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Topic: DO YOU HAVE SECRETS
Candiapples's photo
Tue 02/25/14 03:04 PM
That only you know about yourself?

Did or would you share these with your spouse or future spouse?

Or would you never tell?

I believe in complete honesty no matter what the outcome because that is a part of who I am. What about you?

no photo
Tue 02/25/14 03:20 PM
Here comes...........I can only do thisdrool when ive had some of thisdrinks because when I do this im as brave as thispitchfork and today is the daydrinker :banana:

Candiapples's photo
Tue 02/25/14 03:20 PM
laugh waving

soufiehere's photo
Tue 02/25/14 03:24 PM
I personally have no secrets, open book here.
However, I hold a LOT of other people's
stuff :-)

Candiapples's photo
Tue 02/25/14 03:26 PM
Yup! same here Soufie :laughing:

larsson71's photo
Tue 02/25/14 03:27 PM

I personally have no secrets, open book here.
However, I hold a LOT of other people's
stuff :-)
Same here Soufie, but some of the things that I know about other people, will go to the grave with me!

Candiapples's photo
Tue 02/25/14 03:29 PM
LOL well this is no fun..

msharmony's photo
Tue 02/25/14 03:41 PM
I dont really consider them secrets

just MY BUSINESS.,.lol

there is some of MY BUSINESS that I have an interest in sharing and some of MY BUSINESS that I dont

relationship business or sexual business, I share with those I am romantically of sexually involved with

beyond that, I share as I get to know people those things that are relevant to having a relationship with them,,

soufiehere's photo
Tue 02/25/14 03:42 PM
Edited by soufiehere on Tue 02/25/14 03:45 PM


I personally have no secrets, open book here.
However, I hold a LOT of other people's
stuff :-)
Same here Soufie, but some of the things that I know about other people, will go to the grave with me!

We will all have a crowd going to the grave :-)

Believe me Candiapples, if I had a secret about me
I might spill it...I actually can think of one but
it is more something not mentioned on the internet :-)

I will email it to you, and you will see why..mum's
the word though :-)

Okay I am outside your email parameters, sowwy :-)

Candiapples's photo
Tue 02/25/14 03:59 PM
Edited by Candiapples on Tue 02/25/14 03:59 PM
oops Soufie you can email me now..I'n not sure why I didn't leave it open ended spock

soufiehere's photo
Tue 02/25/14 05:08 PM

oops Soufie you can email me now..I'n not sure why I didn't leave it open ended spock

Thanks, I reciprocated with a secret, you will
see why I cannot spill that here :-)

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 02/26/14 08:21 AM
I'm with MsHarmony. Everyone has things he/she doesn't share. So what? Are we supposed to share every single thing, feeling, thought we have and have had, because someone is our partner? Goodness gracious, if I did that, he'd go nuts!

And there are some things that aren't anyone's business but mine. I see no reason to tell a partner, or anyone else, about these. Unless it's vitally important for the relationship.

Maybe reverse the question: would you want to know everything your partner does and ever has done? Pfff ...
Maybe he secretly liked the boobs of his ex more than yours. Would you want to know? Does it benefit you or do anything for the relationship?

Apart from that, I simply don't believe people who say they haven't got any secrets from their partners.
EVERYONE has secrets. Doesn't mean they're "nasty" secrets.

Candiapples's photo
Wed 02/26/14 09:08 AM
Wow! Lets not get so serious now
I meant a big secret..Something important..nobody needs to be completely inside the mind of a significant othet. We don't need to be so literal :smile:

Conrad_73's photo
Wed 02/26/14 09:15 AM
If it is killing you on the inside,you had better trust someone and clean House,remember,you're as sick as your Secrets!

vanaheim's photo
Wed 02/26/14 09:29 AM
Nice piece of advice I saw on the show Scrubs, nurse carla was (again) giving love advice to doctor barbie and mentioned, don't lay out all your crazy on a guy too soon, you have to dish out the crazy in small doses so that he's already fully committed before he realizes you're insane.

wise words. you go ahead and keep some of those secrets.

whattheheywastaken's photo
Wed 02/26/14 09:49 AM
Secrets hold the universe together.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 02/26/14 10:18 AM

Nice piece of advice I saw on the show Scrubs, nurse carla was (again) giving love advice to doctor barbie and mentioned, don't lay out all your crazy on a guy too soon, you have to dish out the crazy in small doses so that he's already fully committed before he realizes you're insane.

wise words. you go ahead and keep some of those secrets.

I like that :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:
drinker
I'd like that on a bumper-sticker, but my car ain't that big

vanaheim's photo
Wed 02/26/14 10:36 PM
How about this for a bumper sticker:

Flashing my boobs, side-swiping your car, it's all the same when I'm PMSing.

jacktrades's photo
Wed 02/26/14 10:40 PM
Edited by jacktrades on Wed 02/26/14 10:40 PM
Yes I have some locked away and thats where they are going to stay.

no photo
Wed 02/26/14 10:40 PM
I secretly prefer not to tell my secrets because then they wouldn't be secret

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