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      why are some people unappreciative? like you pay them a compliment and they won't even say thank you. 
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      A compliment is a gift. You dont have any rights to it once you have given it. Appreciation? If people dont appreciate your compliments, that is their problem, dont make it yours. :-) Btw, you look gorgeous in your pic. 
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| A compliment is a gift. You dont have any rights to it once you have given it. Appreciation? If people dont appreciate your compliments, that is their problem, dont make it yours. :-) Btw, you look gorgeous in your pic. thanks :) you too | |
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      If only more did this...
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      Probable Because they don't say it a lot or their not use-st to hearing it.
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      I agree with Ladywind, a compliment is a gift
 requiring no feedback. It is simply a truth that is shared, that should stand on its own. Otherwise, tis flattery, and pandering is easy to ignore. You simply cannot take personally, a lack of response from someone you have approached in some way with your compliment. It in no way alters the value of your gift. | |
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      well said.     | |
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      Thank you xxkatyxx. I appreciate your compliment.   | |
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| That's a good question. ^^^^^^^^^ That was a compliment too... | |
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        Edited by
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        Wed 07/18/12 02:01 PM
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| That's a good question. ^^^^^^^^^ That was a compliment too... sorry lol thanks, i scrolled past it and didn't see it | |
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| Thank you xxkatyxx. I appreciate your compliment.   and i yours   | |
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      They may also be shy and may not be able to say anything back. But yeah I do agree with you
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| why are some people unappreciative? like you pay them a compliment and they won't even say thank you. note: i mean in the real world and this site I dunno, it is happening everywhere though. I think a lot of it is in this ever growing fast moving world, a lot of the common courtesies are being forgotten and left behind. Rudeness in many forms has just become a vice for a great many people, whether intentionally or unconsciously. You can't let it get to you though. You are a good person and that is what matters. | |
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| why are some people unappreciative? Well, Katy, I appreciate you being here.   Then again, I am a bit biased because you are Scottish.   | |
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      Please send all compliments to mg1959 and they will get full appreciation.
 thank you in advance press YES if you would like a receipt | |
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| why are some people unappreciative? like you pay them a compliment and they won't even say thank you. note: i mean in the real world and this site I dunno, it is happening everywhere though. I think a lot of it is in this ever growing fast moving world, a lot of the common courtesies are being forgotten and left behind. Rudeness in many forms has just become a vice for a great many people, whether intentionally or unconsciously. You can't let it get to you though. You are a good person and that is what matters. thanks kartagane | |
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| why are some people unappreciative? Well, Katy, I appreciate you being here.   Then again, I am a bit biased because you are Scottish.    thanks david | |
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| why are some people unappreciative? like you pay them a compliment and they won't even say thank you. note: i mean in the real world and this site I don't know. But, then again, I don't worry too much about what other people do anymore. | |
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| why are some people unappreciative? like you pay them a compliment and they won't even say thank you. note: i mean in the real world and this site I believe any compliment does require an acknowledgement to be polite, and not to respond displays ignorance, in the same way as not returning a greeting when meeting somone would be ignorant. Unfortunately, there are ignorant people around, their loss, good manners costs nothing. | |
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