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Topic: Do you give out your number to anyone?
burgundybry's photo
Fri 12/06/13 02:07 PM


So................no one wants my number?? surprised

But, but, we just assumed you were #1..


Doh! frustrated That's right! Man, it's tough being numero uno, some days.

haleyl7's photo
Fri 12/06/13 02:10 PM
I get those msgs but i always just agree to kik or whatsapp them I nvr give out my number.:smile:

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Fri 12/06/13 04:00 PM
yeah I have moved it over to email, then FB , then phone. Its a process..only 1 made it through though laugh ...and that didnt work out.:angry: Well, Maybe I'll start making them fill out applications first laugh laugh laugh

graywolf55's photo
Sat 12/07/13 04:36 AM

yeah I have moved it over to email, then FB , then phone. Its a process..only 1 made it through though laugh ...and that didnt work out.:angry: Well, Maybe I'll start making them fill out applications first laugh laugh laugh
Nobody gets my email or Facebook acct.before i talk or meet them!! Its the cellphone 1st. then from there! Too much information can be obtained there including your Family or friends you message! Its easier to block them from a cellphone first if compatibility is not there!!

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Sat 12/07/13 04:43 AM


yeah I have moved it over to email, then FB , then phone. Its a process..only 1 made it through though laugh ...and that didnt work out.:angry: Well, Maybe I'll start making them fill out applications first laugh laugh laugh
Nobody gets my email or Facebook acct.before i talk or meet them!! Its the cellphone 1st. then from there! Too much information can be obtained there including your Family or friends you message! Its easier to block them from a cellphone first if compatibility is not there!!


Good advice Graywolf! I hear ya ..that's why I only let one through so far and even though "IT" didn't work out. I still trust him with that kind of stuff. It just amazes me that someone I barely chatted with would through his number so openly at me and say lets text instead! huh

graywolf55's photo
Sat 12/07/13 05:04 AM



yeah I have moved it over to email, then FB , then phone. Its a process..only 1 made it through though laugh ...and that didnt work out.:angry: Well, Maybe I'll start making them fill out applications first laugh laugh laugh
Nobody gets my email or Facebook acct.before i talk or meet them!! Its the cellphone 1st. then from there! Too much information can be obtained there including your Family or friends you message! Its easier to block them from a cellphone first if compatibility is not there!!


Good advice Graywolf! I hear ya ..that's why I only let one through so far and even though "IT" didn't work out. I still trust him with that kind of stuff. It just amazes me that someone I barely chatted with would through his number so openly at me and say lets text instead! huh
:wink: Some of these dating sites have an optional usages for phone conversations with other members such as match. But it is cheaper to get a 2nd.phone for that purpose! And in meeting them for the 1st. time its more logical to get directions from!! As i said in another forum on here" I know me- but i don't know you until we meet for awhile!!happy Untill we meet who knows? Good Morning to all here!! "Forgot my Manners" :wink:

Larsi666 😽's photo
Tue 09/25/18 01:43 PM
It needs an awful lot, before I give out my number. Trust, yeah. And only two people on Mingle have it.

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Tue 09/25/18 03:55 PM
Not very many people have my number as Lars said it takes an awful lot for me to give it. So if you have it or my email that means something.

actionlynx's photo
Tue 09/25/18 04:00 PM
I won't answer this question in the forums because of the autobots.

But I don't trust anyone who sends me a phone number right away. Or an email address, for that matter.

Riverspirit1111's photo
Tue 09/25/18 04:07 PM
Edited by Riverspirit1111 on Tue 09/25/18 04:08 PM
If I meet them online, then I'm only willing to give it out if I know them from the forums.


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Tue 09/25/18 04:14 PM
I give out my email to anyone asking...


Of course it's the junk email account that I don't check but if they ask I will give it... laugh





And if you don't believe me just message me and ask for it...

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Tue 09/25/18 04:19 PM

I give out my email to anyone asking...


Of course it's the junk email account that I don't check but if they ask I will give it... laugh





And if you don't believe me just message me and ask for it...


Can I have your email?

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Tue 09/25/18 04:34 PM


I give out my email to anyone asking...


Of course it's the junk email account that I don't check but if they ask I will give it... laugh





And if you don't believe me just message me and ask for it...


Can I have your email?

gotta ask in a mail message, not a forum thread... but sure.

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Tue 09/25/18 05:26 PM
No

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Tue 09/25/18 05:42 PM


yeah I have moved it over to email, then FB , then phone. Its a process..only 1 made it through though laugh ...and that didnt work out.:angry: Well, Maybe I'll start making them fill out applications first laugh laugh laugh
Nobody gets my email or Facebook acct.before i talk or meet them!! Its the cellphone 1st. then from there! Too much information can be obtained there including your Family or friends you message! Its easier to block them from a cellphone first if compatibility is not there!!


Nope....no phone number from ME..

*I'll* call *you* though...from a "Private"/ "Restricted" number..
(I have a land line, and an unlisted number shows up that way)

A land line can be traced to a physical location in a way that a cell phone can't, therefore, no...you don't get my number until we establish some sort of freindship or whatever...whether we are compatible, and have met first...

I *have* gotten a Google Voice number for those more pesky cases..and sometimes I will giove that out if I *have* met them and still not sure...

It has ZERO to do with trust..
We are not children here, and daily there are stories of people being attacked, assaluted, or whatever by people they don't know/ barely know..

If I have learned anything over the last 40 years..it is to trust people intially LESS, not more...


oldkid46's photo
Tue 09/25/18 07:49 PM
I keep trash accounts for that purpose that I can delete if need be. My personal cell number; just before the meet and greet after a number of messages.

Stu's photo
Tue 09/25/18 08:37 PM
No, only ones I feel I can trust and want to communicate with outside of here.

Totage's photo
Tue 09/25/18 08:45 PM

The last few times I logged on here I have had a few messages from guys just giving me their numbers and asking me to call or text instead of chatting on here. I dont like that, I want to first determine if you are real before I give out ANY info. Any one else get that? Do you risk it just to get to know someone??







I never leave the site until I'm sure it's a real person and they are likely to be serious. I have a free "throw away" number for texting I give before I give them my actual number.

Stu's photo
Tue 09/25/18 09:00 PM


The last few times I logged on here I have had a few messages from guys just giving me their numbers and asking me to call or text instead of chatting on here. I dont like that, I want to first determine if you are real before I give out ANY info. Any one else get that? Do you risk it just to get to know someone??







I never leave the site until I'm sure it's a real person and they are likely to be serious. I have a free "throw away" number for texting I give before I give them my actual number.


Aww.. come on man,.. live on the edge a little laugh

Totage's photo
Tue 09/25/18 09:27 PM
Last time I lived a little on the edge someone tried to burn my house down while we were asleep.

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