I have an ex that likes to touch me when he sees me. Has rubbed my arm even came up behind me and smelled my hair as he surprise hugged me. Other things...once I told him I didn't like him touching me and that he had a lot of nerve doing so. His response was that sometimes he just missed me. Then made the comment I loved his attention before why was now any different!!!

Funny thing is he is the one that cheated and broke my heart. He even married the woman he cheated with. It makes me angry the games he plays and that he thinks he can touch me like I am still his. Once he even held my arm tight when I tried to just walk on by with out acknowledging him.

Mace his a*, or stun him...Stun gun will put anyone on their a* and make them reconsider a decision quickly.

rockngal's ex apparently has rocks in his head

I had a similar situation with one of my ex's where if I agreed to let me come over to talk or visit he would think it meant more.....
it was also difficult cos I really did like him :)

My younger sis once had a guy that went to her house and she did everything to keep him out. After her keeping him on the porch for something like half an hour to an hour he finally said, "Fine, I know when I'm not wanted."

Obviously the idiot didn't know when he wasn't wanted. Sounds to me like your ex is the same way. I like the stun gun idea. Maybe use it on his crotch if you get a chance so that he doesn't have anymore kids if he has any at all. hahaha

Mace sounds fun! But then again a stun would be pretty entertaining!

I don't understand why bother someone you cast aside like trash???

Control, last ditch effort, despise over past decisions...Many reasons. However, all this said...You're going to have to put the dagger in the relationship if you want it to change, because he isn't going to do it for you and if it is making you uncomfortable than obviously s* needs to change.

I don't understand...we were together over a year. We didn't have intercourse (did about everything else) he said he wanted to marry me first. Haha then I find out
he is gonna be a dad! I just walked away. He never seemed the type to be so cruel to rub salt into a open wound like he does....where's that dam* stun gun!

Am with the stun gun!!

If that were me; I would reef his arm up his back and tell him I would break his arm if he didn't keep his grimy paws to himself but I am a nasty woman.

You could ask the popo what sort of misdemeanor charges you could file on him.

If that didn't stop it, look into felony charges.

Too bad you didnt have somebody you knew nearby with a camera.to send pics to his wife...sheesh..what a.jerk

stun gun sounds great... wait for the right moment, like when he has the smug look on his face right when he touches you, zap his azz... he won't do it again after that...if he even talks to you again...

I can give you a link to a one million volt stun gun ?
{Police quality} for around 50 or so dollars ?
hehehe...

Post his pic.on uglypeople.com

The next time I ran into him and he pulled that crap with me again, I'd hold up my cell phone and tell him if it happens again, I'll send the recording I just made of it to his wife.

That ought to put a stop to it...as well as make him jump every time his wife gets a text or email.

The only reason he's doing it is because he thinks he holds the cards. Without ACTUALLY stooping to his level, remind him you have some cards of your own.

File a sexual harrassment complaint, let the cops tell him how it is wrong.

I also see this as a "control" behavior. He feels you're still in love with him and he can pretty much do what he wants. He still feels he owns you. I'm going on a limb here to say that you still do care a lot for him. Yes you know he's a jerk and you did the right thing by walking away.
Now for your heart. You need to get mad! Mad at how he played you for so long! Mad at his behavior with another woman! Mad that you didn't seem to matter to him at all! Mad that he even married her! Mad that he robbed you of the possible future you were dreaming of with him!
Now think hard! I know you did care for him a great deal. But the person you fell in love with is not him! I think you fell in love with who you thought he was and who you dreamed he could be. I know this feeling and it hurt like hell for me to admit it to myself. Once you do though, then you take your POWER BACK! You then will NOT tolerate his grabbiness and you will make it loud and clear for all to hear that he is not ALLOWED to touch you, grab you, kiss you etc. because you are NOT his property!
Just my opinion. I hope I've helped a wee bit!

Throw rocks at him.