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Strange question time: are unattractive people a lot more nicer and respectful to the opposite sex than someone more aesthetically pleasing to the eye?
I'm not sure anymore. |
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People that are mean or ugly to others makes no difference what they look like they are that way regardless of their looks.....
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ooh ya uglyazz weman are so much nicer NOT..some seem peed off jaded. I like a hot blain jane.but if thay think your good loooking. thay think your just wanting to get in there pants. ooh pleeeases.
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People that are mean or ugly to others makes no difference what they look like they are that way regardless of their looks..... This! |
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Edited by
AthenaRose2
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Mon 06/02/14 09:55 AM
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Strange question time: are unattractive people a lot more nicer and respectful to the opposite sex than someone more aesthetically pleasing to the eye? I'm not sure anymore. I don't believe that average looking people see themselves as unattractive to the opposite sex, so therefore their looks wouldn't have anything to do with how they treat others. If you are inferring or asking whether average looking people go overboard in flattering, sucking up, and doing things for attractive people in the hopes they will be noticed, appreciated, befriended and/or courted, some might, just as some attractive people will behave this way too? It has been my experience that some attractive people can be very rude and nasty to members of the opposite sex because their vanity levels may induce them to think more highly of themselves than they should. While some average looking people don't think they are the least bit average and dare anyone to try and convince them otherwise.  I agree, this is a very strange question...  |
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Nice people are nice.
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so if i declare myself nice i must be nice..... hmm nice
i dont really care if i am ugly or good looking it wont change me all i know i wont get money for my looks would make my lazy life so much easier lol |
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Nice people are nice. ^^^Exactly!.....and mean people are mean....Has nothing to do with the packaging.... |
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since attractiveness is pretty subjective, I would think this would be difficult to measure. Most of the attractive people I have met have been very nice.....guess i am just lucky because most of the more average looking folks I have met have been pretty nice too
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if what you mean is..
. do less attractive people have to try harder..? why yes yes we do.. I work my unattractive.. self off to impress women all the time.. I use wit and humor.. to gain their attention.. because between you and me if I had to rely on my looks.. I would be dateless....hmm.. I am dateless...hmm . I must be getting old.. my wit and humor isn't even working anymore.. . I guess I'll just have to use the old. . do you think gene Simmons has a large tongue.. ? well look at this.....   
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if what you mean is.. . do less attractive people have to try harder..? why yes yes we do.. I work my unattractive.. self off to impress women all the time.. I use wit and humor.. to gain their attention.. because between you and me if I had to rely on my looks.. I would be dateless....hmm.. I am dateless...hmm . I must be getting old.. my wit and humor isn't even working anymore.. . I guess I'll just have to use the old. . do you think gene Simmons has a large tongue.. ? well look at this..... my advice would be to leave gene simmons out of it.. 
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I think there is a point in the OPs question.
Really good-looking ppl get treated differently by other ppl and mostly they have had that experience their entire life. Ppl OOOOH-ing and AAAAAH-ing when they were kids, as they grow up, have the opposite sex drool over them. Often it is easier for good-looking ppl to get things done, get a job etc etc You can all say this ain't so, but it IS, whether we like it or not. There's a number of things that can happen to someone when they are good-looking: they become arrogant. They can get somewhat reluctant, irritable too I think, always getting attention. It can even make them insecure, cos no one sees them for who they are, everyone sees the beautiful outside, which must be frustrating to say the least! Some might use their beauty to get what they want. Albeit attention, a job, ppl's favour etc. Others may succeed in becoming empowered and remaining themselves. But I think it is a very very good point! |
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if what you mean is.. . do less attractive people have to try harder..? why yes yes we do.. I work my unattractive.. self off to impress women all the time.. I use wit and humor.. to gain their attention.. because between you and me if I had to rely on my looks.. I would be dateless....hmm.. I am dateless...hmm . I must be getting old.. my wit and humor isn't even working anymore.. . I guess I'll just have to use the old. . do you think gene Simmons has a large tongue.. ? well look at this..... I guess "coy" isn't working either!!...LMAO !! |
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I think there is a point in the OPs question. Really good-looking ppl get treated differently by other ppl and mostly they have had that experience their entire life. Ppl OOOOH-ing and AAAAAH-ing when they were kids, as they grow up, have the opposite sex drool over them. Often it is easier for good-looking ppl to get things done, get a job etc etc You can all say this ain't so, but it IS, whether we like it or not. There's a number of things that can happen to someone when they are good-looking: they become arrogant. They can get somewhat reluctant, irritable too I think, always getting attention. It can even make them insecure, cos no one sees them for who they are, everyone sees the beautiful outside, which must be frustrating to say the least! Some might use their beauty to get what they want. Albeit attention, a job, ppl's favour etc. Others may succeed in becoming empowered and remaining themselves. But I think it is a very very good point! are you saying that attractive people may tend to have a greater sense of entitlement from relying on looks rather than substance? I have seen it work where a man will choose a very attractive woman to date and then complain about her personality....so really whose fault is that? He was relying on looks not on substance and she was probably irritated (as you say) because he wasn't seeing her for who she really is. which is not fair to the attractive person. |
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I think there is a point in the OPs question. Really good-looking ppl get treated differently by other ppl and mostly they have had that experience their entire life. Ppl OOOOH-ing and AAAAAH-ing when they were kids, as they grow up, have the opposite sex drool over them. Often it is easier for good-looking ppl to get things done, get a job etc etc You can all say this ain't so, but it IS, whether we like it or not. There's a number of things that can happen to someone when they are good-looking: they become arrogant. They can get somewhat reluctant, irritable too I think, always getting attention. It can even make them insecure, cos no one sees them for who they are, everyone sees the beautiful outside, which must be frustrating to say the least! Some might use their beauty to get what they want. Albeit attention, a job, ppl's favour etc. Others may succeed in becoming empowered and remaining themselves. But I think it is a very very good point! are you saying that attractive people may tend to have a greater sense of entitlement from relying on looks rather than substance? I have seen it work where a man will choose a very attractive woman to date and then complain about her personality....so really whose fault is that? He was relying on looks not on substance and she was probably irritated (as you say) because he wasn't seeing her for who she really is. which is not fair to the attractive person. I guess that's what I'm saying. It happens a lot. Even with simple things in life. Ppl tend to be nicer and friendlier towards good-looking ppl than they would be towards someone plain or ugly. Good-looking ppl get noticed, they stand out. Doesn't mean all good-looking ppl abuse that, they might suffer because of it. Just depends on personality I guess, but I can imagine some get really frustrated to not be valued for who they are. |
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..ohh..YES the attractive people.
. are as a lot of us refer to them as the pretty people.. are the Barbie dolls. the ken dolls.. get all the attention... .. it is true I have been told.. that being easy on the eyes.. does have its benefits... . I am sure a lot of people.. including myself... when at the grocery store. . will choose the lineup.. with the most attractive man or woman in it.. . come on now be honest.. if there were 4 cashiers open.. 3 where manned by various stages of unattractive people... and the 4th. was manned bu.a very attractive person.... which one have you gone to ? Hmm . . |
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The other side is plain or ugly ppl. Don't mean it judgmental, but some ppl are simply ugly / not good-looking. Gonna stick with "ugly", as it types faster, so not as an offense to no one.
Ugly ppl can also get very frustrated for not being noticed and thus not being seen for who they are. They often also get judged by their looks and not on personality. So they may have to struggle to get noticed so they get a chance in life. Not unlike the good-looking ones, who DO get noticed, but have to struggle that they have abilities, qualities and a personality as well. Both sort of might end up having to proof that to the world. And I can also understand that some/many less GL ppl get somewhat nasty. Can't be nice to always get judged for looks or not even noticed. Esp. in the dating world. If you get it sussed, have a strong personality/character, it won't make jack shite difference anymore. There are plenty of less goodlooking ppl who make it big in this world. But they got charisma (personality, strength, they are empowered). |
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I think there is a point in the OPs question. Really good-looking ppl get treated differently by other ppl and mostly they have had that experience their entire life. Ppl OOOOH-ing and AAAAAH-ing when they were kids, as they grow up, have the opposite sex drool over them. Often it is easier for good-looking ppl to get things done, get a job etc etc You can all say this ain't so, but it IS, whether we like it or not. There's a number of things that can happen to someone when they are good-looking: they become arrogant. They can get somewhat reluctant, irritable too I think, always getting attention. It can even make them insecure, cos no one sees them for who they are, everyone sees the beautiful outside, which must be frustrating to say the least! Some might use their beauty to get what they want. Albeit attention, a job, ppl's favour etc. Others may succeed in becoming empowered and remaining themselves. But I think it is a very very good point! are you saying that attractive people may tend to have a greater sense of entitlement from relying on looks rather than substance? I have seen it work where a man will choose a very attractive woman to date and then complain about her personality....so really whose fault is that? He was relying on looks not on substance and she was probably irritated (as you say) because he wasn't seeing her for who she really is. which is not fair to the attractive person. I guess that's what I'm saying. It happens a lot. Even with simple things in life. Ppl tend to be nicer and friendlier towards good-looking ppl than they would be towards someone plain or ugly. Good-looking ppl get noticed, they stand out. Doesn't mean all good-looking ppl abuse that, they might suffer because of it. Just depends on personality I guess, but I can imagine some get really frustrated to not be valued for who they are. I get what you're saying Crystal and there is truth to it..Beautiful people do have an advantage in certain ways...I remember reading a study years ago that claimed tall people earn? an average of 10% more than their shorter coworkers ...
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..ohh..YES the attractive people. . are as a lot of us refer to them as the pretty people.. are the Barbie dolls. the ken dolls.. get all the attention... .. it is true I have been told.. that being easy on the eyes.. does have its benefits... . I am sure a lot of people.. including myself... when at the grocery store. . will choose the lineup.. with the most attractive man or woman in it.. . come on now be honest.. if there were 4 cashiers open.. 3 where manned by various stages of unattractive people... and the 4th. was manned bu.a very attractive person.... which one have you gone to ? Hmm . . For me it depends on what's in MY cart...Ice cream means shortest line...Plus, we're talking WalMart, not Trader Joe's! |
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