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What is the hardest thing you've ever done? For me right now its tough love with my oldest son tried it before but I'm finally sticking to it. It's very hard but I've enabled him and it has to stop Pam, I have had to do the tough love thing with my son as well......I assure you they will not only grow from it but it will be the best thing in the long run for you both.... I could not ask for a better son then I have now....We are very close he knows when the getting gets rough I will be there for him... as I do with him... It is hard sticking with it but....don't give in just tell him how much ya love him but it's time to stand on his own... He will thank you down the road and make you proud! |
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For me i think it was when my son had his drowning accident at 12
And worse yet did not die for over 4 months in a coma While his mother and i and our other children lived in a tiny motel room next to the hospital trauma center And now watching my other son go down a hard road with drug abuse and criminal mischief So i'm doing tough love on him this time as well And letting him sit in jail awhile...  My heart to all of you for your pain... |
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For me i think it was when my son had his drowning accident at 12 And worse yet did not die for over 4 months in a coma While his mother and i and our other children lived in a tiny motel room next to the hospital trauma center And now watching my other son go down a hard road with drug abuse and criminal mischief So i'm doing tough love on him this time as well And letting him sit in jail awhile... My heart to all of you for your pain... Kiki, that one grabbed my heart... Loosing a child has got to be the hardest thing any parent could go through...My heart goes out to you.... As far as the drug abuse I have dealt with that one and let him sit in Jail for tickets. I refused to get him out for he had tickets in another county and they were going to pick him up as soon as he got out from the ones he was sitting out. That was the beginning of him waking up... We have made it over that hump...... and things are great now.... |
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Edited by
KiK2me
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Wed 06/19/13 10:31 AM
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For me i think it was when my son had his drowning accident at 12 And worse yet did not die for over 4 months in a coma While his mother and i and our other children lived in a tiny motel room next to the hospital trauma center And now watching my other son go down a hard road with drug abuse and criminal mischief So i'm doing tough love on him this time as well And letting him sit in jail awhile... My heart to all of you for your pain... Kiki, that one grabbed my heart... Loosing a child has got to be the hardest thing any parent could go through...My heart goes out to you.... As far as the drug abuse I have dealt with that one and let him sit in Jail for tickets. I refused to get him out for he had tickets in another county and they were going to pick him up as soon as he got out from the ones he was sitting out. That was the beginning of him waking up... We have made it over that hump...... and things are great now.... That is awesome and he will appreciate you so much more when he does have it totally together ! I hope my son will see the light as well At least i know i did the best i could raising them Now it is up to them...  |
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For me i think it was when my son had his drowning accident at 12 And worse yet did not die for over 4 months in a coma While his mother and i and our other children lived in a tiny motel room next to the hospital trauma center And now watching my other son go down a hard road with drug abuse and criminal mischief So i'm doing tough love on him this time as well And letting him sit in jail awhile... My heart to all of you for your pain... |
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To stop fight the Father ...I get in the way of myself LOL!!! trying to listen with the right ears...learning to his voice is no JOKE!! For my sheep know my voice... Just being totally mindful and to be obedient! HARD, yes because this world is so Noise! being about to function in it is tuff!
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For me i think it was when my son had his drowning accident at 12 And worse yet did not die for over 4 months in a coma While his mother and i and our other children lived in a tiny motel room next to the hospital trauma center And now watching my other son go down a hard road with drug abuse and criminal mischief So i'm doing tough love on him this time as well And letting him sit in jail awhile... My heart to all of you for your pain... my condolences Kiksan MUCH LOVE! |
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What is the hardest thing you've ever done? Telling my 9-year-old son that his mother had died. That was 3 years ago. sorry to hear that...Lost my grandmother haven't been right since.. I understand... |
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I could make a list...
 and sadly it would be long but we are all who we are because of the hardships and life experiences we're been through. The hurt and the pain listed above do not surprise me for you are all amazing people with such strength and love in your hearts God bless you all and thank you for having me be a part!
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Mine is nothing in comparison to all of yours. I wish you all patience in dealing with your issues.
My now ex asked for a divorce. I didn't know why, and she wouldn't tell me. To this day I still don't know for certain. I gave up trying to find out long ago. I deserve better. |
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Having to tell everyone I knew that I was bi. It wasn't that I, myself, couldn't accept it, it was more worrying that THEY may not have accepted it. Luckily they did. And with this website not having a bi option, then I get why anyone would assume that I'm 100% straight.
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The hardest thing I ever did was to stand up to my ex and go to court for a child support order.
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Edited by
1Cynderella
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Mon 06/24/13 02:41 PM
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Yeah, changed my mind. Don't wanna share it here. Sorry
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Wow! Some amazingly heart breaking stories here.
Mine is losing my mom in April 2000...then my husband the 4th of July 2000....I don't think I'm over it yet, still have bad dreams of that period in my life. |
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(sorry for the gory details). I was once on a plane for about fifteen hours, and I was getting diahorrea (told you it was gory). I just decided to take my drink with me into the bathroom, so that it passed quicker, while sat on the...........erm........toilet. Luckily I passed a normal stool again. It err.........took a while.
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I would say getting over myself, and giving me to a higher purpose.
I went through a lot of stuff and in the past have share some of it here. Was actually the first place I ever opened up, now you can't get me to shutup. Every time I shared something I went oops (it's a public forum) but I think I needed to get some of the stuff out and the best place to hold me accountable was a forum for all to see (maybe I don't know). Would I do it now? No way, but I'm glad it got spilled then. All in all though the daily walk is both the hardest and the easiest thing to do. Easiest when I'm thinking of others and hardest when I put my focus on me and my sacrifices. Some how I can feel the people who have gone before me cheering me on to keep the faith and not give up the things I have starter or joined in motion. Last week I found out a friend of mine lost his boy. I wrote to him and said how I felt. His response to me was "it's tough but I will see Ryan in heaven". Once again a set of simple words brought me to my knees. I wake up every day and have a choice and an answer to that choice. Every night I lay in bed and have a chance to reflect on if maybe the hardest thing was after all the easiest. I love you guys, you give me tears and you give me smiles. Most of all you give me a piece of you and I don't know how the rest feel but it means tons to me. |
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Edited by
KiK2me
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Mon 06/24/13 04:09 PM
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(sorry for the gory details). I was once on a plane for about fifteen hours, and I was getting diahorrea (told you it was gory). I just decided to take my drink with me into the bathroom, so that it passed quicker, while sat on the...........erm........toilet. Luckily I passed a normal stool again. It err.........took a while. Sounds like you had a really sh itty time of it ... Real sorry to hear about it lol  ...no REALLY ...REALLY sorry to hear about it  Hi MG .. |
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(sorry for the gory details). I was once on a plane for about fifteen hours, and I was getting diahorrea (told you it was gory). I just decided to take my drink with me into the bathroom, so that it passed quicker, while sat on the...........erm........toilet. Luckily I passed a normal stool again. It err.........took a while. Sounds like you had a really sh itty time of it ... Real sorry to hear about it lol ...no REALLY ...REALLY sorry to hear about it Hi MG .. hello my bro!! |
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Hanging on in quiet desperation is the English way, the time has come, song is over
thought I'd something more to say. |
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