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Topic: Need some advice....
poohbear82's photo
Fri 08/10/07 11:28 AM
Hi everyone... i just need some pointers... I am meeting someone sunday that I meet on JSH... it's been a while since I have been on a "date" it is going to be very informal... we are meeting at the zoo... I figured there are tons of people there so it should be safe enough... and I found out yesterday one of my co-workers will be there with her family at the same time...
and I am also bringing one of my nephews... But I am really nervouse.. we haven't talked on the phone yet due to cell phone issues and it being long distance for us to use house phones (we live an 1 1/2 apart).. ao I was wondering if you guys have any tips for me so I don't embarass myself and so on... thanks.. gotta run to work now

bookworm's photo
Fri 08/10/07 11:44 AM
Tip Number One: BE YOURSELF. Sure, you're nervous, but.... hey, he's a fellow human being and you're going to have FUN. Don't worry about embarrassing yourself. Just BE yourself. He likes you enough already, you're halfway there.

Tip Number Two: HAVE FUN. See Tip #1.

Tip Number Three: Wear something devastatingly cute, but comfortable. And wear something memorable with it. Wear something you like to wear.

Tip Number Four: HAVE FUN. Did I say that already? Oh, and don't worry so much. He's probably as nervous as you are. Just relax. It's going to be okay.

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Fri 08/10/07 11:46 AM
Always bring a cellphone

Let ppl know where you are at all times

Bring a can of mace or if you don't have that....hairspray works well too in your purse


Sanderellablue's photo
Fri 08/10/07 11:49 AM
If your nephews a child still I'd recommend not taking him,since you don't really know this guy you'd be endangering him and if things were not comfertable it may scare the child. If your going to do this you'd be better too get a freind your age too go with you. People can say anything and be anyone on the net. Even if you've chatted a long time. As for worrying about embarrasing yourself,. Its best too just relax and be who you are.

uk1971's photo
Fri 08/10/07 11:51 AM
Hi pooh. flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Gypsy. You forgot to mention Whip, chains and handcuffs.laugh laugh laugh

Sorry. My sense of humour.

Meeting in a public place like that is a good idea.


If you don't get on with him, you could always throw him to the lions.bigsmile

carebear19622's photo
Fri 08/10/07 11:56 AM
don't fart sick

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Fri 08/10/07 11:57 AM
Who told you I was a dominatrix?????devil devil devil devil devil laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

heartbrokenbaby's photo
Fri 08/10/07 11:58 AM
ive meet sum one off here before just be ur self and watever u do dont trip if u do catch ur self before u fall

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Fri 08/10/07 12:00 PM
stay away from onions and garlicsick laugh laugh

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Fri 08/10/07 12:01 PM
wear clean undies!!!laugh laugh laugh

Omg I sound like a mother!!!!!laugh laugh laugh

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Fri 08/10/07 12:03 PM
Mouthwash! Fresh minty breath
is a plus. Heels-moderate, but
not too high. Show a little cleavage,
but leave some to the imagination.
Other than that, be yourself.

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Fri 08/10/07 12:04 PM
go for it sex on the first date at the zoo. Thats hot

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Fri 08/10/07 12:05 PM
Final tip! Always look a guy in the
eye. Avoid eyeball rolling. Big turnoff.
Avoid talking about yourself too much.
Other than that. Have FUN!

creationsfire's photo
Fri 08/10/07 12:09 PM
I agree, don't take the child, have someone else go and if you don't want them to go, have them follow at sights distance so you can give the "help me" signal. Then they walk up and say, "hey, I didn't know you were going to be here today!" and then they bigsmile

Just be careful. It concerns me that you haven't talked on the phone at all yet. If he can't afford a phone call, then???

If you can't get the friend to come, take gypsy's advice and be careful.

Oh, and don't fartsick my date from hell did. He warned me even and whew!!!!!!!!! Now I will always take people like that seriouslysick

If you feel the urge, move closer to the chimp cages. You know they like to throw ****.sick

Seriously.....be careful.flowerforyou

vivalosdodgers's photo
Fri 08/10/07 12:13 PM
get a good buzz before you go. it helps.....works for me:tongue:

creationsfire's photo
Fri 08/10/07 12:21 PM
Ok, get a good buzz, take you lil nephew to the zoo to meet someone you've never heard the voice of and have a blast! Oh, and don't forget to hide that 1/2 pint in your purse for latergrumble

vivalosdodgers's photo
Fri 08/10/07 12:24 PM
well if she gets buzzed, she shouldnt take the nephew to the zoo i guess:tongue: . never stopped me though. ha ha ha im just saying being a little buzzed vs. being sober just helps the situation, but we're all different. just have fun, but you should really consider leaving jr. at home

nu2topcat's photo
Fri 08/10/07 12:47 PM

Gypsy, I bet you are a hell of a lot of fun on a date. roflmao






















uk1971's photo
Fri 08/10/07 01:25 PM
Stay away from the primate house unless you fancy monkeying around. laugh laugh laugh

creationsfire's photo
Fri 08/10/07 01:44 PM
laugh laugh laugh laugh

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