE HER SO MUCH ANY BODY HAS AN IDEA PLEASE ?. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? IAM DIEING !!

Christinacospgs Joined Sun 04/27/08 Posts: 6376	Fri 06/22/12 05:11 PM
I was cheated on, and traded for a younger model. Very in my face. I never cheated, but know he probably did more than once on me in afterthought. You shouldn't have to worry about that stuff when you're married. Bottom line is, sometimes people make mistakes and say they're sorry and mean it. Others just really don't care about anyone but themselves and their own desires. Sometimes life sucks. But I've learned to make good lemonade out of very sour lemons. Time heals a lot of wounds.

Gall1frey Joined Sun 06/10/12 Posts: 54	Sat 06/23/12 02:20 PM
I have both cheated with a ex friends wife got her pregnant, I was single at the time and been cheated on since hence now single so am unable to judge a person on it being right or wrong

Lottierose Joined Sun 12/18/11 Posts: 97	Sun 06/24/12 09:51 AM
Its lots of reason but i think when your not seeing eachother enough and getting the comfort and sex, Being ignored treated bad maybe even cheated on so its revenge could be other reasons,and also some people pressure people into cheating wont leave them alone some weaken. I never cheat and i hate when guys try to pressure me into it i was cheated on by one guy he went on to live with the girl who stole him of me. Im heartbroken so i hate cheating i had a miscarriage when i told him of about it.