I prefer it in a male, but common sense tells me that some women like more submissive men and some like something in between.

SImilarly, men sometimes like a submissive woman and sometimes they like a dominant woman.



I prefer being able to be soft/passive/submissive but I refuse to be abused or bullied and as a single parent it is necessary that I accept authority in my home. Still, a take charge man is the sexiest kind in my eyes.


which are you : dominant , sub, or something in between?

which do you prefer?

I'm me...F*** your classifications.

No offense intended, but the earliest point of mankind's failure I can route to classifications. It is easy to classify things today, easier than in times past...Anything that segregates a portion of the population as "Lesser" or "More" is detrimental to said society.

I prefer equality, with male dominance..I am very
comfortable in the power-behind-the-throne scenario.

Backup, as it were :-)

I agree. though I implied nothing about a lesser or a more,,,,


just asking about preferences,,,

Placing classifications on anyone automatically places a "Lesser" or "More" tag on them, regardless of what you intended...You cannot have a high, without a low.

sub......Dom.......what about a switch?

the english language uses words to describe things and people,, if others place an order to those words,, its their own issue to deal with


some people are comfortable taking charge, whats called being 'dominant'

others are more comfortable with someone else in charge , whats called 'submissive'

others are in between,,,sounds as if perhaps by nature of not wishing any such description,,,those people are expressing their 'preference[

lol,, I think thats the inbetween,,,

I like a woman thats very feminine and a little submissive but also very smart and practical. Someone who knows when to reel me in when its necessary

I prefer to work through consensus.

Nobody is completely right all the time and no one knows everything
about everything.

I am dominant but I listen to the woman. If the woman is happy she'll make me happy, so...

am i the only one who just thinks of sex when you hear sub and dom?
o.O

Nope; I don't like dominance; I want equality right accross the board. Submissive sounds degrading and I have no wish to be degraded. This make work for other women but not for me.

I prefer it in a male, but common sense tells me that some women like more submissive men and some like something in between.

Like what in between? A hot bottle? A bed pan? A bad pen?




SImilarly, men sometimes like a submissive woman and sometimes they like a dominant woman.

You forgot already. Ey-ey. Do I have to spell it out to you? They also want an i-n-b-e-t-w-e-e-n women in between the sub and dom.



I prefer being able to be soft/passive/submissive but I refuse to be abused or bullied as a single parent. It is necessary that I accept authority of others in my home. Still, a take charge man is the sexiest kind in my eyes.

If your kids bully and abuse you, right, I wouldn't want to take that from my kids, either. That's why I never got married and always wore a condom.


which are you : dominant , sub, or something in between?

I don't think of myself in those terms. I would rather think I'm above all that, and in fact I AM an azzole, arrogant, and a scardy-cat push-over.

which do you prefer?
For beggars like me, who can't be choosers, I'll take now anything that fate dishes out to me with the flop of her wooden spoon into my tin can of sexual starvation.

((Taking notes:) Right, right... water pressure...
Right... backup, flooding. Jeeze. I wonder why women
are and how they've become the dominant race
of humans.)

That sounds so... so... dumm. Sodomm.

Sounds you don't like it... so dont.

(I am actually with you, brother.) (Power brother!!! Secret handshake. One day we shall again dominate the world!! As our fearless leader had said so prophetically: ''and the meek shall inherit the world...'' Power, brother.) (Secret courtsey.)

Now, this is a good answer. For reel.

Date me, and I'll let you know then.

Gaaaah. Dominant, submissive, such role playing. It's the kind of thing that destroys relationships, at least in my experience. I refuse to be put in either of those boxes. Maybe you're too young to remember the way women had to fight to get out of those prescribed roles. If you actually like them, I suppose no harm but geez, so limiting. I can only be myself in a true partnership (which is why I'm alone, of course).

I doubt you are the only one who thinks of that

relationships often are thought of in sexual terms,,,