I wasn't going to mention this but I did just notice this. You have ONLY posted 7 times, that really doesn't seem fair to all the NICE men here. If you were here longer and knew them better, you might have a more FAIR view on things.

all men r not the same, its that some ladies keep picking the same or even worse, a case of getting too deep too soon - two weeks after u met him.all we need 2 do , be it man or woman, is live in the moment. take it for what it's worth. a date is a date , a hug is a hug, a kiss is a kiss etc., live in the "is", not the "was", "could be" or "should be". life will b much more enjoyable, and your face will show less wrinkles.

hi puffins - it is only her 7th post so i think she's just expressing frustration and not really trying to lump all guys together!

so...well live and learn and

for the original poster

Your just 18 and starting to find out that there are REALLY CREEPY DUDES out here, beware possisive, and controlling,
Tell him to back his azzz off or your going to file a complaint with the police. THEN,,,,,if he keeps his STUPID going,,,,FILE IT!!! He WILL STOP THEN,,and if NOT,,have someone with you "ALOT", as he could be mental and VERY DANGEROUS!!!!!!!!
Good luck, and be careful!!!

2 many many equate materialism with love ...cars, jewels , diamonds, most men think one or all of those things will get him a woman. it will definitely get him in debt. that, in a sense, is america's problem - excess and materialism. wake up men - chivalry is not dead, yet.

You really need to straight when you talk to this person who is so persistant. No one needs to be taunted by someone you have no interest in. Tell him there are alternatives but don't just talk. Do it. There are support people all around you. Use them,including the police if he continues. MEN ARE NOT ALL THE SAME. You are young still ,but there are men who are respectful and know how to treat a lady.

Take your time to know someone. At 18, time is on your side.Be friends first.

This guy sounds like he may be stalking you...
Take all the precautions to keep yourself safe!!!

Not all men are the same... You are young. Time and patience
will pay off someday. Goodluck to you...

think you need to broaden yer search.........men are as different as women or any other species ps generalizations usually show narrow mindedness lol cya john

If the guy is saying he had sex with you and he didn't he's really immature and even if he did it's still disrespectful.
The guy is obviously out to lunch as is best to be rude and tell him to f---o!

sounds as tho this guy has some isssues going there. You may want to let the local law enforcement know about it....just to be on the safe side. Would rather see you safe.....not sorry.

I do agree that she needs to tell him to his face to just leave her alone BUT not only meet in a very very public place, take a friend with you (even if the friend sits at another table or something) and to get there go in a car that he is not familiar with. Stay outside and watch HIM go in first and see how he is acting. Depending on if he is just having his first broken heart or if he's acting really weird (which we all hope not but as in carrying a weapon perhaps) then I would go further in the law. You have to be careful now adays but to what extreme...we dont know this person so that has to be your call.

Its a maturity issue.
They did date and now she said she wants to end the relationship
but he,s not letting go.

Any women that thinks she,s worth more that a nickel over the price of a loaf of bread should be flattered that someone thinks highly enough of her to fight for the relationship.

It still shocks me that so many wommen told her to have the kid restrained from simply being relentless and passionate about keeping her in his life.

Has it been that long.

Just talk to the guy and end it as friends.

make sure you get to know someone really good before you even give them a shot. I don't want to offend anyone on this site, as I am a member of this site, however... There are some people on here who can't find a date due to real issues within themselves. Insecurity is something I am sure the majority of people on this site might have. With insecurity, comes the clingy and controlling ability. Especially in guys. No one knows how to accept things, they hold expectations. With that in mind, don't settle either. If it is worth it, it can wait. That's all I need to say.

i have had some bad experiences with some girls, but i never ask why all the girls are bad.
the biggest mistake is to suppose that everybody is same.
the biggest mistake is to generalize.

I read the post and I read some of the suggestion and blocking his number and not accepting his gifts is one solution bring the police in this could make matters worst:( For he could just keep annoying the restaining orders and they don't hold him long and as you know if he wanted to hurt you he would of done it while you two where together. Point the police can hold him off for so long ,but until your just about dead is only when the cops can do something to him ,so don't turn something so simple to just talking to the guy who's problem miss understood right now will solve this problem. He sounds like he been through some cling issues himself sorry sounding like an strink:( But you get my point.

I agree with TLW

Blow him off as well like the wind-bad, just bad all around. Send the flowers back. I'm a certified victims advocate and he's showing early signs of someone who would possible hit you or worse. Jealousy, controlling, and issolation are the top three signs to look for. he has one you say and that's enough trust me, been there too.

I read that they dated that she has judged him controlling and clingy.
The last remarks--"i caint be with some one who tells people we have sex when we dont""

Why was that tossed in at the end----it seems to me that someone is manipulating the information they wish to receive...

Hummm makes one wonder why some post these things but never comes back to respond to them.



First of all your very wrong by saying all men sure funny I have yet found any man like that here or in the past.

As they say there are two sides to every story too


But yeah if he is that bad cut out all communcations with him and file a police report if needed.