Oh let me see, if I feel an attraction towards her, I just basically invite her to my house for coffee. "Coffee" :D

Don't make it a big deal. Don't have an agenda. Be curious ... ask questions to learn about the person you are with.

Keep it light and conversational.

I've been in the interrogations and interviews before and they aren't fun. It isn't fun for the guys either.

I just ask questions to learn more about them. Whether I ever see them again or not doesn't matter.

What made you smile today? What is your biggest dream? Where is your favourite place to be?

All of those questions will tell me more than just surface stuff... it gets to the heart of what is important to them. And that's the person I want to know.

Don't worry ... it is just conversation.

Whatever comes to mind, that is important to You, ask. Conversation is about how you get along and what your interests are.

So, you wanna have some "coffee"?

I won't try to repeat the great advice; all good stuff.

To prevent awkward silences and to avoid interrogation dates, it's good to have some "filler" topics, which are usually provided by the venue. For example, you can ask how hot she likes her chicken wings, or if she has seen Les Miserables, or if she goes to the Blues festivals, if you are at a wings restaurant or a musical show or seeing a Blues band, respectively.

And yes... no lame jokes. However, humor is an attractive trait. High-status males should use more self-deprecating humor and less other-deprecating humor, whereas low-status males should be careful not to self-deprecate too much because it calls attention to their lower status.

I had a buddy of mine who, on one particular night, was piss drunk. Now, he is a funny drunk and he is normally a shy guy when it comes to talking to women. However, on this particular night he was talking to women. I have no idea what he was saying because most of his talk sounded like Mush-mouth from Fat Albert. But it didn't matter. He was somehow charming the pants off of these women. He ended up getting three phone numbers from chicks who really dug him. My point here is that it didn't matter what he said. All that mattered was that he made the effort.

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Talking to them would require 15 thousand words to say something extraordinarily stupid and simple.

To act like you're talking to them, just throw them an ear with a little smile in your eyes.

Does this make any sense to anyone?

Yes please :P

Wheres mine lol