Im 22 and my girlfriend of 5 years who i was engaged to and was living with her and her family has just left me for someone else. Iv had to move in with my friend I mean im still up now at 5:50am i havent slept much over past few days and i just want to know if i can actually find someone here because i really want someone who will actually love me. Thanks

It's sort of a waste of time, but in my case, I'm bored so I'll just give it a shot anyway. Well, anyway good luck man. Sorry to hear about what happened. That really sucks

This site has way to many fake accounts & scammers. So it could be a waste of time for you.

I'm here for friends though & I've met at least 2 good ones on here :)

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take so why not give it a try. At any rate you might meet a few cool people along the way.

I'm sorry to hear about what happened and I expect you do feel pretty shitty. Personally though, I think you need to take time out to deal with that before you move on. I don't believe moving onto another relationship whilst you're still hurting over another is healthy. Just my opinion though.

As to whether this site will help you find someone when you're ready - who knows? It's really a matter of who's around, where you are, who else is looking, how much time you want to put in... which is the same for anywhere you go.

Personally, I think to meet people the forums are the best place to build friendships, but anything more than that seems to vary from person to person.

I wish you all the best of luck healing and later finding someone who's worth your time. x

There are a lot of people that have met here and fell in love. It does take time though. I think you need to get over your girlfriend first so you do not start a new relationship with any kind of baggage.
If you have any feelings for someone else, you have to be free of those feelings first or you will hurt the other person. It would not be fair to you or the other person. Take some time you do not need to rush, you are still young...have fun. What is the big hurry to be tied down to one person???

If you are just freshly out of a relationship, my suggestion would be to come into the forums on this site and enjoy the subjects being discussed, the opinions offered, and the fun in playing in the games sections. It will keep your mind busy, you will learn, and you will have fun. In addition, you might eventually find someone who peaks your interest for all the right reasons. Not a guarantee, but a definite possibility. Best wishes!

When we are fresh out of a relationship, particularly if the breakup has been difficult, feel needy and desperate for a replacement -- not exactly the best frame of mind for finding a worthwhile relationship.

Though it may be difficult, the best advice may be to "cool it and don't be in a hurry."

I am one of the good guys you could find on this site

I would have thought after a 5 year courtship, and the fact that you were engaged to the girl, her family would have thrown her out for breaking it off with you! Anyway, sorry to hear of your plight but these things happen, and better they do so before you get married, but in your case may be it would have been better after and they would have definitely thrown her out and kept you.

Well, you are where you are as they say, and as others have said the forums are a good place to start. Welcome to Mingle2 and good luck in your search.

Just thank God for delivering you from "girl friend" which isnt the perfect will of God for anybody."Its better to marry outright than to burn" As for finding a real spouse here in mingle2,that depends on many factors.In mingle2,there are the good,the bad and the terribly ugly.Just find your type,there are varieties here,best of luck

you are actually even better, as you are two of the "good guys" according to your profile's pics!!,
one pic of a white man, the other of a black man, what a nice mix!
we just thank you for your generosity, to date at least, as pics might change...

Sounds like you have had a difficult time getting your act together if you are being booted out of HER parents after FIVE years and now are sleeping over a few (plural) days on yet another friend. Instead of looking for another person to latch on to, maybe be dependent on, think some time job searching or seeking some skills would be in order. Before you get too old you might wan to try job corp or the military. You can still have friends her on Mingle but I doubt the smart gals here are going to hitch their wagon until you demonstrate some giddy-up-go on your own.

Most likely not. Theres some that have been here for years and mingling everyday. I give them credit for their optimism anyways. Others give up within days. The chances are pretty low but give it a try and good luck

MUM MA .....
lol

I have to agree with all the forum participants who have suggested that you don't rush into things. Speaking from experience, it doesn't work out well. It's a very difficult thing to take things slowly, especially when you are so desperate for love, which can cause overwhelming feelings of loneliness. You are so young. The right one is out there, but you have to be in the right place for it to work. Best wishes, and may God bless you.

Hey I agree totally baby girl (she's my daughter). Hi sweetie!

I give them credit for their optimism anyways. Others give up within days. The chances are pretty low but give it a try and good luck
being sociable can never hurt, takes your mind from the gut 'actually' wrench when it is not a mutually desired break up. Whilst you wrote this your mind was occupied on thoughts other than heart ache, wouldst that it be recognised as such. I don't expect a relationship let alone the magical 'one' how ever I could imagine a lot worse social sites where the conversation involves sending eggs for someone to build their farm. This is like minded contacts and us by far the most attractive place to be in our circumstance with others seeing our profile and knowing there is no offense taken should you instigate a relationship building attempt. Where else in the case of men can you study the fairer half with out being called a pervert. Have fun mingling and if you do find what it is you think you want, stick to the gang you found it with. Contrary to some thought on the matter of you being kicked out, I presume that Tibet because the family weren't shacked up with you and blood is thicket than an ex lover, that, no it does not go to say you 'had it coming if you couldn't match it after 5 years, to me that only indicated a higher level of the sense of loss, and therefore worthy of sympathy 'especially' from this site. I heard it said 'You have to kiss a lot of toads before you find a handsome prince.' So pucker up lad.

Hi, Missy's daughter.

Sorry to hear about your
previous
relationship dissappointment? , I hope you are over yr (ex) now
and your not looking here
because your still
on the rebound for
a replacement ?
It will always
depend on what
you are personally searching
for in the opposite sex ? , And if
you also forefill the opposite sexes criteria also ? !!! All the best as you maybe be in the
right place at the
right time ? You
dont catch fish ,
unless
you go fishing?

Remember plenty of dangerous fish
to be found
here?..lol.. ( So be sure you know your catch , Before you eat it..lol..)

Cast you line with the right bait and
use the right
equipment to wind her in , You maybe lucky ?