I or someone really should set up a website so people can name and shame the players and jerks who make dating harder for the people who are actually serious about finding someone, sick of being used, lied to and told exactly what i want to hear to get the only thing they are looking for, until they realize that some women/men actually have morals and wont sleep with someone without protection then being told the most ridiculous excuses going. Why cant people be honest nowadays, its not difficult, If your just after one thing why not just say so then you know exactly what to expect and where its going. Saves a hell of alot of time!! Anyone agree!?!

Hmm. Apparently, some things just go without saying.

But I agree.

Someone did that with Facebook a while back, they got sued and lost too. Had to remove all the profiles... It was on the news.

I thought I HaD heard Bout such websites being forced to shut down.

I think we should be selective about the ideas we promote.



What if someone created a website so people could name and shame the players who easily or continually fall for the jerks they let use them?

I think people in the dating arena are pretty savvy when it pertains to the lies they choose to believe simply because they subconsciously hope there's something in it for them to do so.

Men/women that actually HAVE morals can readily distinguish between those who have them too, or not.

And anyone sexually active whether they have puritan or alley cat values should always use protection. If they don't they can't blame the consequences on anybody else but themselves.

Personally, I don't think the jerks make it harder for the players to find someone they can develop a serious relationship with. In fact, jerks make it easier and quicker to recognize behavioral traits we want to avoid from jump street, imo.



Being honest with ourselves about what we're really looking for on a dating site will help to keep those who might only want one thing at arms lengths until we decide its time to accept or decline.

Responsible adults don't see themselves as victims of others games, but as willing participants in the exchanges it takes to discover if another is what we're looking for or not. IMO.

You mention morals in your above-quoted post, but when it comes to morality, different people have different standards.

I didn't realize 'having morals' was linked to 'protection' .... very interesting indeed.

I think my morals are slipping

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Athena covered all the points I would've mentioned.

Nice to see somebody actually gets it, one becomes too used to a complete lack of any adult maturity at dating sites, it's all just teen minds saying teen things that teens would say, but in adult bodies, it's kind of creepy.

Thanks for uncreeping the place Athena! :)

Duct tape is good for slipping morals. Just don't buy that cheap duct tape though because it doesn't protect as well.

sorry that happened to you opie.

unfortunately, certain things are not 'provable' , like how much of a jerk someone is, that is usually hearsay type testimony

however there are other 'provable' type offenses like arrests or lack of child support payments which have websites listing the alleged offenders,,,,

Two words...Privacy policy.

Not many legal loopholes around that one.

If one does not take the time to let a relationship develop before becoming intimate the chances are higher that he/she is not going to be what you are looking for....if the person is too impatient to wait for a relationship to develop before wanting sex, or other things, that is certainly a red flag (in my opinion anyway)

take the time to find out if they are being truthful about wanting a relationship, or if he's just a wolf in sheep's clothing....as it were

If people with morals "wont sleep with someone without protection", then are people without morals the people who do "sleep with someone without protection" and end up having children?

Don't think subjects dealing in public ridicule last very long.

I actually wasn't referring to this forum specifically but to the legal problems with a dedicated WEBSITE for sharing bad experiences with people and using their names,, it opens the door for plenty of lawsuits, because it goes towards libel and damaging reputations,,,

So, in essence your answer to the OP is "No" you don't agree I presume