Topic: single mother needs shoulder to cry on
143amber's photo
Fri 12/20/13 05:25 PM
Im 23yo..and working as a house helper..i couldnt stand the bad attitude of my boss..but what will i do?where should i go?my parents are separated and i dont have nearby relative

soufiehere's photo
Fri 12/20/13 05:35 PM
Marry for love.

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 12/20/13 05:38 PM

Im 23yo..and working as a house helper..i couldnt stand the bad attitude of my boss..but what will i do?where should i go?my parents are separated and i dont have nearby relative


Aren't there churches in your community that can help you?

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Fri 12/20/13 05:45 PM
As Dodo suggested, maybe a Church, and if not possibly some organization that helps with finding work and job placement? All the best to you, I hope you figure something out. flowerforyou

no photo
Fri 12/20/13 05:47 PM
I wish you and your baby the bestflowerforyou

143amber's photo
Fri 12/20/13 05:52 PM
Thank you everyone...i go to church and pray..but it is different if someone will answer your question..

143amber's photo
Fri 12/20/13 05:53 PM
Im hoping to find the right guy..that can love me and my baby

cha7385's photo
Sat 12/21/13 06:56 AM

Im 23yo..and working as a house helper..i couldnt stand the bad attitude of my boss..but what will i do?where should i go?my parents are separated and i dont have nearby relative



go JOb hunting on your day off & once you find one Leave your boss. I'm sure there are lots of job opening that would give you a much better compensation... Best of luck to you..

metalwing's photo
Sat 12/21/13 07:17 AM


Im 23yo..and working as a house helper..i couldnt stand the bad attitude of my boss..but what will i do?where should i go?my parents are separated and i dont have nearby relative



go JOb hunting on your day off & once you find one Leave your boss. I'm sure there are lots of job opening that would give you a much better compensation... Best of luck to you..


I was about to say the same thing. If there is one job, there is another. You need to avoid unhappy situations.

cha7385's photo
Sat 12/21/13 07:31 AM

I was about to say the same thing. If there is one job, there is another. You need to avoid unhappy situations.


I definitely agree, do away with all the negativity & sad thoughts because it will only worsen the feeling that you have.. Be optimistic.



Jesusprincessmt's photo
Sat 12/21/13 07:34 AM
143amber I sent you an Email. flowerforyou :smile:

ridewytepony's photo
Sat 12/21/13 08:05 AM
Move to Canada and work at Tim Hortons?

Many people have problems in their working environment

but need to remain there to support there families.

There is always someone worse off than you.

Many people don't have jobs of health or can't have

children or were wrongly convicted and are spending

there life in prisonment.

Many young people come on here looking for advice as
they have no financial means,trying to get an education.
They have found love secretly but they are being forced into a prearranged marriage by their parents.

Think of worse situations and it can help you live your
life in the now with appreciation, nothing works better
than this to lift you mood. (comparison of a significant advantage) Maybe you can help some of these
people; volunteer, or in pryer.
Very Best,



ridewytepony's photo
Sat 12/21/13 08:12 AM
Edited by ridewytepony on Sat 12/21/13 08:29 AM


"I was about to say the same thing. If there is one job, there is another. You need to avoid unhappy situations".








Yep..like we say in parts of Canada


"I was looking for a job when I found this one".

So yes, there is always another job

TimNorman77's photo
Sat 12/21/13 08:16 AM
Im very sorry to hear that...my boss can be a jerk too. keep your head up sweetie and im sure things will go your way. things like that are only temporary and from my experience things always seem worse than they actually are.dont sweat it and in time itll all work itself out.even if u do absolutely nothing about it!