you know people have said that they have had a date form this site after signing up for this site and within minunites they had there first date and i signed up for it and i haven't gotten a date yet so i'm guessing that what i read about someone else was false advertising why is that???

I've been on here since 5:15 pm and I haven't gotten one marriage proposal from any rich playboy bunnies yet. Why is that?

because they have all been writing ME.....silly man

But you already have Leigh! You can't take 'em all!

AAWWWW $%^&*()^%$$#

If you're not catching any fish, you should probably consider changing your bait.

Start with a profile review. There are thousands of men here and you must stand out. Make yourself look as cool and fun as you can and take some pics. Once that's done, come up with a clever, funny, engaging and surprising first message and send it to 10,000 women. Only read the profiles of the ones that reply. Don't put all your eggs in one basket when you do start getting a few replies.

Women will not fall through your computer screen. You have to to tease them out.

Just a heads up this website is not as big and popular as some of the major ones but one of its benefits is that it doesnt have anywhere near as many scammers. You need to find the women not wait for them to find you ... if nothing else works listen to texas.

Na sorry dude but if you change your bait all you are going to do is try and catch fish you don't want to eat.

Never change you for anybody OP, one day a fish will come along and you will enjoy every moment of the whatever it is fishermen do lol...

My point is you are you! Do not ever change that to please somebody; for that will be a relationship based on lies and will eventually fail:

Max, this site is not that big as more popular sites that usually you have to pay for services. Not only that, the cliche. Each one is different as I learned. I went through a few. None are perfect. Only perfect for me to get the replies are filipina mail order brides sites. Why? I get the replies there! hahhaa. Not kidding!

But that is not where I want to be.. I am seeking for someone here in the States but I hardly get anything. I tried another site.. a Christian dating site and I still get the filipinas. Not like that. Another site used to be good but not anymore because some trolls really ruined it all.

So, this is why you missed out a great peak of internet dating more than 10 years ago. Hardly any scammers/spammers on dating sites.. Almost all were free to join and get replies.. and easily local choices to find. But most sites were sold to Match, Eharmony, and True dating sites. They all cost money to join (says free profile..thats a bunch of baloney). I heard more marriages done through those sites.

Just have to work a bit harder to find one these days. More are turning to networking than a dating site. Networking as in you have friends locally and ask if they know someone and fix you both up on a blind date.. or just an introduction between three of you. Your friend, someone else and you together at a restaurant or mall or place of your interest.. say you all like skiing, can be at ski resort.. or you like sailing, go out on the sailboat or go to the boat show if any happening that week.. Things like that.

I am trying now focus on business trade shows, business networking.. I am doing both ways there.. finding someone and to try to do business with my business!! In future I will be attending conferences and other interest based shows and it works. Really. Trust me, try those.

I suppose you could just make the most of this site. As we never know when it will eventually have to shut down, So, basically, be a good profile tweaker. Otherwise, think where the type of woman you want would go. Which places? What would she be into? Her lifestyle, also.

you got this mixed up with "ChristianMingles" ...there God will find you a date in a couple of seconds so you burn for all eternity...oops...er.. I meant spend an eternity with your betrothed

but remember...no deflowering before marriage

I was asked out on date from a man who lives 2 hours from here. Problem is he was on another site and I saw him there. I never took him up on the offer YET. I think you can find a date if you really try harder. More women on here than available men.

To create a profile and expect a flood of interested women to contact you is just not realistic. You must "network".
Your profile is brief and poorly articulated.
This very thread you started was so poorly written I had to reread it a few times to understand you.
I am sure you are awesome, but you have to at least try to be an interesting man to pursue.
good luck.