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Topic: Do you give out your number to anyone?
Stu's photo
Tue 09/25/18 09:35 PM
That sounds over the edge...

Totage's photo
Tue 09/25/18 09:41 PM
Yeah lol No one was hurt... well except the arsonist but that was a separate incident I'm not at liberty to discuss.

Stu's photo
Tue 09/25/18 09:43 PM

Yeah lol No one was hurt... well except the arsonist but that was a separate incident I'm not at liberty to discuss.


Understood and respect your animosity.

Red's photo
Sun 09/30/18 05:22 PM
This is my first time doing something like this online so no way am I giving out my cell number. It has nothing to do with dodging or lying or not being interested. It has to do with living alone and looking out for my physical and mental well-being. If you want to know if I am real we'll arrange to meet someplace we both know how to get too. I don't need to call you for directions. If you can't make it or you are running late, it's a public place with a phone. Call them and leave me a message.

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Sun 09/30/18 05:28 PM

This is my first time doing something like this online so no way am I giving out my cell number. It has nothing to do with dodging or lying or not being interested. It has to do with living alone and looking out for my physical and mental well-being. If you want to know if I am real we'll arrange to meet someplace we both know how to get too. I don't need to call you for directions. If you can't make it or you are running late, it's a public place with a phone. Call them and leave me a message.


THIS. :thumbsup:

Poetrywriter's photo
Sun 09/30/18 05:33 PM

This is my first time doing something like this online so no way am I giving out my cell number. It has nothing to do with dodging or lying or not being interested. It has to do with living alone and looking out for my physical and mental well-being. If you want to know if I am real we'll arrange to meet someplace we both know how to get too. I don't need to call you for directions. If you can't make it or you are running late, it's a public place with a phone. Call them and leave me a message.


I totally agree. :thumbsup: Well said Red...

MichaelinMurray's photo
Sun 09/30/18 05:38 PM

depends on who's askingdrool


Same here. I will confess that my results have been quite mixed on this site. However there is another dating site that I've been using, and met some great women.

I pretty astute at weeding out the catfish and scammers after talking online a few times. In those instances where I feel there is a real connection, I give them my cell phone number, or call them on theirs if it is offered.

It's a good way to ascertain if you are dealing with the right gender, age range, and other details that might not be discernible via email and texting alone.

actionlynx's photo
Sun 09/30/18 05:42 PM
No offense, but you don't have to give up your phone number to do that. Just use Skype or some other online video chat. That way you can actually **see** a real person who matches the online photo.

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Sun 09/30/18 05:46 PM

No offense, but you don't have to give up your phone number to do that. Just use Skype or some other online video chat. That way you can actually **see** a real person who matches the online photo.


Yeah, but some of us are using an older desktop computer that doesn't have a camera for video chatting..
And I sure as heck am not going to buy one..don't need one...

actionlynx's photo
Sun 09/30/18 05:47 PM
Can do it with many cellphones too. As long as it has internet, you don't have to reveal your phone number.

NotPay4Play's photo
Sun 09/30/18 05:57 PM

The last few times I logged on here I have had a few messages from guys just giving me their numbers and asking me to call or text instead of chatting on here. I dont like that, I want to first determine if you are real before I give out ANY info. Any one else get that? Do you risk it just to get to know someone??







I get those messages frkm time to time. First ghing ok do is google the number. If it says anything about a viop service then i useually just report and block. Other than that th ed only way to contact me is thru the site or app. And then we meet in a public place we are both comfortable with.

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Sun 09/30/18 06:05 PM
Edited by I_love_bluegrass on Sun 09/30/18 06:05 PM

Can do it with many cellphones too. As long as it has internet, you don't have to reveal your phone number.


Don't have one of those either....and don't feel I am missing anything..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DfCdhQc53n8

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Sun 09/30/18 06:07 PM


The last few times I logged on here I have had a few messages from guys just giving me their numbers and asking me to call or text instead of chatting on here. I dont like that, I want to first determine if you are real before I give out ANY info. Any one else get that? Do you risk it just to get to know someone??







I get those messages frkm time to time. First ghing ok do is google the number. If it says anything about a viop service then i useually just report and block. Other than that th ed only way to contact me is thru the site or app. And then we meet in a public place we are both comfortable with.


Yeah..and not only THAT, but when you do an image search and find out the dude's way too perfect looking picture was stolen from some other site....LOL

NotPay4Play's photo
Sun 09/30/18 06:43 PM



The last few times I logged on here I have had a few messages from guys just giving me their numbers and asking me to call or text instead of chatting on here. I dont like that, I want to first determine if you are real before I give out ANY info. Any one else get that? Do you risk it just to get to know someone??







I get those messages frkm time to time. First ghing ok do is google the number. If it says anything about a viop service then i useually just report and block. Other than that th ed only way to contact me is thru the site or app. And then we meet in a public place we are both comfortable with.


Yeah..and not only THAT, but when you do an image search and find out the dude's way too perfect looking picture was stolen from some other site....LOL

Never had the picture search work out for me. But in have learned to spot a lot of them on sight. laugh

no photo
Sun 09/30/18 06:55 PM
I only talk to people if they are close enough for two cups and a string.

no photo
Sun 09/30/18 07:09 PM
i give mine out to cranky geezers❣ love

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Sun 09/30/18 07:29 PM
Rarely. A couple times too many.

serick4095's photo
Sun 09/30/18 08:01 PM
I can really understand both sides though why you would do both because it is very hard on this site more to see who is real and who is not, but the more time that goes by you can for sure see who isn't quicker.

newsworthy's photo
Mon 10/01/18 10:58 AM

I think it is better to find out how a person is before giving phone numbers straight away to a complete stranger.

Jose's photo
Sun 10/21/18 06:24 AM
just give them a ig account..the app is great for video and voice chats and you never give away your number plus you can block them

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