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I thought the old saying was, "lay a guy right the 1st time and your able to walk all over him like a rug." Ok back to seriousness, what the guy before Beach said....Seriously, reinvigorating your relationship with a casual affair. No wonder guys get a bad rep because of f*#ktards like this. He was partially right with 2/3's of his answer, but that last part even blew me out of the water. When one partner loses interest in sex ( for whatever reason, perhaps a medical condition as in my wife's case) it can be hard to sustain an otherwise good marriage. My wife knows i am unhappy in this respect but cannot do anything to help. Whilst advertising my availability on here, I am always careful to ensure people know I am not looking for anything serious, so I am upfront and honest about it..... Hence why I chose the clearly unambiguous username "clitkisser".. I do not want to look for a permanent mistress, as this could interfere with my feelings for my wife, and I don't want to take the risk of using paid female escorts. Men like myself have no wish to hurt anyone, but simply need a little occasional physical release, and preferably with a woman who is in the same situation. Anyone who is in this situation will know what I mean, although I can understand some peolpe thinking we are just lovecheats or users...... That is their view only. there might be better sites for what you are looking for. This is not rationalizations.com  
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I look just at the soul which should be bared, even in part, on an initial browse/read/look, bit of craziness erring towards this side of lunacy. Them being them no smoke and mirrors needed. I am not going to strut about like a peacock – it should be 50/50 or there abouts. Sure I like my cuddles and sex and cake but I can do without and settle for someone like me of mind and thought, rather than settle for anything merely for the sake of it I tend to pay no attention to pictureless ghosts and stereotypical writing and the illusory and false projections – who and what are they hiding, why do they need to hide themselves and so on A simple question, I ask the voices in my head, would a person email someone with an identical profile and pictures, and, what would they think of them as a person Most people will say love and other nonsense….what they actually mean is looks. They value looks, curious and illogical..sure some may value height (eg them in 4 inch heels and their height more than their counterparts height without heels or splendiferous) slippers or money for errant reasons. They justify it by citing personal preference and imo have no concept of true love We all crave love and cuddles and cake and shoes…we just all go about it differently nicely said wicked but sorry, the cake is for the bunny :) |
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"using" each other is part of every relationship... when it's being abused, thats when the problems start... but as far as women go, i like the ones that are smiling, not in a bad mood... nonbitchy, sweet, smart and sincere... but they are always taken... Moe all women are nonbitchy until you guys hog the remote and eat all the ice cream in the freezer while talking on the phone to "Bud" about how "Hot" the new chick who works at the corner deli is......y'all bring it on yourselves 
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I'll be honest looks are important you have to fancy someone. But after that I go for personality (they have to have one
 ). Someone I connect with someone that's not only my lover but my best friend, someone I can be myself around. But I also like my own space I couldn't think of anything worse than having a gf that shared ALL my hobbies and intrests. Spending 24/7 with someone would drive me crazy, Someone I can trust, someone that isn't a complusive liar. |
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I'm new here. I guess I have a different question: why are there so many guys on here only wanting a hook up???? Soooo frustrating. I have gotten more requests on this site for boob shots than I ever have in my life. Ridiculous really!!!
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I'm new here. I guess I have a different question: why are there so many guys on here only wanting a hook up???? Soooo frustrating. I have gotten more requests on this site for boob shots than I ever have in my life. Ridiculous really!!! Welcome to the internet. Tell them to hit a gym. |
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a man walks upon a beach picks up a stone.. rolls it over in his hand.. looks at it throws it away.. another man comes along. takes up the same stone.. rolls it over in his hand... looks at it intently.. cleans it polish it.. puts the time and energy into it.. and winds up with a pricelis diamond... same stone the the other man simply threw away... pretty sure there's a point in there somewhere.. Nice.... I agree! The care someone takes of someone else, the value they place on that person and make even the roughest of stones become a priceless diamond...wish more men and women were willing to invest in the effort of bringing out the beauty in someone. |
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I'm new here. I guess I have a different question: why are there so many guys on here only wanting a hook up???? Soooo frustrating. I have gotten more requests on this site for boob shots than I ever have in my life. Ridiculous really!!! Welcome to the internet. Tell them to hit a gym. I think its an opportunity to be really honest. In person most of the pervs wouldnt say anything nasty to a gal/guy, but the protection of anonymity allows the true person to reveal himself/herself. I will totally tell the next one to hit the gym  The gym will work the perv out of them. |
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I'm new here. I guess I have a different question: why are there so many guys on here only wanting a hook up???? Soooo frustrating. I have gotten more requests on this site for boob shots than I ever have in my life. Ridiculous really!!! Welcome to the internet. Tell them to hit a gym. I think its an opportunity to be really honest. In person most of the pervs wouldnt say anything nasty to a gal/guy, but the protection of anonymity allows the true person to reveal himself/herself. I will totally tell the next one to hit the gym The gym will work the perv out of them. Gives them confidence and a positive feeling then they won't feel the need to belittle or bully others. Pervs have too much energy, work it off in some sort of way. |
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a man walks upon a beach picks up a stone.. rolls it over in his hand.. looks at it throws it away.. another man comes along. takes up the same stone.. rolls it over in his hand... looks at it intently.. cleans it polish it.. puts the time and energy into it.. and winds up with a pricelis diamond... same stone the the other man simply threw away... pretty sure there's a point in there somewhere.. Nice.... I agree! The care someone takes of someone else, the value they place on that person and make even the roughest of stones become a priceless diamond...wish more men and women were willing to invest in the effort of bringing out the beauty in someone. Willing to climb to the top of the tree...for the apples At the top of the tree  Instead of settling for the easy to reach.  Hi Missy 
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Bit of both
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Bit of both .. so last we saw.. how did you measure this time.. not with the centimeter side of the ruler..lol..jk.. |
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SEXxxxxxxx.. yep thats it thats all.. oh yeah and food.. and a big screen TV... les yard work. more sex.. oh yeah that sweet tea its not going to bring itself to me.....lol..
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Beer not tea....lol
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a man walks upon a beach picks up a stone.. rolls it over in his hand.. looks at it throws it away.. another man comes along. takes up the same stone.. rolls it over in his hand... looks at it intently.. cleans it polish it.. puts the time and energy into it.. and winds up with a pricelis diamond... same stone the the other man simply threw away... pretty sure there's a point in there somewhere.. Nice.... Once upon a time I used to believe in fairy tales and then real life happened and I discovered a dirt clod was just a dirt clod and no matter how much polishing, sweat, or tears you poured over it you would probably be stuck with not a lot more than a handful of mud. If you want to find a good people then stop looking in the bars and in the middle of the work day on the internet. Start scanning the profiles and being on line early in the morning when they check their email and after work and early morning on the weekend. Go to Linkdon and other job sites, or community colleges, or union events, all where people are looking to better themselves. Good people who have more than two nickles to rub together actually donate their time and money to good causes and get out and be active in recreation leagues and churches with and without their kids and pets. Yea Mingle is awesome for getting to know a real world acquaintences before you drag them home to meet the folks and much more reasonable than not having a clue about them before you have them blowing up your phone or screwing up your job. See someone you like pass them a card with the site and your screen name. I guarantee the curiosity alone will reve up your dating life. Mingle mail is way better than plastering your private life all over some of the other media sites. |
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id say defo a connection....why should there be anything different...if there are similar values...look for same intrests..personality is the sign of a keeper for me...no-judgement is another
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Scotch for this guy looking for right now!!!!
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Scotch for this guy looking for right now!!!! hey bunny...how about a good Tennessee sipping whiskey...I think it can stand up to the best Scotch (Tenn or Kentucky) |
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Ilook for common interest...wether easy to talk to one another...then i will look for attraction or not
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'm just curious about what most men look for when it comes to women. Do they actually look for a connection with someone? Do they just want to be used and abused? Give me your feedback, guys! XD |
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