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Topic: friends with benefits??
Paras88 Joined Sat 04/26/14 Posts: 4	Mon 04/28/14 04:13 AM
I want opinion on this kind of relations. Is it worth?

punks03 Joined Mon 04/14/14 Posts: 119	Mon 04/28/14 04:27 AM Edited by punks03 on Mon 04/28/14 04:27 AM
I want opinion on this kind of relations. Is it worth? if friend live with u in relation or spend more time with u bcz of his benefit..then kik these types of ***... Its nt worth i dn't like these type of relations...** off these realtions...

AthenaRose2 Joined Fri 11/09/12 Posts: 6972	Mon 04/28/14 05:14 AM
Friends with benefits I want opinion on this kind of relations. Is it worth? It's always pleasant to have friends with benefits. What each benefits from the other is personally measured. And so long as each is happy with the structure of the relationship then it is worth it to them. Wouldn't you think?

graywolf55 Joined Wed 09/19/12 Posts: 1259	Mon 04/28/14 06:15 AM
Friends with benefits I want opinion on this kind of relations. Is it worth? It's always pleasant to have friends with benefits. What each benefits from the other is personally measured. And so long as each is happy with the structure of the relationship then it is worth it to them. Wouldn't you think?

4evababy Joined Tue 02/26/13 Posts: 9258	Mon 04/28/14 06:41 AM
This again? Geez can't people think original? Lol I don't agree with friends for benifit I think that's just taking advantage and you'll probably in the long run become enemies

Paras88 Joined Sat 04/26/14 Posts: 4	Mon 04/28/14 06:52 AM
I do believe in same. Its sharing of u with others to make u complete not necessarily your body only

Paras88 Joined Sat 04/26/14 Posts: 4	Mon 04/28/14 06:54 AM
Its difficult to take it for long term

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Mon 04/28/14 02:37 PM
I want opinion on this kind of relations. Is it worth? Can be if you are happy with a casual relationship. My ex girlfriend was always giving me the, "We're just friends" jazz. I was her boyfriend when it suited her though.

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Mon 04/28/14 03:12 PM
I have a lot of female friends, never slept with any of them- even though it was offered. I think I am very compartmentalized a booty call is a booty call and a friend is a friend

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Mon 04/28/14 06:02 PM
As long as the hooker doesn't charge you cab fare.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Mon 04/28/14 06:27 PM
I have a lot of female friends, never slept with any of them- even though it was offered. I think I am very compartmentalized a booty call is a booty call and a friend is a friend I agree FWB is usually not a friend

pkh Joined Sat 05/26/07 Posts: 14961	Mon 04/28/14 07:02 PM
I have a lot of female friends, never slept with any of them- even though it was offered. I think I am very compartmentalized a booty call is a booty call and a friend is a friend this

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Mon 04/28/14 07:15 PM
To each their own. It's not always a bad thing, just be prepared to eventually lose "benefits" after the other has found someone to date.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Mon 04/28/14 07:21 PM
To each their own. It's not always a bad thing, just be prepared to eventually lose "benefits" after the other has found someone to date. what benefits...but that's exactly right - that's why that type of relationship is a bad choice. Men always think that sex with them is the benefit...ummmm no....most of y'all aren;t really that good...lol just messing with ya

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 04/28/14 07:28 PM
To each their own. It's not always a bad thing, just be prepared to eventually lose "benefits" after the other has found someone to date. ... isn't that rule #6.. if you meet someone serious you break off with each other.. . immediately..

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Mon 04/28/14 07:45 PM
To each their own. It's not always a bad thing, just be prepared to eventually lose "benefits" after the other has found someone to date. ... isn't that rule #6.. if you meet someone serious you break off with each other.. . immediately.. problem being that usually one of the pair in a FWB is already serious so someone gets hurt. most people think that is always the woman, and it is often enough, but I do know a couple of guys who were really hurt by an FWB...they thought it was going somewhere... personally I have no time or interest in any relationship that is not "going somewhere" so I do not waste my time on FWB

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Mon 04/28/14 07:46 PM
To each their own. It's not always a bad thing, just be prepared to eventually lose "benefits" after the other has found someone to date. ... isn't that rule #6.. if you meet someone serious you break off with each other.. . immediately.. Sorry was folding laundry for a little bit. Only if rules were established in the 1st place.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Mon 04/28/14 07:51 PM
To each their own. It's not always a bad thing, just be prepared to eventually lose "benefits" after the other has found someone to date. ... isn't that rule #6.. if you meet someone serious you break off with each other.. . immediately.. Sorry was folding laundry for a little bit. Only if rules were established in the 1st place. but if someone breaks it off because they meet someone else there is nothing you can do it about it...crying that's against the rules, or there was no rule like that, is not going to save that relationship when your FWB meets someone they really want to be with there will be nothing you can do about it - rules or no rules...and they will not ask that person for a FWB.

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Mon 04/28/14 07:52 PM Edited by dreamerana on Mon 04/28/14 07:55 PM
I've had a couple of my guy friends ask me this. I tell them they already have the benefits of my friendship; those being the benefits of my advice whether they ask or not and the benefit of knowing�I'm right. And they still asked does this mean you won't even talk dirty to me. So I said you mean like stinky shoes and sweaty socks and things like that? Then they get the message that some things will happen only in a relationship.

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Mon 04/28/14 07:58 PM
There are no rules That's why its friends with benefits