Topic: How to be a Player
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Fri 09/06/13 08:59 PM
Snickers

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Fri 09/06/13 09:05 PM



Well being a player can be done two one I would not advise since it filled with drama deceit jealousy and other various emotional turmoil. That is to just be a cheater. The other way is to make it clear you are single and do not want commitment. I cant say both ways dont bring drama a persons way cause people have been known to catch feelings regardless. At least letting the other parties know you are single is more strait forward.

Personally I cannot do either. I was raised to treat others how I want to be treated and I would much rather have a good woman who is loyal to me.

NOW HERE IS A GOOD MAN!!!


Or a player. How can you tell?

I have actually watched him and how he answers things in the rooms...he is a nice guy! Just because you are a player...does not mean everyone else is!!!

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Fri 09/06/13 09:37 PM

Confident men are usually not shy and have no problem talking to women or having plenty of women interested in them.


That is soooo true. Plus no girl likes players...

All Confident men are not Players. A Player is a man who does not want to Committ to any woman, he loves playing the field.

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Fri 09/06/13 09:44 PM




Well being a player can be done two one I would not advise since it filled with drama deceit jealousy and other various emotional turmoil. That is to just be a cheater. The other way is to make it clear you are single and do not want commitment. I cant say both ways dont bring drama a persons way cause people have been known to catch feelings regardless. At least letting the other parties know you are single is more strait forward.

Personally I cannot do either. I was raised to treat others how I want to be treated and I would much rather have a good woman who is loyal to me.

NOW HERE IS A GOOD MAN!!!


You are right...he is such a good man. Women want someone they can bring home to mom/ dad....not someone who is a player and or gives sex easy

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Fri 09/06/13 11:56 PM

So I have been challenged to come up with three things that make me a potential player.


I'm interested to know who challenged you to this. lol. I get it. They don't want to be seen as a player, so they're making you do their dirty work for them.

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Sat 09/07/13 01:22 AM

Well being a player can be done two one I would not advise since it filled with drama deceit jealousy and other various emotional turmoil. That is to just be a cheater. The other way is to make it clear you are single and do not want commitment. I cant say both ways dont bring drama a persons way cause people have been known to catch feelings regardless. At least letting the other parties know you are single is more strait forward.

Personally I cannot do either. I was raised to treat others how I want to be treated and I would much rather have a good woman who is loyal to me.





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Sat 09/07/13 01:24 AM
Edited by IndigoIllusions on Sat 09/07/13 01:29 AM



Well being a player can be done two one I would not advise since it filled with drama deceit jealousy and other various emotional turmoil. That is to just be a cheater. The other way is to make it clear you are single and do not want commitment. I cant say both ways dont bring drama a persons way cause people have been known to catch feelings regardless. At least letting the other parties know you are single is more strait forward.

Personally I cannot do either. I was raised to treat others how I want to be treated and I would much rather have a good woman who is loyal to me.

NOW HERE IS A GOOD MAN!!!


Or a player. How can you tell?




Or are YOU the player calling HIM a player...hmmm?spock surprised

laugh flowerforyou (jk)

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Sat 09/07/13 01:32 AM
There are a few things I'd like to respond with, but I think I'll hold my tongue...some people just have a lot to learn...

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Sat 09/07/13 02:46 AM
So I am very close to becoming a player.

And very close to becoming extremely happy as well! Keep up the good work!
I actually feel sorry for you ...

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Sat 09/07/13 03:45 AM




Well being a player can be done two one I would not advise since it filled with drama deceit jealousy and other various emotional turmoil. That is to just be a cheater. The other way is to make it clear you are single and do not want commitment. I cant say both ways dont bring drama a persons way cause people have been known to catch feelings regardless. At least letting the other parties know you are single is more strait forward.

Personally I cannot do either. I was raised to treat others how I want to be treated and I would much rather have a good woman who is loyal to me.

NOW HERE IS A GOOD MAN!!!


Or a player. How can you tell?

I have actually watched him and how he answers things in the rooms...he is a nice guy! Just because you are a player...does not mean everyone else is!!!


Oh well, if you've read stuff that he posted on the internet that proves it then.

Are you calling me a player? What makes you think that? Oh yeah, you must know all about me because I'm on the internet. Do you know what they call people that think that they can say things like that about other people on the internet that they only know from what they post on the internet?

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Sat 09/07/13 03:48 AM





Well being a player can be done two one I would not advise since it filled with drama deceit jealousy and other various emotional turmoil. That is to just be a cheater. The other way is to make it clear you are single and do not want commitment. I cant say both ways dont bring drama a persons way cause people have been known to catch feelings regardless. At least letting the other parties know you are single is more strait forward.

Personally I cannot do either. I was raised to treat others how I want to be treated and I would much rather have a good woman who is loyal to me.

NOW HERE IS A GOOD MAN!!!


Or a player. How can you tell?

I have actually watched him and how he answers things in the rooms...he is a nice guy! Just because you are a player...does not mean everyone else is!!!


Oh well, if you've read stuff that he posted on the internet that proves it then.

Are you calling me a player? What makes you think that? Oh yeah, you must know all about me because I'm on the internet. Do you know what they call people that think that they can say things like that about other people on the internet that they only know from what they post on the internet?

YOU ARE WOUND UP TO TIGHT...RELAX, THIS IS THE INTERNET AFTER ALL!!!

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Sat 09/07/13 04:10 AM






Well being a player can be done two one I would not advise since it filled with drama deceit jealousy and other various emotional turmoil. That is to just be a cheater. The other way is to make it clear you are single and do not want commitment. I cant say both ways dont bring drama a persons way cause people have been known to catch feelings regardless. At least letting the other parties know you are single is more strait forward.

Personally I cannot do either. I was raised to treat others how I want to be treated and I would much rather have a good woman who is loyal to me.

NOW HERE IS A GOOD MAN!!!


Or a player. How can you tell?

I have actually watched him and how he answers things in the rooms...he is a nice guy! Just because you are a player...does not mean everyone else is!!!


Oh well, if you've read stuff that he posted on the internet that proves it then.

Are you calling me a player? What makes you think that? Oh yeah, you must know all about me because I'm on the internet. Do you know what they call people that think that they can say things like that about other people on the internet that they only know from what they post on the internet?

YOU ARE WOUND UP TO TIGHT...RELAX, THIS IS THE INTERNET AFTER ALL!!!


Am I really? Another example of internet psychoanalysis. The point that I was making is that if it's hard to know who the players are in real life, you really can't tell from things that they say on the internet.

So many people here seem so keen to declare their moral principles at every available opportunity. Why? Who are they trying to impress? The guy admitted himself that the only way that you can know is to meet him and that's true but a player would also say that if he was a player.

Personally, I don't come on this forum as a means to get women because you all live too far away for dating anyway. It doesn't matter to me what you think I am, or how you choose to flame me but you don't know me and you are really in no position to make judgments about my state of mind.

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Sat 09/07/13 04:54 AM
Well as I said earlier. The only real way to tell if a player is a player is to get to know them and even then there is still that chance you can get played.

TawtStrat wasn't wrong with what he has said. Being too trusting of others is how a lot of people end up getting played.

Having been on the receiving end of being cheated on before I can say it is healthy to have at least a little disbelief when it comes to such matters.

Playing the field is a matter of how well someone sells themselves. A good sales person knows how to hide their true feelings and put up a friendly and inviting front. Ever heard the saying "Buyer beware"? Well certainly the same applies to relationships if not more so because it isn't just a matter of money. Matters of the heart can be far more damaging as well as far reaching in how one reacts or conducts themselves after being cheated on.

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Mon 09/09/13 01:12 PM
All bs aside players are just lie. You want to meet women stop being afraid worst that can happen is you get shut down. So what. There is no one answer but try this go to your local public and only talk to the hotchicks but don't try to pick them up. Talk to them ask question. All women like to talk about themselves.but you need to, easy with question.ie work....music.. Fun. Mabey a easy complement like you hair is cool did you do yourself. Supply women don't want players theymostly want someone to talk to

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Mon 09/09/13 01:35 PM
Don't players normally have a mansion, with tons of Champagne, and a lot of women sprawled all over him?

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Mon 09/09/13 01:38 PM
Give me time baby.

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Mon 09/09/13 01:38 PM

Don't players normally have a mansion, with tons of Champagne, and a lot of women sprawled all over him?


I think that is his dream goal. laugh

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Mon 09/09/13 02:22 PM
I dated a couple of Players, years ago, we did not meet online but inperson. They had good jobs, both charming and love to be generous with their women. Players are usually confident and charming but if you want a committed relationship, he is not the guy.

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Mon 09/09/13 03:36 PM
you guys are really funny
and for you that want to be a player you will lose every thing at the end even the ladies

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Mon 09/09/13 04:07 PM
look for david de angelo's web page.....he is the best life coach and dating coach there is anywhere.....he has live courses, audio's and video's,,you will get best advice from him , not out in the wild...........have fun and enjoy.....