Topic: younger guys...
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Sat 07/19/14 11:59 PM
It depends on you ...
if you accept me .. thatd be a high pleasure

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Sun 07/20/14 10:37 AM

I believe that it has been scientifically proven that girls develop and mature fatser than boys. For any relationship to work the partners have to be evenly yoked, meaning they are on the same level in most areas. Except for the few exceptions, a younger guy is not gonna be serious about settling with an older woman becuase they are trying to catch up to u. So ladies, if your serious about selttling down and want your relationship to work, it would be my advice, to go for guys the same age or older.

99.9 % i agree with you princess, but 0.1% am sure true love has no barriers.

simpleyetcharminraj's photo
Mon 07/21/14 03:31 AM
That's only reason for me to be here I want some one around ur age to settle with but its been so hard to convince...

graywolf55's photo
Mon 07/21/14 04:35 AM
I can speak only for myself here , but would you rather have a (wham-bam-thank you mam)for 5 minutes,or a olderman out on a mission? Unlimited orgasms to selfsatisfaction? Playing a game or around the world in 80 ways? Just asking??? laugh Mission impossible or Making History? Inquiring minds want to know?

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Mon 07/21/14 05:17 AM

That's only reason for me to be here I want some one around ur age to settle with but its been so hard to convince...


well in this situation experience may work against you. many older ladies, including me, have enough experience with younger men to know that they are not looking for a serious relationship from a much older woman.

I know there are exceptions. Even tho' there may be a few exceptions, larger age gaps usually don;t work for a variety of reasons. It depends on what you are looking for.


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Mon 07/21/14 05:26 AM
According to me age is just a number .i don't think its effect to marriage life .i also like to marry a nice woman .

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Mon 07/21/14 05:29 AM
slaphead good grief....laugh spock

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Mon 07/21/14 05:24 PM
GreyWolf,
I'm not exactly sure what you're asking, but I'll respond by saying this...

I am an idealist.
This has worked against me many times in the past!
BUT... the point of my initial question was to see if there ARE younger guys who are BOTH hot and beautiful, AND mature enough to be ready to settle down and please a woman. With their preference being someone older.

It's not that difficult of a question, considering guys can say "Yeah, I would!" or "No way!"

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Mon 07/21/14 06:50 PM

How many younger guys out there would actually settle down (as opposed to a fling only) with an older woman?
Just curious...


57.6 percent of licensed psychiatrists say that 47.2222 percent of young males want a long term relationship with an older woman....as long as said woman has a boat. She's gotta have a boat man. laugh

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Mon 07/21/14 06:51 PM


How many younger guys out there would actually settle down (as opposed to a fling only) with an older woman?
Just curious...


57.6 percent of licensed psychiatrists say that 47.2222 percent of young males want a long term relationship with an older woman....as long as said woman has a boat. She's gotta have a boat man. laugh
laugh laugh laugh :wink:

Lady9902's photo
Mon 07/21/14 07:06 PM
Lol...thanks goofball.

Now I know!!!!

Goofball73's photo
Mon 07/21/14 07:24 PM

Lol...thanks goofball.

Now I know!!!!



My gift to the world is my extensive knowledge of the stuff you ladies wish you knew. And it can be yours if the price is right. :thumbsup: :laughing:

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Mon 07/21/14 07:28 PM


How many younger guys out there would actually settle down (as opposed to a fling only) with an older woman?
Just curious...


57.6 percent of licensed psychiatrists say that 47.2222 percent of young males want a long term relationship with an older woman....as long as said woman has a boat. She's gotta have a boat man.

rofl i believe that's really the true survey:laughing:

0ldhag's photo
Mon 07/21/14 07:31 PM

Depends on how hot she is. If she's anything like Mrs Robinson then count me in.


See men can be honest laugh

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Tue 07/22/14 03:04 AM

GreyWolf,
I'm not exactly sure what you're asking, but I'll respond by saying this...

I am an idealist.
This has worked against me many times in the past!
BUT... the point of my initial question was to see if there ARE younger guys who are BOTH hot and beautiful, AND mature enough to be ready to settle down and please a woman. With their preference being someone older.

It's not that difficult of a question, considering guys can say "Yeah, I would!" or "No way!"
The reasons for those questions is, i've been with a woman your age in a permanent relationship well at least i was led to believe this. She was flirty and fun (for 1 month) then her personality changes completely (change of life)! Jeckel and Hyde syndrome? I dated her for 6 months and the (hot flashes) supposedly happens? But it was always (in the lovemaking (get it done and overwith)? i believe in taking my time for completely satisfying my partner and myself as well! That's also hard to find at my age. When my Viagra days get here guess mutual satisfaction, compatibility won't be a problem anymore (for me anyhow)! Just saying. Then i will find one to collect my Social Security (just to screw the Government)!

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 07/22/14 08:20 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Tue 07/22/14 08:22 AM

GreyWolf,
I'm not exactly sure what you're asking, but I'll respond by saying this...

I am an idealist.
This has worked against me many times in the past!
BUT... the point of my initial question was to see if there ARE younger guys who are BOTH hot and beautiful, AND mature enough to be ready to settle down and please a woman. With their preference being someone older.

It's not that difficult of a question, considering guys can say "Yeah, I would!" or "No way!"

Shame you don't get anyone to really, seriously answer your question.
I don't think there are many men willing to do so. I've known a couple that was very happy, she was some 18-20 yrs older.
Depends on many factors, including if the guy wants to have children or not.
So I think some would be willing to, but more exception than rule.

I'm beginning to think I should look for two guys: one my age, cos that will work best (same level, similar experiences in life etc etc) and one to keep me happy between the sheets, as most men over 40 start to lose that ability below the belt. (I thought this started approx age 45, but a friend of mine who's been in the dating scene for much longer than I have, says this 'phenomenon' starts at 40, very few exceptions, so you gotta be lucky to find one that can still perform properly).

So my question would be: are there any men my age willing to settle for that (a younger bloke to please me in different ways)? Chuckle.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 07/22/14 08:48 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Tue 07/22/14 08:52 AM



GreyWolf,
I'm not exactly sure what you're asking, but I'll respond by saying this...

I am an idealist.
This has worked against me many times in the past!
BUT... the point of my initial question was to see if there ARE younger guys who are BOTH hot and beautiful, AND mature enough to be ready to settle down and please a woman. With their preference being someone older.

It's not that difficult of a question, considering guys can say "Yeah, I would!" or "No way!"

Shame you don't get anyone to really, seriously answer your question.
I don't think there are many men willing to do so. I've known a couple that was very happy, she was some 18-20 yrs older.
Depends on many factors, including if the guy wants to have children or not.
So I think some would be willing to, but more exception than rule.

I'm beginning to think I should look for two guys: one my age, cos that will work best (same level, similar experiences in life etc etc) and one to keep me happy between the sheets, as most men over 40 start to lose that ability below the belt. (I thought this started approx age 45, but a friend of mine who's been in the dating scene for much longer than I have, says this 'phenomenon' starts at 40, very few exceptions, so you gotta be lucky to find one that can still perform properly).

So my question would be: are there any men my age willing to settle for that (a younger bloke to please me in different ways)? Chuckle.
really?
My experience has been quite the opposite. Men over 40 have always been superior in that realm for me. I have only had a very limited number of partners tho. The best sex of my life was after 40, and I dont date younger. I would truly rather be alone, cuz I like bein with me, than with someone who is not a real match. I agree its a difficult task tho.

Haha, difficult subject as this is PG13, so I can never really explain myself. Let's say men over 40 are usually absolutely great at pleasing women elaborately and in other ways than ...
Thing is, I don't mind other ways, but I do mind if that becomes the main menu. For me 'other ways' are a nice side dish, but I want the main course, with full force. That's where it, well, you know ... lacks, lol.
Not talking viagra cases, but there's something in between viagra cases and the full erm ... potential.

Well, hope you get what I'm trying to say? So if you as a woman can be pleased with side dishes for a main course, no problem. But I am not pleased with that. Find it very disappointing and frustrating.
So currently refrain all-together from encounters. Don't need disappointment in life.

TwinSoulFlame's photo
Tue 07/22/14 08:59 AM
Age is not important , we are all eternal :) . Then consider another guy who would

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 07/22/14 09:48 AM





GreyWolf,
I'm not exactly sure what you're asking, but I'll respond by saying this...

I am an idealist.
This has worked against me many times in the past!
BUT... the point of my initial question was to see if there ARE younger guys who are BOTH hot and beautiful, AND mature enough to be ready to settle down and please a woman. With their preference being someone older.

It's not that difficult of a question, considering guys can say "Yeah, I would!" or "No way!"

Shame you don't get anyone to really, seriously answer your question.
I don't think there are many men willing to do so. I've known a couple that was very happy, she was some 18-20 yrs older.
Depends on many factors, including if the guy wants to have children or not.
So I think some would be willing to, but more exception than rule.

I'm beginning to think I should look for two guys: one my age, cos that will work best (same level, similar experiences in life etc etc) and one to keep me happy between the sheets, as most men over 40 start to lose that ability below the belt. (I thought this started approx age 45, but a friend of mine who's been in the dating scene for much longer than I have, says this 'phenomenon' starts at 40, very few exceptions, so you gotta be lucky to find one that can still perform properly).

So my question would be: are there any men my age willing to settle for that (a younger bloke to please me in different ways)? Chuckle.
really?
My experience has been quite the opposite. Men over 40 have always been superior in that realm for me. I have only had a very limited number of partners tho. The best sex of my life was after 40, and I dont date younger. I would truly rather be alone, cuz I like bein with me, than with someone who is not a real match. I agree its a difficult task tho.

Haha, difficult subject as this is PG13, so I can never really explain myself. Let's say men over 40 are usually absolutely great at pleasing women elaborately and in other ways than ...
Thing is, I don't mind other ways, but not if that becomes the main menu. For me that is a nice side dish, but I want the main course, with full force. That's where it, well, you know ... lacks, lol.
Not talking viagra cases, but there's something in between viagra cases and the full erm ... potential.

Well, hope you know what I mean? So if you as a woman can be pleased with side dishes for a main course, no problem. But I am not pleased with that. Find it very disappointing and frustrating.
So currently refrain all-together from encounters. Don't need disappointment in life.
I hear ya. Ive just had different experiences. little slivers of data dont make for good research I reckon.

My experiences is that for a good main course you gotta go -40, lol.
Just hope that if I do find a man at some point, he won't have that problem, pray to god I will fall in love with an exception to the rule :/
Digressing from the OP, but it's something that worries me greatly as I know the importance of intimacy in a relationship, and many underestimate it.
Maybe I'm just very passionate shades

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Tue 07/22/14 10:24 AM
Digressing from the OP, but it's something that worries me greatly as I know the importance of intimacy in a relationship, and many underestimate it.
Maybe I'm just very passionate


Crystal... We can tell how important this is for you.
Why don't you consider adding it to your profile so as to not waste anyones or your time?

Hope you find exactly what you're looking for... and once you do, hope you can keep HIM satisfied whenever your body changes on ya.