Topic: Do you know how to date?
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Mon 02/11/13 01:39 AM





I, too, am searching bigger cities, rather than my home town. Kept
saying to people how I'll only end up moving out of town anyway, due to
my town being almost bankrupt. Everything is going out of business
around here. Not gonna be worth salt to stay here.


that sux... I wish us both a lot of luck then Sarah...



I know, right? Quick, throw some salt over your shoulder. laugh drinker. If I have to move, I'll miss going to the dock, where my grandad sings on a boat in his male voice Symphonia Choir.


Wow, how cool!


what


Cool that she get's to hang out with her grandad at the dock.

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Mon 02/11/13 01:44 AM






I, too, am searching bigger cities, rather than my home town. Kept
saying to people how I'll only end up moving out of town anyway, due to
my town being almost bankrupt. Everything is going out of business
around here. Not gonna be worth salt to stay here.


that sux... I wish us both a lot of luck then Sarah...



I know, right? Quick, throw some salt over your shoulder. laugh drinker. If I have to move, I'll miss going to the dock, where my grandad sings on a boat in his male voice Symphonia Choir.


Wow, how cool!


what


Cool that she get's to hang out with her grandad at the dock.


cool

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Mon 02/11/13 01:47 AM


Doh. I forgot to answer the actual question. I think we all have our own
ways of dating. My version is the way I've always done it. Slowly. Well
I was born in the eighties, so my way is probably a bit more
traditional than the more modern fast-paced "Marry me tomorrow, have
kids the day after, and divorce by the third date". shocked


I clearly hear you on this, Rawrr... modern civilization... gotta love
it, right? noway


laugh Yeah. However, I don't.

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Mon 02/11/13 01:50 AM




I, too, am searching bigger cities, rather than my home town. Kept
saying to people how I'll only end up moving out of town anyway, due to
my town being almost bankrupt. Everything is going out of business
around here. Not gonna be worth salt to stay here.


that sux... I wish us both a lot of luck then Sarah...



I know, right? Quick, throw some salt over your shoulder. laugh
drinker. If I have to move, I'll miss going to the dock, where my
grandad sings on a boat in his male voice Symphonia Choir.


Wow, how cool!



Sometimes it is, at other times, not so much. Awful when you're there on a windy day, and the boat swaying from side to side. laugh.

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Mon 02/11/13 01:59 AM





I, too, am searching bigger cities, rather than my home town. Kept
saying to people how I'll only end up moving out of town anyway, due to
my town being almost bankrupt. Everything is going out of business
around here. Not gonna be worth salt to stay here.


that sux... I wish us both a lot of luck then Sarah...



I know, right? Quick, throw some salt over your shoulder. laugh
drinker. If I have to move, I'll miss going to the dock, where my
grandad sings on a boat in his male voice Symphonia Choir.


Wow, how cool!



Sometimes it is, at other times, not so much. Awful when you're there on a windy day, and the boat swaying from side to side. laugh.


Maybe, but what a romantic picture my mind painted as you gave that brief description. It made me wonder how often does he sing? To how many? The setting?

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Mon 02/11/13 02:13 AM
I think I make a good date. I clean yr pretty good :) Im a good listener, i can hold a conversation on a variety of topics, i wont cringe when you talk about how much you love football. ive even been told im funny sometimes. But fun though i live in a large city i dont seem to capture many guys interest. Oh Well . . Their Loss. :)

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Mon 02/11/13 11:12 AM

I think I make a good date. I clean yr pretty good :) Im a good listener, i can hold a conversation on a variety of topics, i wont cringe when you talk about how much you love football. ive even been told im funny sometimes. But fun though i live in a large city i dont seem to capture many guys interest. Oh Well . . Their Loss. :)


Hi penny... you're not alone in the lacking a man category... because I don't seem to capture any man's interest either... at least not for any type of seriously committed connection... I guess I still have a lot to learn about the baby steps... the meeting and dating issues... like you said tho... oh well.. their loss.. tongue2

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Mon 02/11/13 11:22 AM
Edited by Rawrr_Girl on Mon 02/11/13 11:23 AM


Maybe,
but what a romantic picture my mind painted as you gave that
brief description. It made me wonder how often does he sing? To how
many? The setting?



Nice :). It's on a small river boat. Anyway it saves on having to use
other venues. He sings every few month. They all wear a red waistcoat,
red bow tie, white shirt, black trousers, black shoes. That's their
uniform. They serve mulled red wine. It's quite cosy. It takes place in
the bottom deck. You walk down some wooden stairs to get to it :)

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Mon 02/11/13 11:28 AM



Maybe,
but what a romantic picture my mind painted as you gave that
brief description. It made me wonder how often does he sing? To how
many? The setting?



Nice :). It's on a small river boat. Anyway it saves on having to use
other venues. He sings every few month. They all wear a red waistcoat,
red bow tie, white shirt, black trousers, black shoes. That's their
uniform. They serve mulled red wine. It's quite cosy. It takes place in
the bottom deck. You walk down some wooden stairs to get to it :)


this sounds like a really cool experience...

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Mon 02/11/13 12:12 PM




Maybe,
but what a romantic picture my mind painted as you gave that
brief description. It made me wonder how often does he sing? To how
many? The setting?



Nice :). It's on a small river boat. Anyway it saves on having to use
other venues. He sings every few month. They all wear a red waistcoat,
red bow tie, white shirt, black trousers, black shoes. That's their
uniform. They serve mulled red wine. It's quite cosy. It takes place in
the bottom deck. You walk down some wooden stairs to get to it :)


this sounds like a really cool experience...


Thanks :). Basically, they sing acapella with piano music. So not much to it. They make it look easy. Saying that, their harmonies are well in-sync when they sing, so I can imagine how hard it could really be.

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Mon 02/11/13 12:42 PM





Maybe,
but what a romantic picture my mind painted as you gave that
brief description. It made me wonder how often does he sing? To how
many? The setting?



Nice :). It's on a small river boat. Anyway it saves on having to use
other venues. He sings every few month. They all wear a red waistcoat,
red bow tie, white shirt, black trousers, black shoes. That's their
uniform. They serve mulled red wine. It's quite cosy. It takes place in
the bottom deck. You walk down some wooden stairs to get to it :)


this sounds like a really cool experience...


Thanks :). Basically, they sing acapella with piano music. So not much to it. They make it look easy. Saying that, their harmonies are well in-sync when they sing, so I can imagine how hard it could really be.


their voices in tune with each other... I've always enjoyed acapella singing, especially if there's a bass in the mix... I can hear them in my head...

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Mon 02/11/13 01:29 PM

This is somewhat confusing, but I need to know the reality of it… what exactly is online dating? Is it really even possible?

I thought dating is going out together to eat, the movies, etc… and if you’re into casual sex, that too… but… I just can’t think of posting on forums, emailing, phone calls, but never meeting face to face as dating… am I wrong?

Is there really such a thing, and if so, how do we go about doing it?





Giving respect is always a key ingredient to dating.waving waving

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Mon 02/11/13 01:52 PM


This is somewhat confusing, but I need to know the reality of it… what exactly is online dating? Is it really even possible?

I thought dating is going out together to eat, the movies, etc… and if you’re into casual sex, that too… but… I just can’t think of posting on forums, emailing, phone calls, but never meeting face to face as dating… am I wrong?

Is there really such a thing, and if so, how do we go about doing it?





Giving respect is always a key ingredient to dating.waving waving


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Tue 02/12/13 07:00 AM


I think I make a good date. I clean yr pretty good :) Im a good listener, i can hold a conversation on a variety of topics, i wont cringe when you talk about how much you love football. ive even been told im funny sometimes. But fun though i live in a large city i dont seem to capture many guys interest. Oh Well . . Their Loss. :)


Hi penny... you're not alone in the lacking a man category... because I don't seem to capture any man's interest either... at least not for any type of seriously committed connection... I guess I still have a lot to learn about the baby steps... the meeting and dating issues... like you said tho... oh well.. their loss.. tongue2


Yu Don't Capture Men's Interest?? Now dat's way off. I'd Rather say yu Don't Show Interest, or Don't Show Interest Enough

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Tue 02/12/13 07:22 AM

If that should be †нε̲̣̣̣̥ case can we get started by dating to make a chang. I am nicholas from alabama waiting F̶̲̅Õ̳͡я̅ your approval to get started


hello nicholas from Alabama... nice to meet you... and for this being your very first post... you needn't ask for my permission if you can date... I think there are some really nice sincere women on Mingle that I already approve of, but I'm no match maker, so you will have to do your own choosing... I wish you the best... and do let us know if you make that connect...

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Tue 02/12/13 07:37 AM



I think I make a good date. I clean yr pretty good :) Im a good listener, i can hold a conversation on a variety of topics, i wont cringe when you talk about how much you love football. ive even been told im funny sometimes. But fun though i live in a large city i dont seem to capture many guys interest. Oh Well . . Their Loss. :)


Hi penny... you're not alone in the lacking a man category... because I don't seem to capture any man's interest either... at least not for any type of seriously committed connection... I guess I still have a lot to learn about the baby steps... the meeting and dating issues... like you said tho... oh well.. their loss.. tongue2


Yu Don't Capture Men's Interest?? Now dat's way off. I'd Rather say yu Don't Show Interest, or Don't Show Interest Enough


Well, excuuuuuuuuuuuuse meeeeeeeee.... kenneeeeeeeee... hehehehe...
I am a woman... it's not like I'm going to go behind every guy I think is cool... drool ... fallin all over him... waving constantly in his face :tongue: I don't know how to date... frustrated or I'm too scared scared to actually take the steps that will get me to that point...slaphead but hey... it's my life, my heart, and I'm not in any rush to have it taken from my chest brokenheart and crushed in front of my eyes by every Casanova that might want a piece of me... and if guys are interested in me smokin then they obviously haven't made that crystal clear to me either... it's not like I can read their minds... noway

rantyou feel better now that you got that off your chest...rant

:angel: are we done fighting now... laugh

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Tue 02/12/13 08:01 AM




I think I make a good date. I clean yr pretty good :) Im a good listener, i can hold a conversation on a variety of topics, i wont cringe when you talk about how much you love football. ive even been told im funny sometimes. But fun though i live in a large city i dont seem to capture many guys interest. Oh Well . . Their Loss. :)


Hi penny... you're not alone in the lacking a man category... because I don't seem to capture any man's interest either... at least not for any type of seriously committed connection... I guess I still have a lot to learn about the baby steps... the meeting and dating issues... like you said tho... oh well.. their loss.. tongue2


Yu Don't Capture Men's Interest?? Now dat's way off. I'd Rather say yu Don't Show Interest, or Don't Show Interest Enough


Well, excuuuuuuuuuuuuse meeeeeeeee.... kenneeeeeeeee... hehehehe...
I am a woman... it's not like I'm going to go behind every guy I think is cool... drool ... fallin all over him... waving constantly in his face :tongue: I don't know how to date... frustrated or I'm too scared scared to actually take the steps that will get me to that point...slaphead but hey... it's my life, my heart, and I'm not in any rush to have it taken from my chest brokenheart and crushed in front of my eyes by every Casanova that might want a piece of me... and if guys are interested in me smokin then they obviously haven't made that crystal clear to me either... it's not like I can read their minds... noway

rantyou feel better now that you got that off your chest...rant

:angel: are we done fighting now... laugh


Oops! I think yu Got Me Wrong. From yur Replies 2 Certain issues and yu Agreeing with her Post dat Men don't Show Interest in yu, I'm Disagreeing dat Men Don't get Interested in yu. I'm Saying dat I Believe Men will Always be Attracted 2 yu and Would Want 2 Know yu Closer, but yu Seem a bit too Cautious of Falling in2 the Wrong Hands

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Tue 02/12/13 08:05 AM
Oh! Yu've even Said it all, yu are Very Cautious and it's a Good thing atimes, but in this thing Called Relationship, yu have 2 be Open 2 Absorb Comers (yeah, not all Comers). Being too Cautious is always Like a Brick wall in the Eyes of Men

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Tue 02/12/13 08:10 AM





I think I make a good date. I clean yr pretty good :) Im a good listener, i can hold a conversation on a variety of topics, i wont cringe when you talk about how much you love football. ive even been told im funny sometimes. But fun though i live in a large city i dont seem to capture many guys interest. Oh Well . . Their Loss. :)


Hi penny... you're not alone in the lacking a man category... because I don't seem to capture any man's interest either... at least not for any type of seriously committed connection... I guess I still have a lot to learn about the baby steps... the meeting and dating issues... like you said tho... oh well.. their loss.. tongue2


Yu Don't Capture Men's Interest?? Now dat's way off. I'd Rather say yu Don't Show Interest, or Don't Show Interest Enough


Well, excuuuuuuuuuuuuse meeeeeeeee.... kenneeeeeeeee... hehehehe...
I am a woman... it's not like I'm going to go behind every guy I think is cool... drool ... fallin all over him... waving constantly in his face :tongue: I don't know how to date... frustrated or I'm too scared scared to actually take the steps that will get me to that point...slaphead but hey... it's my life, my heart, and I'm not in any rush to have it taken from my chest brokenheart and crushed in front of my eyes by every Casanova that might want a piece of me... and if guys are interested in me smokin then they obviously haven't made that crystal clear to me either... it's not like I can read their minds... noway

rantyou feel better now that you got that off your chest...rant

:angel: are we done fighting now... laugh


Oops! I think yu Got Me Wrong. From yur Replies 2 Certain issues and yu Agreeing with her Post dat Men don't Show Interest in yu, I'm Disagreeing dat Men Don't get Interested in yu. I'm Saying dat I Believe Men will Always be Attracted 2 yu and Would Want 2 Know yu Closer, but yu Seem a bit too Cautious of Falling in2 the Wrong Hands


aaah, my dear clever friend... you seem to know me too well, already... yes, falling into the wrong hands is a very scary thought.. so it's best to take things slowly... and I'm only teasing you about our fighting...:wink:

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Tue 02/12/13 08:13 AM

Oh! Yu've even Said it all, yu are Very Cautious and it's a Good thing atimes, but in this thing Called Relationship, yu have 2 be Open 2 Absorb Comers (yeah, not all Comers). Being too Cautious is always Like a Brick wall in the Eyes of Men


I totally understand that... but a wise, cautious, and patient man will understand my trepidation, and if he wants to be with me bad enough he will figure out how to get past my defenses... :wink: