my friend is dating this guy who she just found out he is cheatin on her.they hav been dating for a month i think bt al he says is he is a man and all men cheat.others they dnt get caught bt others get caught . Is this what we as woman hav to accept tht a man cheat and its okay?

He is just a ignorant disgusting person ,and why should your friend settle for less ? There are wonderful trustworthy men out there waiting to be found .

Kaymoza.... You friends "man"...I'm using the term loosely... Is full of chit! Cheating isn't a man,thing...it's a loser thing!
Anyone who cheats is worthless and they feel how worthless they are so... They cheat.

Before christianity people didn't care about such things. They'd dance about naked in fields and have orgies all day long.

I just tend to lose interest in other women when I'm seeing somebody. I've never wanted to cheat on anybody and sex is better with a regular partner anyway. Didn't cheat when I was younger either but I wasn't really doing relationships then and I went with enough different women to get all of that sowing my wild oats stuff out of my system.

As far as this guy that cheated on your friend goes; well, a month isn't very long to be seeing somebody and these things sometimes happen at the beginning of a relationship. Sometimes they get away with it but from what I've seen, the guilt can eat away at them and then they maybe confess later on when it's become a serious relationship. And yes, women do it as well sometimes.

i agree with u bt this guy is not a christian and says in his culture people cheat or marry more than one wife.

i totally agree bt we both know they are very scares.is she to leave this guy for a this mistake?what if she find the worse guy? What about forgiveness?now he is asking her to move in with her cause he doesnt want to loose her and he wont hav the chance?as much as agree with u i dnt want my friend joining a datin site and meeting what i meet here (fraudsters)so wht do i tell her? I too lost someone i love bcz he cheated long ago and i hav never met any1 like him and i regret it now.

I'll keep saying these: all men aren't thesame. I am a different person and I cannot be under the influence of prostitudes.
Perhaps there're men that could live without sexual immorality or cheating on their partner. Don't accept the saying "all men cheats"

I'll keep saying these: all men aren't thesame. I am a different person and I cannot be under the influence of prostitudes.
Perhaps there're men that could live without sexual immorality or cheating on their partner. Don't accept the saying "all men cheats"

. cheating is a matter of ethics. and A individuals morals.. if you are morally corrupt. you don't see cheating or lying as a bad thing.. it is simply how you navigate through this world... if you are a moral person... cheating and lying.. is just THAT.....

It's a silly question. Couples stay married for years and neither one cheats. I don't think I need to go into details to explain what makes a marriage work and what we've learned from our past relationships

Honestly I can not see where a month means they were in a relationship...

To assume all men do is just not right....


One should make sure that the other knows what one expects from the other prior.... Never assume one is in a relationship if the other one is still playing the field...

I agree also .

When I am in a dating or a more serious relationship I never think about cheating. If your friend is dating a guy who tells her men always cheat, she is dating a player in my opinion and her best course of action is to move on and find another guy, not all guys cheat.

cheat after a month? i've never in my life committed to a woman after a month...


i think your making a mountain out a molehill here...

since we are only hearing one side to this "story", i think it's fair to say that someone is trying to bash men...

we're only as faithful as our options......

If all men cheat, then all women are dishonest.

Here's the deal. Sometimes when a woman starts dating a man, she mistakenly assumes that certain dating rules are in effect, without bothering to talk to the man about dating rules. She assumes that the two have agreed to a rule about "exclusive dating" - meaning that each will date the other only. However, the man has made no such agreement, and the topic hasn't even been openly talked about. Instead, the woman expects the man to "read her mind" in regards to such rules.

Not all men do. I think it's gotten to the point were all these idiots don't realize what a good thing they had. There are still great guys out there. :)

. yeah I thought that was common knowledge. we cheat. we drink. we do drugs. we play around. we can't get it up when you want it up.. we burp. we pass gas. we're lazy.. we're on romantic. we leave the seat up. we don't pick up after ourselves. we don't talk pretty enough to you.. blah blah blah blah... good thing you love us so much......

Rules What are the rules. Who made the rules.