I love,a girl with a good personality looks for me is just a bonus :)

Yep; looks are nothing if one lacks personality.

I would say personality.

I would say personality.

I never met a man that didn't want a good looking woman.

I want a man that is somewhat attractive. I want a man, that I don't mind looking at everyday. Good Personality is a must but I look at it
as being equal in my search for a mate.

I knew a guy in high school who was drop dead gorgeous.

He liked to torture insects and small animals

He was horrid ugly when you got to know who he was.

He probably grew up to be a serial killer.

(A very awesome looking serial killer.)

Although looks are nice, they dont last forever. So definately personality, because it is never going to change.. sure wouldnt want to be stuck with a grumble bum for the rest of my life.

You need both, i dont mean liike you have to be a super model but yes i think you have to like the way it looks and the way its is, you can not separate one from the other

Uncle of mine says you are better off marring a mean hot woman instead of a nice ugly girl. The hot woman will not be mean all the time but the ugly woman will always be ugly. That was my uncle, he live over in the red neck area.

Me, I want some one that does have a personality I like but also someone that I find beautiful.

I know I'm going to bust some bubbles with this answer but if I can't see a person and they want to meet me I would be hesitant to meet them no matter how nice they've been to me without me seeing them. I have to see them to be attracted, there's no way around it.

if you are talking about strangers meeting for the first time... I would say both... because without looks people often don't want to take the time to get to know a personality... imo...

I've been with men that didn't have much for looks, but had wonderful character traits and personality...but to be honest, the fire and physical attraction was not there most of the time...but when they said or did something awesome, I wanted to make love to them.

I've been with a man that physically seemed to be perfect for my eyes. So the physical attraction and passion were off the charts ridiculous...but he was a horrible person inside and treated me badly...So I never wanted to make love to him much anyway.

True story.

Sorry for that mountain girl. Some men are mean.
I go for personality

Sorry for that mountain girl. Some men are mean.
I go for personality

Personality for sure but you still have to be attracted.

Its sad with online dating because we have a hard time getting past a pic that we are not attracted too.

In person its just so different because you see the genuine smile..the way they walk or talk..their personality and characteristics that you could be very attracted too that a camera cannot capture.

Awhile back I had viewed a couple of guys' pics (on another dating site) and they had a youtube link of themselves talking on cam. I must say that their pics did them no justice. Not everyone is photogenic.

Jusst saying its to bad :(

Both matter. It's not about being what is considered conventionally attractive, it's about finding someone YOU are attracted to.

They're both important...Not in the traditional "beautiful people" or "socially pleasing" way, but in the "eye of the beholder" way....The best connections are those that trip all the triggers...

Great minds Myka!

Now that's funny!!!

Brilliantly funny!