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I think choosing someone to be with is just like anything else in our lives, a choice...a decision. I believe it's one of the biggest we can make, but it's still just a choice. I have no doubt passed up a couple of offers that would have been very nice fits for me and I would have been satisfied in a forever relationship with them. But there is something telling me there is more and I don't believe there is just one of those either.  Then again....it could just be gas.    Pony is back and racing the same track. 
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Edited by
Duttoneer
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Sat 08/17/13 03:19 AM
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i'm just saying, so many people believe the ONE is out there and that there is just one special person out there for everyone. But i think there are many ONES out there that can make you happy and vice versa, sometimes we just choose people thats not right for us and we get burned by it. Thats why we should always remain hopeful cos there are people out there that are compatible and not just ONE person for each one. I'm not saying we must have more that one person, i'm just saying we have to be hopeful. I agree that there are many people you could be compatible with, but I am of the opinion there is a very special person out there waiting, and if you are lucky enough to meet them in your lifetime then you have found "the one". There may be more, but you will only ever need to meet one of them, unless through tragic loss you need to look again. You have to stay hopeful, I believe they can be found if you really want to find them. |
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Edited by
ridewytepony
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Sat 08/17/13 04:04 PM
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Edited by
ridewytepony
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Sat 08/17/13 04:07 PM
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I think choosing someone to be with is just like anything else in our lives, a choice...a decision. I believe it's one of the biggest we can make, but it's still just a choice. I have no doubt passed up a couple of offers that would have been very nice fits for me and I would have been satisfied in a forever relationship with them. But there is something telling me there is more and I don't believe there is just one of those either. Then again....it could just be gas. Pony is back and racing the same track. I can't rub off my spots 
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I am sure Keanu would have issues with this non-belief in "The One".  Lol maybe but I can't imagine in a world of 7 Billion people that theres only ONE..its abusrd |
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I agree! I think " THE ONE" is a myth and harmful to us. There could be many "someones" who can make you smile, ... If you've decided to see one person exclusively and forsake others than THAT makes them the one. Just not the only possible ONE in the universe! I think "teebee" said it quite well and I agree! I think we will meet several people in our lives that we are quite compatable with and it could work out great between us. THE ONE is the one we choose amongst them! 
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i'm just saying, so many people believe the ONE is out there and that there is just one special person out there for everyone. But i think there are many ONES out there that can make you happy and vice versa, sometimes we just choose people thats not right for us and we get burned by it. Thats why we should always remain hopeful cos there are people out there that are compatible and not just ONE person for each one. I'm not saying we must have more that one person, i'm just saying we have to be hopeful. You are exactly right..there is more than one person who is right for you! Never stop looking because one didn't work out! |
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i'm just saying, so many people believe the ONE is out there and that there is just one special person out there for everyone. But i think there are many ONES out there that can make you happy and vice versa, sometimes we just choose people thats not right for us and we get burned by it. Thats why we should always remain hopeful cos there are people out there that are compatible and not just ONE person for each one. I'm not saying we must have more that one person, i'm just saying we have to be hopeful. You are exactly right..there is more than one person who is right for you! Never stop looking because one didn't work out! This is probably true  |
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Logically speaking you quite right about that....coz if actually we'd one special person for us,,,after a break up from one's first love one isn't suppose to have another love,,so we have more than one special persons out there:)
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Oh Shakespeare, you talk with such charm
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You have forced me to really ponder this one. My conclusion:
A. Maybe we have the best chance of meeting, "The One" when we have given up on finding him/her. At this point, any shallow or ill-concieved, "must-haves" we covet have fallen away. Our souls are then laid bare, allowing us to truly meld with another on a pure, spiritual level. The lovely, well-to-do socialite may find herself experiencing just such a magical moment with the garbage man. The man who can only picture himself with a conservative, soft-spoken woman with a slender build and grace like a gazelle may be intrigued by a solid, buxom woman with a potty mouth and a brash demeanor to B. We are drawn to, "The One", not by any cookie-cutter criteria, but by timing...where you happen to be in your life socially, emotionally, spiritually, and intellectually. These are much like the proverbial planets which must align for one to be motivated enough to contemplate a person and say from our heart-of-hearts, "She's the One", or, "He's the One". C. The timelines of each person whose eyes meet from across the crowded room determines love. |
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And yet what % of a billion people can you expect to meet on a personal level in a lifetime? A hundred? Two hundred? Considering this, it seems that the concept of, "The One" is plausible, maybe even pre-ordained, after all.
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