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Topic: What Do Men Really Look For?
paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sun 02/09/14 05:42 PM
Stupid, desperate women who will let them have their way.

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Tue 02/11/14 08:00 PM
Stupid, desperate women who will let them have their way. Not always!

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 02/11/14 08:20 PM
How long is a piece of string? Different men will look for different things, depending on their priorities, their social upbringing, and their aspirations in life. Good point. Many women make blanket statements about "what all men want" or "all men want is . . . " as though all were alike. Men do the same. You've done the same when starting a thread asking if all women want the same thing, as if we're all alike.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 02/11/14 08:22 PM
Fulfillment of desire, whatever the desires might be. I mean, honestly. Haha. That's what most people want.

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Tue 02/11/14 08:31 PM
I think what doesn't help, is when a lot of the profile's all sound the same as each other. If people individualized their profile, and added a bit more positivity to it, they may get more responses. It's a bit like reading the same page over and over. We already know that your children are your world, and that you probably hate mind games. So what can you put next? It needs to be switched up, worded differently. There's only so many times I can look at a "copy and pasted" profile.

johnjamesbb Joined Thu 02/13/14 Posts: 2	Thu 02/13/14 06:36 AM
Hi Dark, all men are different.I am new and wanted to say he everything like how she looks feels abought things, what makes her laugh, how she smells , andmostly do i make her happy when we spend time together.Have a great day John

Leo2277 Joined Sat 02/08/14 Posts: 62	Fri 02/14/14 08:25 PM
asking a general "what do men want" is just like asking everyone in the U.S. "what state do you want to live in"....surfers are going to say California, Florida, or Hawaii.... while cowboys wouldn't be caught dead in any of those states...point being what one man wants another would run from....find out what YOU want and then search for a guy who wants the SAME. Very well put!

littleloveflower Joined Sat 02/08/14 Posts: 4	Fri 02/14/14 09:57 PM
A faint glimmer The slightest hint The tiniest hope Of sanity

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24661	Fri 02/14/14 10:00 PM Edited by Beachfarmer on Fri 02/14/14 10:01 PM
boobs...EDIT...oops...oh well crap....unoriginal

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24661	Fri 02/14/14 10:03 PM
A faint glimmer The slightest hint The tiniest hope Of sanity well hello Rubidoux!

Unknow Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 64077	Sat 02/15/14 06:33 AM
Their car keys...

funkyfranky Joined Tue 05/01/12 Posts: 5966	Sat 02/15/14 06:35 AM
Their car keys... Yeah, and they're usually in their hands - DOH

wickeddesires Joined Fri 12/20/13 Posts: 43	Sat 02/15/14 08:09 AM
I look just at the soul which should be bared, even in part, on an initial browse/read/look, bit of craziness erring towards this side of lunacy. Them being them no smoke and mirrors needed. I am not going to strut about like a peacock – it should be 50/50 or there abouts. Sure I like my cuddles and sex and cake but I can do without and settle for someone like me of mind and thought, rather than settle for anything merely for the sake of it I tend to pay no attention to pictureless ghosts and stereotypical writing and the illusory and false projections – who and what are they hiding, why do they need to hide themselves and so on A simple question, I ask the voices in my head, would a person email someone with an identical profile and pictures, and, what would they think of them as a person Most people will say love and other nonsense….what they actually mean is looks. They value looks, curious and illogical..sure some may value height (eg them in 4 inch heels and their height more than their counterparts height without heels or splendiferous) slippers or money for errant reasons. They justify it by citing personal preference and imo have no concept of true love We all crave love and cuddles and cake and shoes…we just all go about it differently

funkyfranky Joined Tue 05/01/12 Posts: 5966	Sat 02/15/14 08:13 AM
I look just at the soul which should be bared, even in part, on an initial browse/read/look, bit of craziness erring towards this side of lunacy. Them being them no smoke and mirrors needed. I am not going to strut about like a peacock – it should be 50/50 or there abouts. Sure I like my cuddles and sex and cake but I can do without and settle for someone like me of mind and thought, rather than settle for anything merely for the sake of it I tend to pay no attention to pictureless ghosts and stereotypical writing and the illusory and false projections – who and what are they hiding, why do they need to hide themselves and so on A simple question, I ask the voices in my head, would a person email someone with an identical profile and pictures, and, what would they think of them as a person Most people will say love and other nonsense….what they actually mean is looks. They value looks, curious and illogical..sure some may value height (eg them in 4 inch heels and their height more than their counterparts height without heels or splendiferous) slippers or money for errant reasons. They justify it by citing personal preference and imo have no concept of true love We all crave love and cuddles and cake and shoes…we just all go about it differently You say all that yet your user name is wickeddesires. It don't add up

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Sun 02/16/14 03:37 PM
Stupid, desperate women who will let them have their way. THATS NOT EVEN FAIR

Unknow Joined Wed 03/26/08 Posts: 332	Sun 02/23/14 10:38 PM
life's not fair but we deal with it .As a guy the only thing am looking for is some one who is down to earth not a control freak and be my best friend not hard to ask for.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sun 02/23/14 10:57 PM
a man walks upon a beach picks up a stone.. rolls it over in his hand.. looks at it throws it away.. another man comes along. takes up the same stone.. rolls it over in his hand... looks at it intently.. cleans it polish it.. puts the time and energy into it.. and winds up with a pricelis diamond... same stone the the other man simply threw away... pretty sure there's a point in there somewhere..

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Sun 02/23/14 11:03 PM
a man walks upon a beach picks up a stone.. rolls it over in his hand.. looks at it throws it away.. another man comes along. takes up the same stone.. rolls it over in his hand... looks at it intently.. cleans it polish it.. puts the time and energy into it.. and winds up with a pricelis diamond... same stone the the other man simply threw away... pretty sure there's a point in there somewhere.. Nice....

clintb74 Joined Thu 02/20/14 Posts: 303	Mon 02/24/14 05:01 AM
A woman that is cool, funny and chat about almost anything among other things.

Wilsgen67 Joined Fri 02/21/14 Posts: 17	Mon 02/24/14 05:54 AM
'm just curious about what most men look for when it comes to women. Do they actually look for a connection with someone? Do they just want to be used and abused? Give me your feedback, guys! XD Personally I look for, well, personality, outlook on life, spirit, then looks in that order. Romance and lovey dovey comes later when things start to build. Sure you (not you personally just generally) can look a million bucks but have the intellect and drive of a brick but adversely you could look like plain jane and be the most warmest, kindest, generous, witty, human that ever walked the planet. Sure I'm a guy and be lying if I said I didn't look at beautiful women but when it comes to giving them my heart , then I'm really choosy.