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Topic: I love u but I'm not 'in' love with u: Whats the difference
TheDomina's photo
Tue 07/16/13 06:44 AM
Some say I love u but i'm not 'in' love with u. What's the difference? How do u know when ur IN love?

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Tue 07/16/13 06:48 AM
perhaps they love you as a friend loves a companion but do not feel a romantic attraction?

ridewytepony's photo
Tue 07/16/13 08:04 AM
Edited by ridewytepony on Tue 07/16/13 08:08 AM
like if its some body your with and he has no plans to leave then
it simply means he's just not there yet he may not even love you yet
but is saying that because your saying " I love you."
but if he's made sacrifices to be with you then don't try to hurry it
he Will get there a lot quick if your sweeter, (lots or bjs)drinker ..lol

usually I don't notice just loving a woman and then later falling in love

I care for her, then it happens like a spell but a think ultimately I
let go of what was holding me back and succumb to the poision.

I just may see her accross the room and finally I love her,and that's straight
to, in love with her! then I'll take her ...or try.. then..she'll say ...noooo..leave me!
then i'll say ..but I love you...that's right! you always have to keep something
for a surprise. now I'm f♥cked!!! (no pun intended:wink: or was there?

At the end of a, IN LOVE "affair" is the TIME you would most likely LOVE someone.
you both were once deep in love but its ran its course, to much hurt and your no longer
in love but still have a lot of the emotions of been in love.
possibly you may not want him but you don't want anyone else too.

so you still deeply care for this person, you might not like then all the time but you still
love the person
Ok? clear as mud?

and I'm nornal & anybody that's different from me is f♡cked up.

and I good day to you mam.

peace 》《 out

pony,


TheDomina's photo
Tue 07/16/13 09:54 AM

like if its some body your with and he has no plans to leave then
it simply means he's just not there yet he may not even love you yet
but is saying that because your saying " I love you."
but if he's made sacrifices to be with you then don't try to hurry it
he Will get there a lot quick if your sweeter, (lots or bjs)drinker ..lol

usually I don't notice just loving a woman and then later falling in love

I care for her, then it happens like a spell but a think ultimately I
let go of what was holding me back and succumb to the poision.

I just may see her accross the room and finally I love her,and that's straight
to, in love with her! then I'll take her ...or try.. then..she'll say ...noooo..leave me!
then i'll say ..but I love you...that's right! you always have to keep something
for a surprise. now I'm f♥cked!!! (no pun intended:wink: or was there?

At the end of a, IN LOVE "affair" is the TIME you would most likely LOVE someone.
you both were once deep in love but its ran its course, to much hurt and your no longer
in love but still have a lot of the emotions of been in love.
possibly you may not want him but you don't want anyone else too.

so you still deeply care for this person, you might not like then all the time but you still
love the person
Ok? clear as mud?

and I'm nornal & anybody that's different from me is f♡cked up.

and I good day to you mam.

peace 》《 out

pony,





Aww Pony, ur deep! Thanks for sharing " I love u" tongue2

TheDomina's photo
Tue 07/16/13 09:55 AM

perhaps they love you as a friend loves a companion but do not feel a romantic attraction?



but was a romantic 'love' affair. so I don't get it.

gay97006's photo
Tue 07/16/13 10:59 AM
glasses

"Love is Blind"

I love my dog ... am I in love with my pet?

What's inside? Are we being "blind-sided" with what is on the outside?

Only you can know when you are "truly in love"!


ridewytepony's photo
Tue 07/16/13 11:18 AM
Edited by ridewytepony on Tue 07/16/13 11:21 AM


like if its some body your with and he has no plans to leave then
it simply means he's just not there yet he may not even love you yet
but is saying that because your saying " I love you."
but if he's made sacrifices to be with you then don't try to hurry it
he Will get there a lot quick if your sweeter, (lots or bjs)drinker ..lol

usually I don't notice just loving a woman and then later falling in love

I care for her, then it happens like a spell but a think ultimately I
let go of what was holding me back and succumb to the poision.

I just may see her accross the room and finally I love her,and that's straight
to, in love with her! then I'll take her ...or try.. then..she'll say ...noooo..leave me!
then i'll say ..but I love you...that's right! you always have to keep something
for a surprise. now I'm f♥cked!!! (no pun intended:wink: or was there?

At the end of a, IN LOVE "affair" is the TIME you would most likely LOVE someone.
you both were once deep in love but its ran its course, to much hurt and your no longer
in love but still have a lot of the emotions of been in love.
possibly you may not want him but you don't want anyone else too.

so you still deeply care for this person, you might not like then all the time but you still
love the person
Ok? clear as mud?

and I'm nornal & anybody that's different from me is f♡cked up.

and I good day to you mam.

peace 》《 out

pony,





Aww Pony, ur deep! Thanks for sharing " I love u" tongue2


aww your very appreciative, "I'm so deep:laughing: :laughing: thanx for the laugh

I enjoyed writing that one, its been a while as its been slow and there hasn't been
any good advice threads lately, can't say I've explained pony's normal version of
that one before. flowers

muku93's photo
Tue 07/16/13 11:26 AM
Jise Ham Pasand Karte Hai Use Pyar Karte Hai.Par Jise Pyar Karte Hai Uski Pasand Ko Pasand Karte Hai. Translet...If You Need.

no photo
Tue 07/16/13 01:16 PM
your not quite ready to be someone's indentured servant

....that's what it means :wink:

no photo
Tue 07/16/13 04:11 PM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Tue 07/16/13 04:12 PM
I know what it should mean or what it actually means, but what you need to know is what does HE MEAN BY IT?

Probably this:

He is not THAT INTO YOU... but he does like you, and care about you..

Or

He wants to date you, but don't expect a marriage proposal, because he's still looking for someone he can be ga ga over. (In love with)







isaac_dede's photo
Tue 07/16/13 04:25 PM
98% of the time when they say "i love you, but i'm not "in love" with you" means they are either bored with you, and/or they have their eyes on someone else and are trying to let you down easy

no photo
Tue 07/16/13 04:34 PM

98% of the time when they say "i love you, but i'm not "in love" with you" means they are either bored with you, and/or they have their eyes on someone else and are trying to let you down easy



Exactly.

It means that they are about to swing from your vine to another, and when they catch the other vine, the "love" they have for you will be: Lets just be friends.... and soon he will disappear completely.



Goofball73's photo
Tue 07/16/13 04:42 PM

Some say I love u but i'm not 'in' love with u. What's the difference? How do u know when ur IN love?


When she doesn't ask for the money up front. laugh

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Tue 07/16/13 04:45 PM


Some say I love u but i'm not 'in' love with u. What's the difference? How do u know when ur IN love?


When she doesn't ask for the money up front. laugh


laugh laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Tue 07/16/13 04:50 PM
Edited by cuddlebunny00 on Tue 07/16/13 04:51 PM
I love you as a person and a friend..but not as a mate
I have sticky keys sad

no photo
Tue 07/16/13 04:56 PM


Some say I love u but i'm not 'in' love with u. What's the difference? How do u know when ur IN love?


When she doesn't ask for the money up front. laugh

bro shake smokin

TheDomina's photo
Tue 07/16/13 05:19 PM

glasses

"Love is Blind"

I love my dog ... am I in love with my pet?

What's inside? Are we being "blind-sided" with what is on the outside?

Only you can know when you are "truly in love"!




I'm totally in love with my dog. What's ur point. He makes me feel sooooo good..... OmG and u know what. I think he's in love with me too.

TheDomina's photo
Tue 07/16/13 05:21 PM



like if its some body your with and he has no plans to leave then
it simply means he's just not there yet he may not even love you yet
but is saying that because your saying " I love you."
but if he's made sacrifices to be with you then don't try to hurry it
he Will get there a lot quick if your sweeter, (lots or bjs)drinker ..lol

usually I don't notice just loving a woman and then later falling in love

I care for her, then it happens like a spell but a think ultimately I
let go of what was holding me back and succumb to the poision.

I just may see her accross the room and finally I love her,and that's straight
to, in love with her! then I'll take her ...or try.. then..she'll say ...noooo..leave me!
then i'll say ..but I love you...that's right! you always have to keep something
for a surprise. now I'm f♥cked!!! (no pun intended:wink: or was there?

At the end of a, IN LOVE "affair" is the TIME you would most likely LOVE someone.
you both were once deep in love but its ran its course, to much hurt and your no longer
in love but still have a lot of the emotions of been in love.
possibly you may not want him but you don't want anyone else too.

so you still deeply care for this person, you might not like then all the time but you still
love the person
Ok? clear as mud?

and I'm nornal & anybody that's different from me is f♡cked up.

and I good day to you mam.

peace 》《 out

pony,





Aww Pony, ur deep! Thanks for sharing " I love u" tongue2


aww your very appreciative, "I'm so deep:laughing: :laughing: thanx for the laugh

I enjoyed writing that one, its been a while as its been slow and there hasn't been
any good advice threads lately, can't say I've explained pony's normal version of
that one before. flowers


thanks for the flowers, putting them in water as we speak. what r they, carnations? happy

TheDomina's photo
Tue 07/16/13 05:25 PM



perhaps they love you as a friend loves a companion but do not feel a romantic attraction?



but was a romantic 'love' affair. so I don't get it.
Ah. then they love having sex with you and dont want more.


really? what if we've been together since age 9

TheDomina's photo
Tue 07/16/13 05:28 PM
Edited by TheDomina on Tue 07/16/13 06:07 PM

I know what it should mean or what it actually means, but what you need to know is what does HE MEAN BY IT?

Probably this:

He is not THAT INTO YOU... but he does like you, and care about you..

Or

He wants to date you, but don't expect a marriage proposal, because he's still looking for someone he can be ga ga over. (In love with)




hmmmm, u know Judge Jellybean, I think u just made a very valid eye-opening point. wow! it hurts! :cry: must be love right?sad

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